Quote From: kersten90210Women need to know that Breast size is important to men, in the United States.
If women think that is superficial male thinking, they may be right, but that is the way we are made and conditioned in our society.
As an educated, strait adult male,
I want for women of all ages to know that LARGE BREASTS are NOT attractive to a lot of men.
One day I realized that most of my guy friends at church are married to women with smaller, even than average, breasts.
In fact, it appears that women I see at church with smaller breasts, seem to find husbands more easily than the women with larger to medium size breasts.
What does that mean?
As further proof of this discovery, I heard a discussion in the mens locker room at a Ballys health club where about a dozen guys were engaged in completely destroying the myth that all men are attracted to Larger Breasts.
The conclusion and consensus was that normal men are supposed to be attracted to large breasts.
I was relieved, because I had always thought there was something wrong with me, because I found larger breasts so Un-attractive.
I have read that a majority of educated and or religious men tend to be more attracted to women with smaller breasts, or maybe just more willing to admit to their preference.
The research I have seen also says that 34C is the average size of womens breasts.
Once up on a time, I was out on a blind date with a woman whose breasts were larger than I prefer.
She seemed to be trying to get me to appreciate them.
I dont remember specifically how she got us into the subject, I usually would not be so blunt or personal on a first date.
But finally when I could no longer avoid stating my opinion, I said I was usually attracted to smaller ones.
Then with disbelief in her voice, she wanted to know that I was really serious.
After awhile she excused herself, and when she returned, her chest was considerably smaller.
When she noticed that I noticed, she asked is that better?.
I just smiled and she seemed happier.
I would have married that one, if she had not died.
In my opinion I think women might consider increasing their breast size only if their husband asks for it,
and not before they are married.
It seems so obvious, and Wise, that Reconstructive Breast Augmentation and any other plastic surgery to correct deformities should be kept a minimum while a child or young womans body is still growing.
It's really sad to see teenagers, and adult woman who had their breasts enlarged to sizes that don't match the rest of their bodies! Never mind, that I haven't seen a Boob Job yet -- that looks natual. The complications that can result are horrible, and can seriously end-up being a serious health problem for these woman. Thier "self-image" and "self-esteem" may be ehanced but at a high cost to them. Whose to blame? The media, fashion industry, and our culture. We're are sexulalizing our young females too early -- and they are imulating the wrong values. It's all about the "wrapper" and our culture is not promoting healthy lifestyles, or concentrating on developing the "inner beauty" and self-intellegence of woman. The size of one's boobs is front and center. [ No pun intended.] Thus -- this message that is constantly repeated and re-enforced has to be replaced common-sense.
Of course, there are medical reasons to have one's beasts reduced such as Breast Augmentation or to correct real deformaties; and there is a very small precentage of woman who do not develope any breasts, at all - and they would be canadates for breast implants, along with woman who have had breast cancer and need breast reconstruction. However, for woman whose breasts are within the a normal size -- however enlarging them to unnatual sizes is just plainly pitiful.
A husband whose marreid a woman -- and is unhappy with the size of her breasts, and wants them enlarged for his pleasure -- needs get his head examined. Too strong a statement? I don't think so. Women who are hung-up on the size of their breasts and feel that if they were only "bigger" they would get more attention -- also need their heads examined. Just exactly what kind of attention are these woman seeking? The sexestest woman on the planet are woman who are self-confident, intellegent and whose beauty radiates from within and possess a beautiful spirit and makes the most of the attribtues [ both physical and internal] she posseses, natually. She is selfless and is focused on being the best person she can be in all areas of her life. She is well balanced, realistic and competent.
The "Wapper" ages and changes constantly. However, the "core" doesn't age but becomes firmer and more refined with age. Clue: All Boobs sag with time including the fake ones. Unless your livelihood depends on the size of your boobs --- then age with grace, and develope your mind, exercise your body and conscribe to a healthy, mental, spritual and physically active life-style. And find a mate who also loves you -- more then the Wapper but also lives with the same core values. Remembering -- If everything is all about the "Wrapper"...when do they generally end up eventually? Tossed into trashcan.
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