Topic : Online Dating

I see a lot of profiles that arre titled "honesty...." or "looking for a good relationship" or "tired of games".  It seems women are looking for honest and trusrworthy guys that can communicate.  Well, I was honest and I said so.  Is that not communication?  Can someone help me understand what I am missing?  my SN on match is schmoopiesmiles.

thanks

I have done a lot of online dating and read quite a few profiles.  One thing I noticed about your profile is to proofread it and correct the mistakes.  I know that sounds silly but I look at that when I am searching. I make mistakes in mine all the time and have to change it since I make grammatical mistakes that I don't notice from the beginning.   Also girls like a sense of humor so I would add a few quirky comments and not be so serious. 

Those are my only suggestions. 

Good luck!

I know what your going through. After my divorce from a guy I meet online. I started meeting guys online again. I dated one guy for about 3 months, found out he was talken to other women. He told me they where his ex. I said whatever, you need to go! I'm not playing that game. A couple months went by and he wanted to go out with me again telling me I'm the only one. I gave him a 2nd chance. He had a myspace page and I was leaving him message. Funny thing! A girl on his page message me asking me who I was. I told her I'm his girlfriend, needless to say he was trying to date her too. Told him I'm done! Me and her became friends LOL...

What I am trying to say to you is, don't give up on online dating. It does work! Like I said I married a guy once from online. Yeah where divorced but things happen. Anyways! Once a cheater always a cheater! You will never be able to trust him. What is a relationship without trust!? Yes it will be heartbreaking for awhile! You will get through it!

It really doesn't matter where you meet guys. They are all the same no matter what. They tell us what we want to hear. It's a chance we take. Life is full of chances. You have to be the strong one! If it will help having a friend with you, so this way that person can be like ok you said what you wanted to, let's go! Especially if he starts saying things, I love you, I want you and only you. Cause your heart is going to be like he still loves me, ok! Like I said that's what we want to hear, and our heart is like he wants me :) No he don't ,cause if he did, he wouldn't of cheated!  Good luck with whatever you do! T

I know I may seem "old fashioned", but do unto others as you wish they do unto you.  That is a simple rule.  you lie or cheat, than expect it in return.  Seems like many women are just as bad as guys.  I admit that guys have affairs 60% of the time, and women only 40%, but I am wondering if guys are really worse, or just more willing to answer the survey.  If a guy cheats, he needs a woman to do it with.  I think both men and women are responsible for the problem of cheating.  I know it will always happen, but if the women in this world were not so quick to "give it up", then guys would be less likely to cheat.

Like the old saying goes "why buy the cow, if you can get the milk for free"

I know what you are going through. I wouldn't give him another try that's for sure! I been through the same thing pretty much, but the thing was he didn't tell me he was really interested in this woman that we where both friends with over the computer. When he told me that he wanted a divorced and I asked him where the hell was he going to stay, he told me ohio! Well needless to say that is where this other woman lived! Of course I flipped out! I use to talk to her like we where sisters. She never told me about what my ex was planning on doing. When I found out I im'ed her and say you are such a B! How could you do this to me? She was like I tried to warn you by saying how good of a guy he was and don't mess it up. I was like what the hell did that mean? So I said to her why couldn't you tell me what he was doing? Why couldn't you tell me he was trying to get with you? Anyways! They are married now and I been divorced from him about 5 yrs. Once in awhile he will still email me and tell me he doesn't forget about us. I told him to worry about his life now, cause there is no coming back to me!

So don't far for his I love you still. Especially since he told you he has feelings for this other woman! Move on! There is someone for all of us somewhere in this world. T