My husband and I have only been married for a little over a year. we have son who will be one year old next month. I thought that what we had something real. But for the past few months things have not been great. infact i would say that things have gotten to the point that I would rather not be around him so much. Whenever he would go out with his friends or take over night trips, I would say go and have a good time. for 2 years i have sit at home and would only go out with him. Now I am starting to go out with my friends, working, and having a life. I thought things were fine, he was getting to do what he wanted and I wasn't saying a word to him. And about once a month i would go with my friends, which meant he would have to stay at home with our son. For the past three months everytime we get is a disagreement, he is the first to say, this is over and it isn't going to work. I suggested that we go see someone, get some help and save our marriage before our fighting ruined it. he said that he was not going to do that. I don't know what to do, I really do not want to break up my family, because I want a family and I want my son to have both of his parents there every day. I am starting to feel that maybe divorce is the only answer but I am just scared that I will be viewed as a failure and that if we did get a divorce it may be the wrong answer. In short, I am just really confused. I do things one way and he isn't happy then i do things a different way and he is still not happy. I just really need someone to just help me get things straight and really, just to help me out. No one in my family has really offered any advice, they tell me that it is my problem and to deal with it.
