Topic : Violence in School

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Created on : Tuesday, October 03, 2006, 03:48:52 pm
Author : DrPhilBoard1
Do the recent school shootings make you fear for your child’s safety? Has your child’s school implemented safety measures? Share your concerns, fears or advice.

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October 4, 2006, 10:38 am PDT

school violence

Yes, absolutely!  I am petrified!  I am currently a teacher, with a young child at home and I'm afraid of what may happen from day to day!  Schools, all schools, need to have security to make everyone feel safe.  No drills will ward off a predator, once they are in, they are in and you don't know what will happen at that time.  Another thing that bothers me is the copycat syndrome that we have going on across the country.  The more and more people hear about what's going on, the more ideas they have.  I mean, don't we have enough crisis going on with the Alqaeida (can't spell it)...why should we have to worry about our own as Americans?
 
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October 4, 2006, 2:50 pm PDT

i cant amagine just how easy it is for some one to just walk in off the streets and open fire on our children

maybe we need to put up a stockaid fence with armed guards all around the schools with razor wire at the top just like our prisons have and have 1 way in and 1 way out, with a security cheack at the gate along with metal detectors at the schools entrance, with armed officers there as well, hell fire when you cant send your children to school with out the fears of a raging murdier getting in wow it relly looks like maybe home school over the internet may be what this world is coming to, no one sure as hell isnt goin to walk in my home and shoot my child i will drop there ass long before they get through my door,
 
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October 4, 2006, 3:23 pm PDT

Recent attacks at schools

 I have a 6 year old in the first grade and next year I will be enrolling my daughter in Kindergarten. When I turn on the news and hear about shooting at schools it does scare me. I fear for my children's safety every moment I am not with them. Its crazy to think that the place I send my child to learn, the place that he is supposed to be safe for  8 hours a day is the one place that I end up fearing the most! You don't know that some student is not going to show up and be mad at a teacher for giving them a failing grade, or mad that his girlfriend dumped him.. or what ever reason they think is logical. My heart goes out to the families effected by the recent shooting in PA. 
 
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October 4, 2006, 4:53 pm PDT

the school shooting that relly sits so heavy on my heart is this one at the amish childrens school

they all worry and bother me but this one just sivkens me to the hilt, for one this man never showed any sighns of having a mental problem? acording to all the news he was a model  husband and father? i dont buy it, thears no way any one can go to bed and wake up the next morning as sick as this man was, he had to have shown some kind of sighns of having a problem of some kind long before this day, and the notes he left his wife would leade you to think that by his actions he was goint to teach god a lesson,becouse he was mad at god? wow

all i know is becouse no one saw this coming or thought he had a problem there are 5 famileys sofar with nomore than there memories of thear little girls, no i wont ever beleive all this just happened over night while that sick bastard slept, and if it did then we need to shut down every school in this country now, becouse every time some sorry S-O-B gets mad at god some one some whear in this country is going to louse thear children,  we can put a man on the moon we can explore space as far out as pluto which i will never see what were suppose to get from that but yet we cant make our schools safe for our kids to attend with out being in fear for there lives, come onnnnnn now this is a lot of bull crap here, what ever it takes we must do, this man that killed those poor amish children was just as bad as those people that flew those planes into the world trade centers on 9/11 and it relly pisses me off to see the news having anything good to say about that bastard, i know its done for his familys sake but what about the amish peoples feelings here, this entire country needs to take lessons from those people starting with me, for they truley have no hatered in thear hearts at all only love and forgiveness, i nolonger need to think of what people will be the first alowed to enter the kingdom of heaven first. its a very good thing they have the forgiveness in thear hearts like they do ,for as of this moment i have none!!! im ready to see evil end on this world no matter what it takes.'`

 
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October 5, 2006, 6:58 am PDT

school days

Everyday that my children leave for school, Ipray that they make there and home safe and in one  piece. I remember when I was in school, I am 35 btw,my father's concern was if I was sneaking and smoking between classes. Now I have to worry if my children are going to come home. What if they do make it home and someone else didn't? That is the scariest feeling a parent can have now a days. It just doesn't make any sense.
 
