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Topic : 06/07 Backstabbing Sisters

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(Original Air Date: 10/26/06) Backstabbing takes many forms –- lying, spreading gossip and fueling nasty rumors. Dr. Phil’s guests say the ultimate betrayal didn’t come from a stranger, but from their own flesh and blood! Stacy accuses her younger sister, Christy, of being a traitor. She says Christy reported her and her husband to Child Protective Services for allegedly having child porn on the family computer! Christy sticks to her story, and vows to help put her sister and brother-in-law in jail. How far will she go? Stacy’s 16-year-old daughter claims her Aunt Christy is a liar, and says she’s ruining their family. Can these two sisters overcome the conflict between them, or is their relationship at the point of no return? Share your thoughts, join the discussion.

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October 26, 2006, 12:44 pm CDT

10/26 Backstabbing Sisters

Dr. Phil reads a statement from Christy and Stacy's mother: "She said: ‘I never physically abused Christy. I don’t know how to abuse a child. Christy was a pleasant child and gave us no reason to discipline her. Torture is a ridiculous word. Christy is my daughter and I will always love her. It was Christy’s choice to break off communication.’"

Christys step-brother and step-sisters  disagree with the above statement.
 
October 26, 2006, 12:46 pm CDT

I agree

Quote From: fourtogo

 I just wanted to make a comment  about the porn that the brother-in-law found on the computer. We had to have our computer fixed by a professional computer technician not long ago. When he returned the computer, he stated that we had a pile of junk attached to our files and what-not. He also stated that there was some that had pornographic content. I asked how this would have gotten on our computer because I knew for a fact that none of us would have gone to those sites. He told me that there are some sites that can attach onto other sites (please excuse me if I'm using the wrong terminology--I'm not that computer literate!) and then get into your computer and attach themselves to your files. There was also something to do with the fact that we didn't have good protective software on the computer. Anyway, my point is: Could this be the case with the family computer? .........Just a thought..............
I do agree that does happen.  However, what she saw made her leave her husband for 6 weeks.  I doubt this could be regular mainstream porn!!!
 
October 26, 2006, 12:46 pm CDT

What is going on?

If something is going on here I appauld her for doing the right thing, but these allegations need to be backed up.  If the police investigated this family then that's all they could do.  If the kids are on the parents side then what can you do.  The mother doesn't seem intimadating enough to make all her children keep quiet.  The sister is causing so much pain and negativity that she is doing exactly what she claims she's trying to prevent and that's abuse.  Secondly, if there was enough evidence, then you must collect it until you can prove your case overwhelmingly.  If there was this much evidence, then forensics would find any sign of abuse.  It's not hard to get that out of kids, because kids are more truthful than adults.  It would be devastating if those kids were abused and their father turned out to be a pedophile.  The sisters seems to want attention and will do anything to get it.  The husband looking at porn doesn't make him a bad person.  It may affect their relationship as it has, but they seem to be twisting the truth.  You can tell who is the more dominant of the sisters.  Even if the kids were being abused, if the kids say they have not then you have nothing.   Christy keeps saying I don't know why they didn't do this or that.  This is a dead relationship, Dr.Phil shouldn't even try.  Just prove Christy wrong which the cops did, then drop the whole thing and shut her out of your life.  In time the truth will reveal itself and hopefully Stacy was'nt lying the whole time for the benifit of her kids. 
 
October 26, 2006, 12:46 pm CDT

Who's telling the truth?

 I watched almost the entire show and found the bickering tiresome.   When I ran out to walk my dog for a minute, I lost the last few minutes.  What did the lie detector turn up?

 

Secondly, I noticed how unfair it was to label both parties "backstabbers" when it was clear that one sister was emotionally impaired; (the accuser) and is in fact doing all the backstabbing, while the other is into damage control - and not backstabbing at all.  They both get labeled "backstabbers" even though one is clearly the victim.

 

What were the results of the lie detector?  

 
October 26, 2006, 12:53 pm CDT

Are you crazy?

Quote From: afraid

but im incline to go with my heart here.too many investagoins done not to come up with any thing and as far as the computer gose she said it was 6 years old and what i also would add if it were bought second hand it could have had porn in it long before they ever got the computer. and as for the dad looking at porn i relly think there isnt a man in this country who can sit and say with a true heart that they have never looked at it.hell in my youngar days i looked at it.not in front of children tho. at stag parties. and on the internet as well. again tho not in front of any one .but i learnd fast that porn on the net will mess up a computer fast.i dont go there now. i have this computer set not to even pull a nude pic in and open it.as for a second hard drive gose it was unpluged the other sisters hubby said. sooo no danger of any child even having acess to it.but that dosent prove dad did it.hell her hubby was the computer expert here whos to say he didnt download it it can be loaded into a computer and made look like it was done at a much earler date.! so im not too fast to jump on little sisters banwagon here.now had they had the police remove the computer and look yeah then.you know police do have experts that can find things no one eals ever saw or deleated .why did little sisters hubby have tobe the one to cheack out the computer.hmmmmm. i do smell a rat here.

Why would his wife leave for 6 weeks over regular mainstream adult porn?????? 

It was child porn....plain and simple.  When the reality of being a sinlge parent hit, she chose the easier path.  where is the husband? 

 
October 26, 2006, 12:59 pm CDT

try turning microsofts pop up blocker on it dose work not to say the least yahoo pop up blocker works too

Quote From: grannyof23

You are so right there are some links a person can go on and the next thing you know a porn site will pop up, trust me I know, I have gotten a lot of those from microsoft it really makes me mad when that happens.Luckly I have no young children at home anymore who would have had to see this.

 

I think the sister Christy has no life and just wants to suck the life out of everyone around her, it is horrible.

 

Stacey and her husband should slap a lawsuit against Christy and her husband.

 
October 26, 2006, 1:02 pm CDT

a person that was abused as a child will do the same thing not looking you in the eye very long

Quote From: t0rn1616

You can pretty much tell that christy is lying, because she cant even LOOK Dr phil in the eye long enough to finish her sentence. We have all lied, and there is a reason behind lying, but when there are children involved, its gone way to far. With christy being "abused" as a child, she may be overly sensitive to things that look like abuse, when they are just mistakes that parents make, that don't harm the child
 
October 26, 2006, 1:07 pm CDT

why was't stacey's husband on the show?

Quote From: t0rn1616

You can pretty much tell that christy is lying, because she cant even LOOK Dr phil in the eye long enough to finish her sentence. We have all lied, and there is a reason behind lying, but when there are children involved, its gone way to far. With christy being "abused" as a child, she may be overly sensitive to things that look like abuse, when they are just mistakes that parents make, that don't harm the child

If my reputation and good name was being slandered as Stacey's husband was, I would have most definitely been on that stage defending it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Where's the good husband and father?

 
October 26, 2006, 1:08 pm CDT

i missed part of the show.....help?

i didnt get to see the lie detector test....who was telling the truth and who was lying?.....  i believe the sister who was accused of all of the crap but i wonder why she didnt volunteer to take the lie detector test......where was all of the so called proof they both kept referring to?........where were the other children who were besing abused?....lots of unanswered questions.....
 
October 26, 2006, 1:11 pm CDT

i had so many porn sites pop up on my computer by just typong in the word god and hitting enter

now i dont know about you but that pissed me off.something has to be done about all this porn. its got to stop.what kind of a world are we going to be leaving our children to have to live in if we dont ban togather and stop this filth atthe sorce?.
 
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