Topic : Violence in School

Number of Replies: 79
New Messages This Week: 0
Last Reply On:
Created on : Tuesday, October 03, 2006, 03:48:52 pm
Author : DrPhilBoard1
Do the recent school shootings make you fear for your child’s safety? Has your child’s school implemented safety measures? Share your concerns, fears or advice.

User Mood
Peaceful

Message Emote
blank
November 22, 2006, 5:51 am PST

Violence in School

I say to each their own, We are all in the parenting boat together and I for one will continue to teach my children biblical truths and to pray, to learn scripture and to live as Jesus has taught us to. As a Christian mom, that is what I am to do. None of us have guarentees on what our children will be like when they become adults but one thing we can be sure of is that we have taught, guided and encouraged them to follow their hearts, their convictions, to make wise choices, to be there when they question and to provide answers the best that we can, and to give thema  soft place to fall as this is a crazy world and I can only speak for myself as I only know me, I am attempting to do these things for my children, I am a very alert parent which I believe is very imporant and this is why I make sure that every decission I make when it comes to my kids, are of benefit to them as I believe every one on these boards do the same thing, we just all have a differnet thought process and beliefs and we are here to help our children to grow and to be prodictive adults and to develop thier sense of worth and values, some day, our kids will be on their own and we as parents have to lay down those positive vibes and though others might disagree wqith how I do that, I say o well, that's the way life is, none of us are goingt o strive for the gola int he same way but I can bet we all have the same basic goals and int he end, it will be up tot he kids on what directiont hey go.

My kids arelearning to pray,t hat there is a God and they arealso learning that not every one agrees witht hat and there will be a time when they will have to figure this out on their own, but as for me and my house, I will teach my faith and any one who enters my home will respect our homes ways,They don't have to agree but they do have to respect.

have a great Thanksgiving every one, and again to each their own when it comes to raising your kids, enjoy them, life is short.
 
User Mood
Good

Message Emote
blank
November 22, 2006, 12:50 pm PST

Violence in School

Quote From: jettav

No one is saying that gays can't be good people and liove successful lives. I have a firend who is gay and doing very well in life but I do not believe this life style is right in the eyes of God. but because  We are givent he freewill to choose how we want to live our lives then I do not judge but that does not mean I am going to ignore how/what I believe and I am not going to pretend and be a hypocrite to my children, tehy have the right to know, to understand, and to develop their own opinions aboout issues and I have absolutely no problem telling/teaching them the other side of the issue and if they ever brought a book home contradicting our beliefsand lufestyle, you bet, I wouldn't havea  problem discussing it with them, My kids are learning Biblical Truths and values and as all good parents, I teach my kids to think and explore the answers for them selves, they are still a bit young but my 5 year old is one smart gal and she catches on pretty darn quick and I don;t have a problem giving her something to think about.

There's good in all people, but it deosn't make their actions right, there is a differnence between judging and presenting/believing the opposite of some one else. My firned knows that I believe homosexuality is a sin, but I am not his judge, I am his friend, he disagrees with me on several issues but we are still friends and we have been friends for over 25 years. Call it what you want, but Iw ill continue to teach my kids the truths of the Bible and I will continue to explain to them why I believe as I do on issues, I will continue to guide and direct them in teh way they should go and in the end, they will have decissions to make and they will have informationa nd teachings to look back on, They will learn that they do not need to accept the atitude, "that if it feels good then it must be right" They will learn to think for them selves and I am here to help give themt hose resources, it isn't the schools job to sway them into one direction but to teach academics and prepare them to succeed in college, in the work force and in life, I will continue to do my part as a parent....................
i respect that
 
User Mood
Peaceful

Message Emote
blank
November 24, 2006, 6:35 am PST

Off subject, sorry

Quote From: jkstoned

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

man, you self-richous bible thumpers never cease to make me laugh.

 

You would take you're kids out of school because they were given a book on homosexuality?!!

 

There is nothing wrong with being gay, nothing. Gays can be good people and can live very successful lives despite their sexual orientation. They have enough trouble fitting in without you bible thumpers making it worse.

 

We live in a muilticultural society, so learn to accept that. If a man want's to love another man or a woman, another woman, that's fine by me. I'm straight as an arrow, but I have no problem with gays in my environment.

Allright. I am sorry I am the one who got the subject of "violence in schools" off subject here, however, I am going to answer to your post.

 

" You would take you're kids out of school because they were given a book on homosexuality?!!"

 

You bet I would! My children are not going to school to learn about homosexuality, they are going to school to learn how to read and write and do math etc.. If I want my children to learn about homosexuality, I will be the one to teach them that and I will be the one to let them know that it is wrong. They are too young right now to understand it, but it will be addressed. I feel that if the school is wanting to let the children read "King and King" books, the school should let the children read the Bible as well.

