hello everyone,
it's not easy this was my second marriage. I was with Mr. V. for almost 2yrs, and he proposed so many times but I was nervous. Anyways, one day he seem to be very sincere, and even though there were lots of family issues I said yes. We went to Niagra Falls and did it. BUT THING STARTED GOING DOWNHILL. We had problems with ex getting in our business as I lived in his home in the city of Toronto, his kids started to be different toward me cause of what their mom would fill their heads with about me. After we got married it became even worse. He was abusive somewhat when he was drinking and smoked pot, but that was a few times a week. I thought it would get better the abuse mentally, verbally and physically. Of course the problems with his kids and ex not leaving us be thought that was going to get better as well. Sorry for going on and on, but now we were MARRIED ONLY 6 weeks. In the 6weeks things became worse. His daughter was living with us whom was pregnant and the ex started using her and with help of the daughter and other kids to try to get to ME mostly. Mr. V. started to become abusive, physically now WITH NOT POT & ALCOHOL. So what was the excuse now??? He slapped me across the face one day. Was going to throw a big oak table at me, but was stopped. Now would be paranoid about me calling my sick son whom lived with his dad and started to be obessed. Was he being fair to me??? Was he selfish??? OR was it my fault? Guess what I did??? Let me tell you was not easy. Packed only my personal belonging told him was going to leave he begged me not to leave. The next few days things got even worse with made up stories by his kids. So that Friday when he left for work I LEFT HIS SORRY ASS. excuse my language. I warned him so many times that I did not like the conflict and how I felt about ex coming into his home whenever she please, and threatened me with messages she would leave on the phone. She ruined two of our X-Mass cause she gets very nuts when drinks. Now I am the bad one. I would like everyone on this board that comes across my message to tell me why I feel so guilty??? He would lie about things to me and that got worse, and also did not stick up for me now his wife. At present cause after I left he left some nasty messages and tracked me down and would not leave me alone. It is in court for all he put me through and threats that were made on answer machine and what he is going around still saying about me. All untrue of course, made up b.s. Thanks for all of you listening. What a mistake only 6weeks feel stupid, embarassed, dumb, guilty etc........ Hope to hear from all of you. email me at beauti13@rogers.com xoxo
