Topic : Love Being Single

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Created on : Friday, July 01, 2005, 05:07:56 pm
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Are you single and loving it? Share your story with other happy singles!

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January 26, 2008, 2:13 pm PST

same here

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YES, I HAVE FOUND THAT BEING SINGLE IS GOOD.  AS I GET OLDER I AM LESS AND LESS WILLING TO "SHARE" OR FEEL LIKE I HAVE TO FULFILL THE MOTHER/HOUSEWIFE ROLE. 

IT WAS HIGHER EDUCATION THAT FINALLY CONVINCED ME TO DIVORCE MY HUSBAND.  I LEARNED THINGS THAT LEAD ME TO REALIZE THAT MY MARRIAGE WAS OVER--I DID NOT LOVE HIM ANYMORE.  I HAD BEEN "FAKING IT" FOR YEARS.  HE DID NOT RESPECT ME, NOR I HIM, WHICH I BELIEVE IS AN AXIOM OF A UNION. 

I HAVE NOT MET ANYONE ELSE THAT I WOULD EVEN CONSIDER DATING, LET ALONE SHARING MY LIFE WITH.  I KNOW THAT I AM MISSING SOME OF THOSE LOVELY MOMENTS THAT CAN HAPPEN BETWEEN A COUPLE BUT THAT RIGHT PERSON IS ESSENTIAL.  AS THE DOCTOR SAYS, "I'D RATHER BE HEALTHY ON MY OWN THAN SICK WITH SOMEONE ELSE."

THANKS FOR LISTENING

 I ahve found it good to be single also, but I to miss the closness of another. Just the talking or the walks. I am sure some day I will have that again. right now I am having to leran about myself, and just try to get out so I don't go crazy. I have found that we as people in my opinion just give up on things to soon. I also feel that some times we feel changing people to what we want from then rather then enjoying who they are. I feel that to see the persons ways, and there individual things they are made up. I have tried to learn them, and except them for who they are. I have had some tough relationships that seemed they tried to change me to there liking rather then to except me as me, and to love me as me only. Well maybe there is a special person out there that will need me like I am, and not think os ways to change me. I think this is the biggest problem with todays relationships. I also feel it's lack of respect for the other to. I feel it's a shame that it's this way. I long for a life long relationship with her someday. thanks for listening.
 
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May 18, 2008, 8:13 pm PDT

Seeking Intellectual Stimulation

When I was in college I used to read so much. now I feel like I spend my whole mind trying to be productive, but miss that stimulation that I would get. anyone have any tips for how to incorporate more intellectual activity into your life?
 
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May 24, 2008, 7:46 pm PDT

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When I was in college I used to read so much. now I feel like I spend my whole mind trying to be productive, but miss that stimulation that I would get. anyone have any tips for how to incorporate more intellectual activity into your life?

I really love taking a walk to the Chapters/Indigo/ or big retail bookstore near my place and just curling up on one of those really comfy chairs and grabbing a random book and sipping a hot chocolate with whipped cream :P

 

Not that I'm a total introvert, but this sort of time really lets you relax your mind, and press pause on your regular stress/drama

 

If you're not used to reading books, start off with fiction first, it might get you in the mood. If you want something intellectually stimulating, first find out what topics you'd be actually interested in knowing more about, or something that you identify with.

 

If you're somebody who likes to theorize about your life, choosing a modernized easy to read short book on psychology would be great; if you're someboyd who's religious but doesn't know enough about your own religion, choose a small easy to read book preferably with pictures and colours or large print about history, or theories, (it depends on what you like)

 

The key is, always start off with something simple or you'll be scared away and not read anything, and progress slowly. And I don't go inside a bookstore or a library unless I know that it has comfy chairs  or a sofa, and maybe a coffee shop ;)

 

A good suggestion would be asking your friends or asking somebody who works at the bookstore what would be a good book to start off with for somebody newly interested in _____(insert topic here)_____ and that you don't want to be scared off by something too academic.

 

Making friends with people who are a lot of fun, and a good laugh but  like to talk about intellectual things as well can also be motivating, because you're learning but you also want to contribute to the conversation, so you want to learn more.

 
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May 24, 2008, 7:49 pm PDT

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one more thing, if you have kids and you're too busy to do this, don't read the book ini the store or the library -- go to the librarian or somebody who works at the store directly, and ask them about easy to read books on something you're interested in.... they're really helpful

 

the friends thing still works if you have kids -- you can also read the newspaper for a few minutes each day, once  you've started to skim headlines, you can have more patience in reading for longer periods of time.