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October 5, 2006, 11:17 am PDT

copy cat syndrome

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Yes, absolutely!  I am petrified!  I am currently a teacher, with a young child at home and I'm afraid of what may happen from day to day!  Schools, all schools, need to have security to make everyone feel safe.  No drills will ward off a predator, once they are in, they are in and you don't know what will happen at that time.  Another thing that bothers me is the copycat syndrome that we have going on across the country.  The more and more people hear about what's going on, the more ideas they have.  I mean, don't we have enough crisis going on with the Alqaeida (can't spell it)...why should we have to worry about our own as Americans?
I agree with you- the ‘copy cat syndrome’ is a threat to our society. It is so scary. I know that our media has to report these terrible things that happen in our society; but sometimes, it is done in a glamorous fashion, or rather, it is seen by some as a glamorous fashion, and it scares me to death. I wish that it didn’t have to be headline news. I’m not saying that I don’t want to know what is going on in the world, because I do want to know- all I’m saying is that there are sick people watching it, too, and if they already have it in their minds that they want to violate children, they see this as a glamorous way to go out of the world. So sick. 
 
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October 6, 2006, 7:23 am PDT

violence in schools

I agree with all of you posters on here. It is getting way out of hand. And yes, it will be "copy-cated". For instance, the anniversary date of the Columbine Shootings, is now going to be a day that parents, ( most parents anyway) are going to keep their children home from school, due to certain students, every year, wanting to carry out that same day at their own school. This happended last year here in the county where I am from. All of our county schools were on "heightened alert" because of certain students having a "hit list" to do away with other students they did not like. I kept my children home on that day, and will continue to do so. Now as of this year, 911 , students were wanting to make that day a "student skip day" in memory of those who lost thier lives. Now we are looking at the amish shooting at their school. So sad. I really feel bad for the parents who lost thier children on that day. The man who shot those girls will get the death penalty, however, he will get it probably 20 years from now and I think he should get  it now and be done with.

 

My children have to attend public school and I worry about them each and every day. All I can do is put it in Gods hands and hope they come home safe and sound. If it gets really worse in schools, then I will have no choice but to homeschool my kids. I am really afraid of what this new generation will be like in the years to come.

 
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October 6, 2006, 8:56 am PDT

WHATEVER HAPPEN TO JUST WANTING TO GO TO SCHOOL TO JUST "LEARN"?

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I agree with all of you posters on here. It is getting way out of hand. And yes, it will be "copy-cated". For instance, the anniversary date of the Columbine Shootings, is now going to be a day that parents, ( most parents anyway) are going to keep their children home from school, due to certain students, every year, wanting to carry out that same day at their own school. This happended last year here in the county where I am from. All of our county schools were on "heightened alert" because of certain students having a "hit list" to do away with other students they did not like. I kept my children home on that day, and will continue to do so. Now as of this year, 911 , students were wanting to make that day a "student skip day" in memory of those who lost thier lives. Now we are looking at the amish shooting at their school. So sad. I really feel bad for the parents who lost thier children on that day. The man who shot those girls will get the death penalty, however, he will get it probably 20 years from now and I think he should get  it now and be done with.

 

My children have to attend public school and I worry about them each and every day. All I can do is put it in Gods hands and hope they come home safe and sound. If it gets really worse in schools, then I will have no choice but to homeschool my kids. I am really afraid of what this new generation will be like in the years to come.

