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Topic : 06/07 Backstabbing Sisters

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(Original Air Date: 10/26/06) Backstabbing takes many forms –- lying, spreading gossip and fueling nasty rumors. Dr. Phil’s guests say the ultimate betrayal didn’t come from a stranger, but from their own flesh and blood! Stacy accuses her younger sister, Christy, of being a traitor. She says Christy reported her and her husband to Child Protective Services for allegedly having child porn on the family computer! Christy sticks to her story, and vows to help put her sister and brother-in-law in jail. How far will she go? Stacy’s 16-year-old daughter claims her Aunt Christy is a liar, and says she’s ruining their family. Can these two sisters overcome the conflict between them, or is their relationship at the point of no return? Share your thoughts, join the discussion.

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October 26, 2006, 8:02 am CDT

10/26 Backstabbing Sisters

Christy really needs to have her head checked. I was furious watching the show today because her noe her husband had any remorse for what they were putting her sister and family through. I did'nt believe what she was saying and I think if she keeps up with her actions the police should put her in jail. She needs much prayer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 
October 26, 2006, 8:07 am CDT

family violence and state investigation

I know for a fact that the organization that investigates against child violence in the home can be hidden by the family.  I turned in a family on the violence and they hid it very well. (her bio mother died when she was 12)  They asked questions infront of the father and step mother and the step mother was the one that was causing the problem and the father just went along.  The child was very worried that she would be in trouble with her family.  Since the organization did not find anything it was dismissed.  So here is the follow up.  The child has tried to committ suicide 2x and on the second try her father sent her to a cousins in another state. Thank God she did not succeed in her attempts.
 
October 26, 2006, 8:37 am CDT

im not sure if we will ever see the results i hoped to see them today but not enough time i guess.

Quote From: mimaof2brats1

thats what i would like to know they said they would let us know what the test would say  do we have to wait till friday i am really curious to know the results of this i dont know who is lying but why wasnt the husband of the other family there? can he not defend himself here is his job so much more important children are afraid to say the truth as losing their parents and going into foster care is terrifying and they will cover up anything to save their family and stay together
but im incline to go with my heart here.too many investagoins done not to come up with any thing and as far as the computer gose she said it was 6 years old and what i also would add if it were bought second hand it could have had porn in it long before they ever got the computer. and as for the dad looking at porn i relly think there isnt a man in this country who can sit and say with a true heart that they have never looked at it.hell in my youngar days i looked at it.not in front of children tho. at stag parties. and on the internet as well. again tho not in front of any one .but i learnd fast that porn on the net will mess up a computer fast.i dont go there now. i have this computer set not to even pull a nude pic in and open it.as for a second hard drive gose it was unpluged the other sisters hubby said. sooo no danger of any child even having acess to it.but that dosent prove dad did it.hell her hubby was the computer expert here whos to say he didnt download it it can be loaded into a computer and made look like it was done at a much earler date.! so im not too fast to jump on little sisters banwagon here.now had they had the police remove the computer and look yeah then.you know police do have experts that can find things no one eals ever saw or deleated .why did little sisters hubby have tobe the one to cheack out the computer.hmmmmm. i do smell a rat here.
 
October 26, 2006, 8:42 am CDT

yeah but i have to go with moms side here tho

Quote From: cricket872964

I know for a fact that the organization that investigates against child violence in the home can be hidden by the family.  I turned in a family on the violence and they hid it very well. (her bio mother died when she was 12)  They asked questions infront of the father and step mother and the step mother was the one that was causing the problem and the father just went along.  The child was very worried that she would be in trouble with her family.  Since the organization did not find anything it was dismissed.  So here is the follow up.  The child has tried to committ suicide 2x and on the second try her father sent her to a cousins in another state. Thank God she did not succeed in her attempts.
yeah you could keep 1 or maybe 2or even 3 kids quiet but 7 no way. hell i came from a family of 7 living children and you can bet your top dollar when something was wrong one of us would talk. yeah no way she or he could keep 7 quiet.
 
October 26, 2006, 8:43 am CDT

The difference

Quote From: cricket872964

I know for a fact that the organization that investigates against child violence in the home can be hidden by the family.  I turned in a family on the violence and they hid it very well. (her bio mother died when she was 12)  They asked questions infront of the father and step mother and the step mother was the one that was causing the problem and the father just went along.  The child was very worried that she would be in trouble with her family.  Since the organization did not find anything it was dismissed.  So here is the follow up.  The child has tried to committ suicide 2x and on the second try her father sent her to a cousins in another state. Thank God she did not succeed in her attempts.

There is much abuse that goes unaccounted for.  Whether over looked or just looked away from.

The difference between the people in your story and the family on the show is that the children are not crying out for help.  They are not telling their friends or being abusive to others.  I will say that I believe that because of the integrity of Dr. Phil himself.  He and his staff would know to look in these areas and make sure they know what is going on.

We all have to be diligent in both those that are doing harm to our children with abuse and those that are accusing others falsely.  It does not do children any good to have someone accused of something that they have not done.