 
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June 11, 2008, 9:44 pm PDT

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I am a male in my early 20's and have never been in a relationship. I am attracted to women there is no doubt about that but I have never felt a compulsion to hit/flirt with women and in fact have rejected several womens sexual advances, I want to be in a relationship, but for whatever reason just can't any thoughts.
 
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June 17, 2008, 9:37 am PDT

Love Being Single

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I really love taking a walk to the Chapters/Indigo/ or big retail bookstore near my place and just curling up on one of those really comfy chairs and grabbing a random book and sipping a hot chocolate with whipped cream :P

 

Not that I'm a total introvert, but this sort of time really lets you relax your mind, and press pause on your regular stress/drama

 

If you're not used to reading books, start off with fiction first, it might get you in the mood. If you want something intellectually stimulating, first find out what topics you'd be actually interested in knowing more about, or something that you identify with.

 

If you're somebody who likes to theorize about your life, choosing a modernized easy to read short book on psychology would be great; if you're someboyd who's religious but doesn't know enough about your own religion, choose a small easy to read book preferably with pictures and colours or large print about history, or theories, (it depends on what you like)

 

The key is, always start off with something simple or you'll be scared away and not read anything, and progress slowly. And I don't go inside a bookstore or a library unless I know that it has comfy chairs  or a sofa, and maybe a coffee shop ;)

 

A good suggestion would be asking your friends or asking somebody who works at the bookstore what would be a good book to start off with for somebody newly interested in _____(insert topic here)_____ and that you don't want to be scared off by something too academic.

 

Making friends with people who are a lot of fun, and a good laugh but  like to talk about intellectual things as well can also be motivating, because you're learning but you also want to contribute to the conversation, so you want to learn more.

To add to these great suggestions, I'd like to recommend a book: Harmonic Wealth by James Ray. It deals with all five pillars of your life (financial, relational, mental, physical, and spiritual) and shows you how to create true wealth (as in well-being!) in your life. The very practical applications have made a big difference in my life – and could do the same for you.
 
I'm obviously a pretty big James Ray fan.

Here’s the link: harmonicwealth.com/read
 
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July 1, 2008, 4:15 pm PDT

Being single is perfect

I like being single. and I think that it is better to live without someone to care about and think of. I dont like resbonsbilities. Having a close friend is something I hate. because when he/she cheats on us. we will be broken inside and will not trust people again easly. That doesnt mean that I dont have friends,It means that I dont have close boyfriends or girlfriends. I was cheated before and I dont want to live the same experiance again. If I want to tell any one about my problems, I will find no one but my mom. the only one who will never hate me

 
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August 31, 2008, 8:23 pm PDT

I love being single!

I love being single. I can come and go as I wish. I don't have to think "what will he think,say or do if I go and do this??" I can go out polka dancing if I wanted to and it would be ok. Nobody to argue with. No one to give me a hard time. Besides they say marriage is an institution well who on earth wants to be in an institution?? I would rather be on my own. I love being independent. Can do and say as I want. I got GOD,Family and Friends and thats all I'll ever need. I don't need a man to get on with my life. A man will not complete me for I'm already completed. I just love being single and I can not lie it's a fact that I can't deny.
 
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September 19, 2008, 2:27 pm PDT

I love being single

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I love being single. I can come and go as I wish. I don't have to think "what will he think,say or do if I go and do this??" I can go out polka dancing if I wanted to and it would be ok. Nobody to argue with. No one to give me a hard time. Besides they say marriage is an institution well who on earth wants to be in an institution?? I would rather be on my own. I love being independent. Can do and say as I want. I got GOD,Family and Friends and thats all I'll ever need. I don't need a man to get on with my life. A man will not complete me for I'm already completed. I just love being single and I can not lie it's a fact that I can't deny.

AMEN!!!!! Why does everyone think you need someone else to make you happy? I'm single, happy and have a very peaceful life. Everyone that's in a relationship complains all the time and then they ask, "Aren't you lonely"? I tell them "What is lonely"? I like my own company and when I want company I can pick up the phone. I'll tell you when I was lonely, and that's when I was married!

Nobody ever talks about happy single people. We do exist!!!! God bless you,
 

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