 

"There is nothing wrong with being gay, nothing."

 

My opinioin ( since we all have our own) is that it is wrong. period.

Leviticus 20:13

'If a man lies with a male as he lies with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination. They shall surely be put to death. Their blood shall be upon them.

Reading this sentence above for someone like you, is just the same as a someone like me reading the book of "King and King".

I know gays can be good people. Never said they couldnt. I just dont believe in homosexuality. I feel it is wrong.

 

"They have enough trouble fitting in without you bible thumpers making it worse."

 

Each individual, brings upon themselves, their own troubles. I dont mistreat gay people. I acknowledge them and I even have some friends of mine who are gay. That is their choice to be gay, not mine. They know my beliefs and we are all still friends. What makes it worse for gays to be accepted is they push it on everyone wanting acceptance.

 

Glad I brought a smile to your face and laughter to your heart when you read my post and responded.

 
User Mood
Cheerful

Message Emote
blank
November 24, 2006, 11:28 am PST

Violence in School

Quote From: jb7ctx

"As if you can "make" someone be GAY just by reading a book. Oh boy..."

 

Didnt say that. Didnt think that, but since you menitoned that, I feel that Children should not be subjected to gay material. Especially at a young age. Children should not be reading material like that book, in trying to make the children think it is o.k. for a man to marry a man.

 

"some people have their thoughts so messed up don't they?"

 

No. I dont believe it is "my" thoughts that are messed up.

But it IS ok for a man to marry a man.

In real life in this day and age kids ARE going to see gay couples. They are going to see them raising kids, kissing, holding hands and generally enjoying life outside of a closet. I highly suggest you just get used to it.
 
User Mood
Cheerful

Message Emote
blank
November 24, 2006, 12:13 pm PST

Violence in School

Quote From: jb7ctx

Allright. I am sorry I am the one who got the subject of "violence in schools" off subject here, however, I am going to answer to your post.

 

" You would take you're kids out of school because they were given a book on homosexuality?!!"

 

You bet I would! My children are not going to school to learn about homosexuality, they are going to school to learn how to read and write and do math etc.. If I want my children to learn about homosexuality, I will be the one to teach them that and I will be the one to let them know that it is wrong. They are too young right now to understand it, but it will be addressed. I feel that if the school is wanting to let the children read "King and King" books, the school should let the children read the Bible as well.

 

"There is nothing wrong with being gay, nothing."

 

My opinioin ( since we all have our own) is that it is wrong. period.

Leviticus 20:13

'If a man lies with a male as he lies with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination. They shall surely be put to death. Their blood shall be upon them.

Reading this sentence above for someone like you, is just the same as a someone like me reading the book of "King and King".

I know gays can be good people. Never said they couldnt. I just dont believe in homosexuality. I feel it is wrong.

 

"They have enough trouble fitting in without you bible thumpers making it worse."

 

Each individual, brings upon themselves, their own troubles. I dont mistreat gay people. I acknowledge them and I even have some friends of mine who are gay. That is their choice to be gay, not mine. They know my beliefs and we are all still friends. What makes it worse for gays to be accepted is they push it on everyone wanting acceptance.

 

Glad I brought a smile to your face and laughter to your heart when you read my post and responded.

What does the bible have to do with any of it?

Aren't there scriptures about divorce too? Would you take your kid out of school if they were read a story where two people got divorced?
 
User Mood
Good

Message Emote
blank
November 24, 2006, 5:08 pm PST

Violence in School

Quote From: jkstoned

uhhhh...let's get back to violence in schools, here.

 

I didn't mean to start a debate about bible thumpers and gays.

 

"I worked with one but didn't realize it until he and five others were found naked in a motel bed doing their substitute sex thing.  I also know of an older guy that wears diapers now.  That's just pretty disgusting to me."

 

yeah, I find that pretty disgusting too, but oh well, the sexual activities of people are not my concern. I have a fetish for women who urinate in public, i think it's naughty and it turns me on. I know many people find it disgusting...whatever.

 

What happens in people's bedrooms is none of mine or your business or anyone's business.

 

back to violence in schools...sorry for stirring up the debate

you know what?

 

this debate about gays and "bible thumpers" has got me thinking. This does have a lot to do with school violence and violence in general.

 

Violence is the result of unhealthy conflict that has escalated to the dangerous level.

 

Violence is the desparate cry of the unnaccepted and the oppressed. Dylan Clebold and Eric Harris- 2 social outcast who were ostracized for being different.

 

Violence comes from sickness and from people's inability to accept others.