Things just don't make sense anymore and the fact remains that the country in so many situations is focusing on the wrong issues!! and that children don't even know which way to turn because they don't know who to trust and who to depend upon for positive support, because when our kids go to school the last and first thing on our minds should be I wonder if someone is coming to school with a gun or knife or any type of weapon to harm their child or their best friend???  I homeschooled my daughter for 2yrs and she is now in the 8th grade and sometimes I wonder if that is the right choice because of incidents like this and other things that have happened in the past... Children should not be worrying about things like this, they should be wondering about what to wear the next day, or what their friend is doing or if the test they took made a good grade on it...i was watching the VIEW and Rosie O'Donnell made so good points about guns in general and I agree with her on everything she said, I THINK WHEN PEOPLE ARE ABLE TO GO GET A GUN THEY SHOULD BE ON A LIST WHERE THEY CAN BE CONTACTED ANYTIME TO ALLOW AUTHORITIES TO JUST FOLLOW UP ON THEIR WELL BEING, AND TO SEE HOW OFTEN THEY USE THEIR GUN AND WHY, AND TO SET UP SOMETHING IN EACH CITY OR STATE TO WHERE THE GUN OWNER IS LIABLE TO PAY SOMETHING TOWARDS EVERYONE WHO HAS USED A GUN FOR KILLING ANOTHER HUMAN BEING OTHER THEN SELF DEFENSE WHICH MAY IN TURN MAKE STRONGER RULES AND GUIDELINES FOR PEOPLE WHO DO SELL THEM, BECAUSE WAITING PERIODS AND IDS ARE NOT ENOUGH...!!! SOMETHING HAS TO BE DONE SOON NOT LATER.. THANKS FOR READING...

 
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October 6, 2006, 10:28 am PDT

Schools can only do so much...

to observe and assess all the children in their custody. It really begins at home--parents need to make note of behavioral problems and not just chalk it up to being "a teenager" and ignoring it. These kids that do the shooting are just crying for attention--somebody, somewhere along the line whether its a parent, school peer/teacher, sibling, friend--the kid has probably confided his/her unhappiness to someone who, unfortunately, chalked it up to just venting and didn't take it seriously. Society is just so difficult for kids now--most of the kids I know of are latchkey kids with both parents having to work and kids now being left on their own to do whatever. The rise of DRUGS--not illegal drugs,either, but the DRUGS PRESCRIBED by DOCTORS to kids is overwhelming! My teen daughter tells me all the kids she knows is either on ADHD medication or "antidepressants." We don't know what these drugs to to already hormonal youth. It's such a combination of things but I bet if we had these kids that shoot assessed, most have probably been under some type of influence. It takes a village to raise a child--lets give our time and energy to helping out where we can. Small things like inviting a latchkey kid over after school if you're home could help--befriend kids through Big Brothers/Big Sisters type programs, get involved. One parent might not make a difference, but a lot of parents pulling together sure can. Know your kids' friends, ask questions.  I am just a one district over from the school in WI where the principal was shot and killed--my teen daughter frequents Weston High for sports activities. Don't think violence doesn't touch "small, close-knit" communities. It has and it will again. If everybody can do one small thing, together great things can be accomplished.
 
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October 6, 2006, 7:04 pm PDT

We cannot continue to ignore the chaos

I am a single parent of a six year old second grader. Since the recent school shootings, I cannot decisively say what I am more concerend about. Whether it be the parents speeding through the parking lot and running over our children, the phenominal amount of sex offenders and sexual predators lurking about and living very near our schools, who only a few of them are "registered", the constant concern every school year that my child may not be enrolled in the class of an adequate teacher, or if it is in fact the increasing violence in our schools; from bullying to stabbings to killing. My fear, if I may say I have one, is the destructive and ongoing overshadowing of the emotional, physchological, and intellectual needs of our children.  I think many of us are neglecting the fact that we are not paying attention to our students on a daily basis, but only when an incident occurs in another school outside our community. We have become way too focused on how many pages should be included in a homework packet, and not enough time is spent remembering that these violators are students in these classrooms, and sometimes parents and neighbors of our students, whom we have the opportunity to educate on a deeper level.  We cannot continue to ignore the chaos up until our own children are directly affected. Let's pay attention-the signs are there!
 

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