 
October 26, 2006, 9:12 am CDT

one thing i have to coment on.

when christy told america her yahoo account pass word was her husbands name lol yeah christy you relly need to take dr phils advice and change it now for sure  lol gosh that was relly a dumb thing for you to do after making such a point to complane about big sis supposley hacking your account.didnt look like to me you relly care who uses it now as long as it isnt big sis. wow hun you relly should but out of your sisters life if all you have to go on is your thoughts .dont keep making it impossable for your sister to provide for her children.to do that is child abuse all bu its self.your complants havent done nothing sofar but make your sis look bad and cost her a business. and if nothing you say can be proven stop making it a point to show every one at any cost. hell i worry about you! you need help. go see a pro. i do think your over paranoid here.
 
October 26, 2006, 9:15 am CDT

I am # 3 of 3

I am the youngest of three daughters.  There are 8 children in all.  Us girls are right in the middle.  I do not have a close relationship with my sisters because they have emotional issues of their own.  One sister will distort the truth to make things make sense so that she can  actualize her fears.  I think that is what Christie is doing.  I will say that my sister has said many of the same things that Christie has and believes with her entire being that she is the only one fighting the true fight.

My other sister is not in a constant state of paranoia, but does tend to accuse others of sexual misconduct when she needs to see them as bad people.

I do believe that both of my sisters as well as myself were abused when we were young.  I also believe that my older brothers were as well, and suffer because of it.

I have been deeply hurt by my sisters accusation of myself and have become very skeptical of their accusations of others.

The terrible truth is they don't see how they are hurting others, and feel vindicated by talking about their fears of what others are doing regardless of the fallout.

This is a sad sad situation.  There are to many families that are living with these horrible secrets.

The only other point that I would like to bring up is that it is likely that Christie was abused by someone other than her mother, but her anger at her mothers inability to protect her has caused her to project that abuse on to her mother.  If the first thing that Christie could think of was how badly it hurt for her mother to over trim her nails and then apply alcohol, then I would wonder what happened before.  Nevertheless, Christie is a terribly distraught person that needs some intense medical attention.

I wish them all the best.

 
October 26, 2006, 9:22 am CDT

10/26 Backstabbing Sisters

Quote From: afraid

but im incline to go with my heart here.too many investagoins done not to come up with any thing and as far as the computer gose she said it was 6 years old and what i also would add if it were bought second hand it could have had porn in it long before they ever got the computer. and as for the dad looking at porn i relly think there isnt a man in this country who can sit and say with a true heart that they have never looked at it.hell in my youngar days i looked at it.not in front of children tho. at stag parties. and on the internet as well. again tho not in front of any one .but i learnd fast that porn on the net will mess up a computer fast.i dont go there now. i have this computer set not to even pull a nude pic in and open it.as for a second hard drive gose it was unpluged the other sisters hubby said. sooo no danger of any child even having acess to it.but that dosent prove dad did it.hell her hubby was the computer expert here whos to say he didnt download it it can be loaded into a computer and made look like it was done at a much earler date.! so im not too fast to jump on little sisters banwagon here.now had they had the police remove the computer and look yeah then.you know police do have experts that can find things no one eals ever saw or deleated .why did little sisters hubby have tobe the one to cheack out the computer.hmmmmm. i do smell a rat here.
I did not ever touch the pc.  I had a Certified Computer forensic examiner do the fow.  He found over 20,000 peices of porn on the 2 different hard drives.  a large portition of which was child porn. 
 
October 26, 2006, 9:29 am CDT

i my self think christy is taking a phone call about a porn video found in the trunk of a car a bit over board here.

and i must add has christys sister got children males to be more to the point old enough to use the computer?if so they must be in school and if so has she ever thought about a childs quirousty?dont think for 1 sec that children these days cant run circles around adults. i know my son can me. and im no dummy nether. i can progam this one with no trouble and i can block porn with out any problems as well. but if my kid wanted to access it he could.hell he can take this computer apart and put it back togather with his eyes closed. so dont think a child cant look at and save things here. they can and they do know how to cover there tracks as well.so i wouldnt rile out these possibalitys here.and i wouldnt be makingall the calls you are making .back off if all you have is what was shown ondr phil today.dont turn your owne sister aganst you. that is something you will be sorry in years to come.
 
October 26, 2006, 9:51 am CDT

what i relly cant figure out is this

why wont the law makers out law all porn. hell if we dont want people to look at it remove it from the store shelves and the internet.stop it in its tracks i honestly think all this porn is what is causing more and more children to be sexualy abused. christy instead of going after your owne sister why dont you put all your efforts in to trying to put a stop to porn all to gather? you will get more people in this country to back you up on that .but no one relly wants to see a sister ruein her sisters life this way i for one sure as hell dont. try what im talking about ill back you there and hell dr phil probley will as well by helping set up a stop porn web site so we all can have a voice on this issue. please leave your sis alone here. get them on your side. you know in showing the goverment just how many people are aganst porn of any type you will be amazed at what you can stop.hell look what mothers aganst drunk drivers have acompleshed just by bannin togather. remember thers strenght in numbers
 
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