Topic : 09/25 The Dr. Phil House: A Family's Last Chance, Part 2

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Created on : Friday, September 22, 2006, 12:18:43 pm
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Todd and Jessica's marriage had hit rock bottom with restraining orders, physical fights and ugly accusations in front of their three sons. Dr. Phil moved their family into The Dr. Phil House, where he could watch their every move and interaction with each other, and intervene whenever he chose. Within minutes of being under the same roof, Todd and Jessica launched into a marathon fight. Dr. Phil makes his first house call to show the couple how their fighting is affecting the kids. Then, after repeatedly denying that she was having an affair, Jessica has a woman-to-woman talk with a producer. Will she finally come clean? Tell us your thoughts.

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September 25, 2006, 1:49 pm PDT

Dr Phil house part 2

Those three boys should NOT have been in that house when it became apparent that the fighting was escalating. Dr Phil could have dealt with the parents without them present. They have heard enough from past fights and NOTHING will be gained by letting them stay.
 
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September 25, 2006, 1:57 pm PDT

I have a headache

just watching this stuff. I think I am more angry at her reaction when she finally confessed.She was more worried abourt her husband saying something in front of the kids than she was about the act itself. She doesn't the kids to find out? Way too late!  I don't believe one little bit of her remorse, either. She seems to be putting on a big show for the cameras. I hope, if nothing else, that this woman finally figures out that the only one who is fooled is herself. I'll bet money that almost everyone here 'had her number' the first time they watched her. pitiful!

 
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September 25, 2006, 1:57 pm PDT

Why is the mother-in-law necessary?

Ok, I have no sympathy for the wife, but WHY is it necessary to bring in the mother-in-law?  What is this, see how much abuse you can heap on the wife?  Bringing in the MIL is completely unnecessary.
 
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September 25, 2006, 1:58 pm PDT

09/25 The Dr. Phil House: A Family's Last Chance, Part 2

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Malaciah 2:16 God hates divorce.God tells us to forgive 490 times and again and again.I am not a bible shaking person just a human who has problems like everyone else and God sacrificed his son for all of us and we cannot react to unkind words or actions but,what God has planned for all of us and those who don't believe in him ask him to show you he is real and watch for him to appear.We are not to judge lest we be judged by him,lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil.Wake up people.Get off your self righteousness and start humbling yourselves as we are none perfect.listen to Dr. Phil.He never advises divorce.Only to get out if it is a violent situation and we cause you or others harm.

I grew up in a household that was not physically violent, but still unhappy and dysfunctional nonetheless. The best thing my mother ever did was divorce my stepdad. He was in the military, and was simply an a**hole. I don't know how else to put it. The best thing God did is give my mother a brain, and the ability to reason, to tell her to get out, as we children were suffering from all of the fighting.

 

Many petty things are forgiveable, but to forgive an abusive spouse 490 times and let the kids suffer, is simply idiotic. I think we all want to try and make things work: it's the nature of a well rounded and well adjusted human being. But at some point, a good person will get the hell out for the sake of the children. I would use my common sense before turning to scripture.

 
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September 25, 2006, 2:03 pm PDT

last chance

Im sorry but it is so wrong for dr. phil to let those kids stay in that house.  I have seen what is in store for next week and i don't agree that you should be letting other family members  come in and dog the wife.  Yes she did wrong and she will pay for it.  But let her and her husband work on this together if that is what they want to do or brake it off, let them be the only ones in that house to work on it.  Bringing his mother in there to jump her just like it will be with her husband is so wrong. 
 
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September 25, 2006, 2:07 pm PDT

fake

I though I would never feel this strong again.  But as I saw her give her speach, all I could do was cringe.  The only thing she was sorry for was that she got caught.  The tears were for her not him.  She only cares about herself and that he should have the option of telling her just what she is.  That is what her tears are for.  She does not deserve those kids. 

 

I feel nothing for her put pity.

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September 25, 2006, 2:07 pm PDT

sad marriage

what a sad marriage, for todd and jessica, especially the children.  i knew jessica cheated on todd you could tell by her body language.  i really dont think she ever loved todd and she wanted out of the marriage or she would have not cheated no matter how bad it was.  if i was todd i would leave her and request full custody of the children, (ALL THREE) she lost her chance being a mother and a wife.

 

it makes me sad to say that but that is how i feel about her

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September 25, 2006, 2:10 pm PDT

wow

I don't understand this lady. One she completley annoyed me with her drama. She acted like she was so perfect in the first episode. Come to find out now, she did have an affair, and this is NOT the FIRST one. I really hate liars. The husband is not perfect... but how many of you think he is gonna go SUPER crazy when he hears the truth. I think a part of him knows the truth... but hearing it is gonna be so hard for him. Can't wait till next week. And oh how mean to bring in the mother-in-law. ridiculous actually totally putting a lot of, anxiety, i guess you could say? Not called for.
 
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September 25, 2006, 2:10 pm PDT

careful with jugment

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just watching this stuff. I think I am more angry at her reaction when she finally confessed.She was more worried abourt her husband saying something in front of the kids than she was about the act itself. She doesn't the kids to find out? Way too late!  I don't believe one little bit of her remorse, either. She seems to be putting on a big show for the cameras. I hope, if nothing else, that this woman finally figures out that the only one who is fooled is herself. I'll bet money that almost everyone here 'had her number' the first time they watched her. pitiful!

I agree that her actions are wrong and I agree his actions are wrong. But really who are we to judge? No  one on earth is perfect and we all make mistakes.  I have learned a few things from life. One of them comes from my grand-father. He used to say (french expression), "when you spit in the air it falls back on your nose".

 
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September 25, 2006, 2:15 pm PDT

Don't beat yourself up!

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I can relate here. I just found out my husband was having an affair. Everyone talks about Todd stalking his wife but let me tell you when you first suspect an affair going on you do alot of things you never thought you would. And she admits this is the second affair. Not sure I believe it's onlly the second though. When you suspect something going on and they can't admit it, it just makes you go crazy. I made sure I had all the details before facing my husband. Oh yes he denied it to the fullest until I knew dates and times. But now it makes me wonder where there any others. I can't concentrate on anything any more. I am always looking for the signs that he is seeing her again. I loose my temper over the slightest things. We can be watching a show and just one word and it all comes back. We are trying to repair the damage it has done to our marriage. I know we had problems but no way am I to blame for him having an affair. I sure didn't go outside the marriage for comfort no matter what our problems. And maybe just maybe she has turned Todd into the person he is because of these affairs. It would be alot easier if we could just walk away but when you love someone so much. I know it is so hard on me. I tell myself to walk away and end it now but my heart says no that maybe he does mean that promise he gave that it will never happen again. But then how do I get rid of all the anger and mistrust? How do I stop myself from going through all his things and seeing if he's hiding something? Sorry Todd but I can tell by the way she is acting that she is not ready to end the affair and you are better off walking. Hope you have the guts that I don't. Best of luck.
I have been there and I do know how you feel. The one thing you should never lose is your integrity. You have that on your side, at least. So many people try to get even by doing the same thing and all it does is throw them into the same cesspool. The only thing that will help is time and belief that it won't happen again. I understand your anger, too I think everyone reacts that way. You don't say if you have kids. It's not so easy to walk away when kids are involved. I wish that we could give each other a little healing power telepathically. That way, we'd have more than just words to offer you for comfort. If knowing there is sympathy helps, then you have mine.
 

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