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Created on : Friday, September 22, 2006, 12:21:33 pm
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(Original Air Date: 09/27/06) Parents, you might be your kids' drug dealer. They could be getting high from products in your pantry, under your sink, or in your medicine cabinet. Dana says her 16-year-old son, Josh, has been experimenting with over-the-counter drugs. She says he's downed bottles of NyQuil, packs of cold pills and an entire bottle of mouthwash -- all in an effort to get high. See what drastic measures she took to bring Josh to the show. Then, 21-year-old Christina says she can't start her day without taking half a bottle of cough medicine. Her four-year addiction to robo-tripping is spiraling so far out of control, she fears her days are numbered. What will it take for Christina to kick her habit? Plus, a mom whose son died from an overdose of over-the-counter drugs shares her tragic story.  Share your thoughts, join the discussion.

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December 19, 2006, 7:43 pm PST

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Quote From: annthrax

 Whew. If my mother ever called the cops on me, I would waltz out of her life forever. For..ever.

If a parent is honestly thinking this is the best for their child, they have tried everything and things are getting only worse - perhaps their childs life is on the line, I would respect their decision.  Don't forget, unless you are actually in their shoes you don't know what you would do.  The same applies for the child, maybe someday they will thank their parent for saving their life.

 
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December 19, 2006, 7:54 pm PST

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Is it a male?  Is he under 18?  Are you the PARENT?  You have your husband pull your son's penis out of his pants and you sit on his bladder until he pees.  This is not brain surgery.  Perhaps if you didn't want the responsibilities of being a parent, you should have had your half-wit husband take ten more seconds to put a condom over his own penis.
Way to go!!!  I have personally shoved the cup in for the catch.  Female.  It is easier to drag them into the lab.  Usually on the way there you get a confession.
 
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December 19, 2006, 7:57 pm PST

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Quote From: kellibeth

Is it a male?  Is he under 18?  Are you the PARENT?  You have your husband pull your son's penis out of his pants and you sit on his bladder until he pees.  This is not brain surgery.  Perhaps if you didn't want the responsibilities of being a parent, you should have had your half-wit husband take ten more seconds to put a condom over his own penis.
Geez, that was a bit harsh. Stuff happens; condoms break, pills are either missed or ineffective due to other meds, etc. Such is life.

Besides, not all mothers of teenage sons have big strong husbands to subdue their adolescent offspring. Woe to them, is all I can say.
 
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December 19, 2006, 8:42 pm PST

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 Whew. If my mother ever called the cops on me, I would waltz out of her life forever. For..ever.
Fine.  Let me know when you have a teen of your own on drugs and stealing from you and shoplifting, and all the reasoning and talking and therapy doesn't help.  I suppose you'll just let him or her continue.......????  My son and I are very close now, by the way.
 
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December 19, 2006, 8:48 pm PST

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Quote From: resistpsychic

You  called the cops on your kid for doing drugs? Ever tried parenting? Maybe accepting your child? Getting him involved with the police is going to scar him emotionally for life. I almost don't even believe someone could do something THAT screwed up to their child. I'd run away too.

LIKE YOUR KIDS.
Do you have any kids?
 
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December 19, 2006, 10:38 pm PST

desparate parents

I, too, out of desparation-have called the cops on my teens....and CPS, and the mayor, the Pope , God and everybody.....All my pleas for assistance in dealing with an out of control teen just fell on deaf ears...go ahead, get the law involved...it all comes back to the parent, anyway...even if they get any charges, or punishment or , or probation, it's still the parent's responsibility to foot the bill, pay the fines, miss work (income) for appointments, court appearances etc...It still comes down to the same thing---no one gets help or changes their life until they are ready. Rich, poor, black, white, there's no discrimination. Yeah-most of you are correct...it's called parenting...and once you parents have done everything in the book, under the book, out of the box and so forth.....I urge you...call the cops!! call any and every one who will listen....Yell, scream, kick, bite-- act a fool....do what you can to save your child from himself.....they may hate us now, but they should thank us later......if we back down and stand for a bunch of BS, then we've lost them for sure---I don't know about you but I'd rather go down fighting....The only time CPS wants to step in, is when we do act a fool.... I've called and emailed them to come and 'protect' my child--from himself.....it's been 3-4 years and i'm still waiting for services....
 
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December 19, 2006, 10:43 pm PST

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Fine.  Let me know when you have a teen of your own on drugs and stealing from you and shoplifting, and all the reasoning and talking and therapy doesn't help.  I suppose you'll just let him or her continue.......????  My son and I are very close now, by the way.
I've called the cops.....the only time I ever got a meaningful response from the law was the time(or two) that I refused to pick my son up from juvy because I was fed up with the drama....Oh yeah, Buddy!!!! They were pulling out all kind of stops that time....They had to send his little butt to a homeless shelter for youth for 3 days because it was over a weekend and they were desparate....Keep up the good work, parents...and don't be fooled-it's not only a battle, it's a frickin' war!!!!!!!
 