 

The Ku Klux Klan kill in the name of some sick and twisted religious motivation.

Adolf Hitler and his hate for Jews, Slavs and Gypsie, the disabled, homosexuals, anyone who he and his sick followers did not see as "normal" or "superior".

 

School violence is the result of constant torment by bullies.  Bullies are violent because they can't accept those who are different.  We need to accept those who are different.

 

Gay's in highschool and any other school are the target of oppression because of society's immature attitude towards them.

 
User Mood
Peaceful

Message Emote
blank
November 25, 2006, 6:00 am PST

You got a point jkstoned.

Quote From: jkstoned

you know what?

 

this debate about gays and "bible thumpers" has got me thinking. This does have a lot to do with school violence and violence in general.

 

Violence is the result of unhealthy conflict that has escalated to the dangerous level.

 

Violence is the desparate cry of the unnaccepted and the oppressed. Dylan Clebold and Eric Harris- 2 social outcast who were ostracized for being different.

 

Violence comes from sickness and from people's inability to accept others.

 

The Ku Klux Klan kill in the name of some sick and twisted religious motivation.

Adolf Hitler and his hate for Jews, Slavs and Gypsie, the disabled, homosexuals, anyone who he and his sick followers did not see as "normal" or "superior".

 

School violence is the result of constant torment by bullies.  Bullies are violent because they can't accept those who are different.  We need to accept those who are different.

 

Gay's in highschool and any other school are the target of oppression because of society's immature attitude towards them.

Our debate does have alot to do with it also. I think we all will have to "accept the unaccepted" and move on. Gays, bible thumpers, freaks, preps etc... I believe everyone does want to fit in with others but when they cant, they start their own llittle groups and then you have groups against groups, kinda like gangs against other gangs. At my daughters High School last week, there was a woman who came to the school and her sister was one of the students who got shot at the Columbine High School and killed. This woman showed the school footage of some of the kids hiding in the Columbine High School and she talked to all the students about bullying and etc... My daughter said it was a real tear jerker watching all that and listtening to this woman. She also said she believes it really helped alot of students at her school because through out the rest of the day, after the program, the hall ways in the school were absoulute QUIET! Everyone was thinking about that program that lady did on Columbine High School. From what I understand this woman is going to as many schools as she can to get the message out about violence and bullying in schools. " Two thumbs up to this woman"!!

 

Another thing I wanted to add is, I think bullies are violent because they want to be in control. I also think everyone is a target in a school  because there will always be someone who cant fit in somewhere. A High school girl last year at my daughters school, shot herself and died. She did this to herself because she had no friends, couldnt fit in with others. It was really sad. My daughter said that she would always say HI to this girl when she seen her and that this girl would always sit by herself.

 

What my daughter has learned from this program I mentioned earlier is, if you just acknowledge someone by speaking to them or hugging them or even giving them a smile will make a big difference in their day. She said she is going to start taking up for people who are being bullied. No one knows what life is like at someone elses home. Mainly the students who do the targeting.

 
User Mood
Stressed

Message Emote
blank
December 8, 2006, 3:14 pm PST

Voilence in schools!!!

We have a teacher at our school well I wonder if he has anger managment issues cause one day he got mad at this kid and pushed a kid in there desk over and well yeah that desk knocked the one beside it down and that desk fell on me so yeah I wonder if my English teacher has anger issues. But yeah I could use anyone's opinion so yeah let me know if you have one.

 

Thanks

Whitney

 
User Mood
Peaceful

Message Emote
blank
December 8, 2006, 6:10 pm PST

Violence in School

Quote From: imcool

We have a teacher at our school well I wonder if he has anger managment issues cause one day he got mad at this kid and pushed a kid in there desk over and well yeah that desk knocked the one beside it down and that desk fell on me so yeah I wonder if my English teacher has anger issues. But yeah I could use anyone's opinion so yeah let me know if you have one.

 

Thanks

Whitney

You need to report the incident to the principle as well as the school board, even if it is through an unsigned letter. If these incidents are not reported then nothing can be done.
 
User Mood
Cheerful

Message Emote
blank
December 10, 2006, 11:27 pm PST

Violence in School

Quote From: imcool

We have a teacher at our school well I wonder if he has anger managment issues cause one day he got mad at this kid and pushed a kid in there desk over and well yeah that desk knocked the one beside it down and that desk fell on me so yeah I wonder if my English teacher has anger issues. But yeah I could use anyone's opinion so yeah let me know if you have one.

 

Thanks

Whitney

I agree with Jetta. He needs to be reported. Knocked a desk over is very dangerous even with no one in it.

Report this to your principle and to your parents now.
 

First | Prev | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 | 6 | 7 | Next | Last