Topic : True Love

How did you find a guy over the internet WITHOUT having to join anything ?

You have a great attitude. Enjoy your life and be all that you can be, work on your goals and be happy with your self, we only live one life down here on earth and I believe we are all born with a purpose and I like the saying, "....God ain't finished with me yet". Though I did start dating at a young age, I went several years with out dating and met my now husband at the age of 28 and married when I was 29. He was very much worth the wait. Being the positive and sincere person that you seem to be, I do believe that your true love will come, take your time. I know several women who only dwell on wishing that they were married and thinks about the fear of growing old alone, but to me that is a waste of time, it is one thing to hope and dream and pray that you will meet the one for you but another when it is all you think about. Life is precious and you seem very smart and definetly have respect for your self, I think liking who we are and striving for goals is very imporant. I actually loved being single and had no regrets that I wasn't married, life was good and I accomplished a lot and when I met my now husabnd, it just added more spark to my life. Be yourself and respect life, live life the very best that you can and believe in your self and find that purpose in life, I believe you will certainly go far with the attitude that you have and please know that there is absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin, I think the best thing a person can do, is wait and give your self to your one and only, certainly does work.

I believe in True Love and believe it can last a life time. it takes work, respect, patience, determination, committment and communication and even compromises at times on both people's part, working together is a very imporant key to keep the fire burning. Love isn't always easy but certainly worth the effort. ANd though sometimes it seems like one or the other doesn't want the love to last, I believe that though it takes two to make a marriage, sometimes it only takes one to get the ball rolling meaning sometimes, it may take one putting in most of the effort but I have seen fallen marriages come back together because of the prayers and committment of one person, it is possible to keep true love and it is definetly real.

I say if this guy was abusive to you then you need to stay away from him, don't even try to make it work. You deserve better. no guy or woman for that matter is worth staying with when they are abusive and disrespectful. If this family wants to hate then let em, but you do not have to be a part of it. Life is meant to be lived happily and productive, not to have your self esteem and self worth kicked around. Respect your self, and love your self and don't stoop to these peoples levels, go live life and be happy and count your blessings with the number one being, you are not with this no good guy who is only out to ruin your life.

Love is only what you make of it.  Well that is my own strategy.  I just recently got married in April, and well lets just say I thought/think/know/hope that he is my soul mate.  At this time in my life I am struggling to find myself and am having a hard time dealing with "true love"  I think I have found every possible thing wrong with him.  Its funny the way love works.  I can't imagine myself without him, yet it is killing me to try and keep all of this inside. 

Maybe instead of focusing on all the negative, maybe start focusing on the positive things about your husband. True love can be "real" and for "sure" if you allow it to. Life itself is whatever you make of it. No one is perfect and we all have our flaws but to dwell on the negative is nothing but a waste of time in my opinion, I would much whether dwell on the positive and be happy and do everything in my power to make my marriage and love stronger. It certainly takes the effort to to be happy and to stay in love with your spouse but to me it is well worth my time and energy. And really, if two people are really in love, it really doesn't take hard/depresssing effort, just enough to keep the fire burning. :) After 12 years of marriage, I can honestly say that I am still in love with my husband and even though we have our off moments there is never a doubt in my mind that he is my true and only love. We are happy and have benefitted each other in so many ways. True love is real and can last a life time and it doesn't have to be a "chore" but could be an adventure. I think when it comes to my hubby, he actually has more positive about him then he does negatives and when things doesn't feel like they should and the negative aspect of our relationship does creep up, I replace those thought with happy/positive thoughts and the whole attitude changes, not always easy but it does work and we have a great relationship.

Oh honey bunny... 23 or 24 is NOT old.

 

If you really think about it... age is a state of mind anyway.

 

Personally I think that young folks rush relationships.  I know I sure did. 

 

How about this? 

 

Instead of getting so anxious about meeting someone new, how about just concentrating on being yourself?

 

If you really want to find true love, being yourself and enjoying every minute of your life is EXACTLY the right thing to do!

BRAVO!  Q