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December 20, 2006, 2:43 am PST

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I doubt this will be read by anyone, but I still must say it. I have been waiting 6 yrs for this issue to be publicly announced, and heard. I have brought it up in various parenting chat rooms and online message boards over the years. I was 15 the first time I took cloricidin. I was 18 when I learned to extract DXM from robitussin. I did it a couple of times. Actually several days in a row. It was unbelievable. What was even more unbelievable was the moment I looked at the person sitting next to me, my friend since childhood, and saw a body with no soul left. That was the last time I did DXM, and I honestly had only done it 4or 5 times. I had just moved back to town, after that night I learned that he had been doing it for 6 months, he watched another friend literally go into a permanant trip to the point that he was facilitated. I watched helplessly as my childhood friend destroyed his mind for an additional 2 months. Then the night came that he attacked me. Almost killed me. He was not born a bad egg. He was raised a gentleman and known for that. Things worked out for this childhood friend. He has a good life now. He has many depression problems and fights many battles within himself, but he is lucky considering the degree of abuse. He did not over come it on his own, he was arrested thankfully. We are 2 of 8. 8 people there the night I first took DXM. 6 were not so lucky as us. I am a recovering addict, and alcoholic, I have been clean and sober for 4 & 1/2yrs. With the exception of a single drink twice a year. I say I am recovering because there will always be that chance of relapse. I have been there. I know.

I am saying thank you now because every minute that these storys make it to the tv, or in the papers there is a chance that another parent will know. A parent will be aware and may possibly prevent someone's childhood friend going through this battle. For so long it was unspoken. Our parents did not know. If it had been spoken a little more, published 6 yrs ago, 6 lives could have been saved. So Thank you. At last Teens will stand a chance.

 
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December 20, 2006, 3:18 am PST

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Quote From: swwhitley

Sometimes you can "parent" and "accept" your child till you're blue in the face - some kids just don't respond and if you are in a situation to where you have done everything you can or you are in danger of being harmed, i agree, i would call the police too, sometimes kids need their eyes open to reality.

What reality is there in the fact that your parents called the cops on you????

I'm 21 and I did things in my life that made me realise if it was'nt for those things I would'nt be here today!  In life we make choices and because we have our personality and we are unique in our own way, it is not up to our parents to make our choices.  If we made bad choices it's our responsibilty to carry the consiquenses. The more our parents go on nagging about stuff the more we will continue to do what we want to.  God gave us to our parents to love, protect and raise us to his image, but God also gave us our own free will and you as parents should know that because you were young once and the world we life in today is not the same as the world you lived in.  We love you very much but sometimes we need to make our own decisions and if it's for worse then let it be it was our decision and if it's beter also let it be! We need to do things in our own way to discover the true me and to discover what our purpose in life is.  You might thing I'm 21 and I know nothing, but hey my life has been hard since I was 4 and it still hurts sometimes.  But I once realized, heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to go, the challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks, but to learn from them.  I hope that every parent reading this will try to understand, it's not that we don't want to listen or that we want to get into trouble, it's just that you had your chance to do with your life what you wanted to do with it, give us a chance to live ours

 
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December 20, 2006, 3:30 am PST

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I watched today's show and this show could have been broadcast right in my own subdivision.  I live in Monroe, North Carolina and we have a group of teens that are doing this very thing, we have formed a neighborhood watch program as a result of this behavior.  These teens are stealing these over the counter medications from area grocery stores, drug stores, etc., they get so high, they can barely walk, they walk thru our subdivision and wreak their havoc at all hours of the day and nite.  They have vandalized property, stolen over $5,000 in work tools and lumber, they confront adults if we are out walking and they will step right in front of your vehicle when you enter the neighborhood.  They have surrounded my vehicle before at a stop sign and one of the teens walked towards my vehicle as if he were going to attack me, the other kids grabbed him and they took off.  The police do their best, but alot of these kids are minors and the rules and punishement for minors is limited.  The part that bothers me is that we have seen these kids out on school nites at 12:00am and later and on the weekends sometimes they stay out all nite, it has gotten so bad that i set up my video camera to record after i go to bed, my vehicle has already been keyed because i am a member of our community watch.  My biggest question is - Where are the parents!!!!!  You cannot tell me that you don't know your child is not at home and when people are coming to your home and telling you that your child is out at 1am and is getting into trouble, why don't these parents accept responsibility for their child?  We have actually gone to some of the parents and told them what is going on, we have been cussed out, we have been told that they do not care what their child is doing and we have actually been threatnened by some of these adults.  They simply either really don't care or the situation has spiraled so far out of control that they don't know what to do.  We are currently trying to get a ordinance passed that will not let them out after 11:00 pm.  We have done everything to try to get this situation resolved, we have even spoken with our Mayor.  We have contacted all stores that have this medication on their shelves and have actually gotten several of them to remove it from their shelves so they cannot steal it, at most places you have to show id to purchase it, that is why they steal it.  Several of the kids in our neighborhood have already been arrested for stealing it.  We have seen a girl get violently attacked over cold tablets.  We need these parents to be involved and help their kids, it frustrates me that they will not accept responsibility for their kids, even when you tell them what is going on.  I could go on and on but it only gets me more frustrated.   If anyone else is having similar problems in your neighborhood and have found a way to get these parents to understand and become involved with their kids lives, PLEASE let me know - Thanks

I live in Concord and we have similar problems...how did you get the neighborhood watch program started?
 
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