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Topic : 06/07 Backstabbing Sisters

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Created on : Friday, October 20, 2006, 01:52:56 pm
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(Original Air Date: 10/26/06) Backstabbing takes many forms –- lying, spreading gossip and fueling nasty rumors. Dr. Phil’s guests say the ultimate betrayal didn’t come from a stranger, but from their own flesh and blood! Stacy accuses her younger sister, Christy, of being a traitor. She says Christy reported her and her husband to Child Protective Services for allegedly having child porn on the family computer! Christy sticks to her story, and vows to help put her sister and brother-in-law in jail. How far will she go? Stacy’s 16-year-old daughter claims her Aunt Christy is a liar, and says she’s ruining their family. Can these two sisters overcome the conflict between them, or is their relationship at the point of no return? Share your thoughts, join the discussion.

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October 26, 2006, 2:12 pm PDT

10/26 Backstabbing Sisters

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     My oh my. Does this mean that cps isn't doing their job as well as Cristie would like them to? Same thing for the DA? Should we be calling Christie instead when we need Child Protective Services? Should we be calling Christie when we need the DA? Should we call Cristie when we need the Police?
     Where does she get off thinking that she is above these three civil services?
 This is what I thought while watching the whole show!  I mean....she made charges, they were thoroughly investigated and NOTHING was found.  Then at the end when Dr. Phil asked Christy why she made charges of Fraud if she was trying to protect the kids it just confirmed what I thought through the entire show.......Christy is jealous and vindictive and just trying to make her sister's life hell!  I feel so sorry for the kids involved....The little girl on the show just wants her crazy aunt to leave them alone!!
 
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October 26, 2006, 2:13 pm PDT

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It's good the two of you have each other and have a close relationship.  The abuse is so infectious and often destroys sibling relationships as well as other relationships throughout the family.  It's amazing the damage and pain one person can inflict. 

 

Talking is difficult but it's critical for your own healing and for others to gain understanding.  For those who are lucky enough to have grown up in a safe, nurturing environment, much of this is unfathomable.  Even though it's painful and certainly creates conflict, perhaps by speaking out, something good will come of it.  Even if it's not within your own family...you and your sister may be able to positively impact someone else.  I'll be watching for the update that Dr. Phil promised hoping your family finds some resolution and peace and that he will better communicate some of the nuances that are so very typical of abusive families and the aftermath. 

 

I find solice knowing that I am an absolutely fantastic person!  And... I am who I am today, in part, because of my childhood.  It's a part of me but doesn't define me.

 

Best wishes and peace to you and your family.

We have found that saying nothing allows the insanity to continue.  I pray the deception(s) are exposed.  Thank you so much for your encouraging words.  I truly hope it brings healing to my family.

 
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October 26, 2006, 2:14 pm PDT

Couldn't agree more!

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The one thing that struck me as interesting was how little sense
Chrisy's story made.  Christy claims that Stacy "strangled" her
daughter against a wall for talking to strangers on the Internet, but
accuses Stacy of being aware of her husband's alleged interest in
child pornography.  That makes no sense.  What would drive a mother to
"strangle" her daughter for talking to someone who was possibly a
pedophile?  If Stacy's daughter was being abused, sexually or
physically, her demeanor and self-esteem would not have exuberated
such confidence and prompt responses.  And how ridiculous did Christy
look when Dr. Phil called her on the complaint to the licencing board?
 Christy feared for the well-being of children and pregnant mothers,
but turned her in for fraud?  Her reaction and lack of response made
it very evident that she was lying.  It sounds like Stacy has enough
evidence to file slander and malice charges against her sister since
she continues to make accusations and file false charges without any
verifiable proof.  Yeah they could not establish the line of
possession on the computer.  Christy admitted she had it for two
months before she turned it over to authorities.   This is why
children in America are abused for so long.  Authorities are spending
so much time dealing with false and erroneous charges.  SAD!
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! I couldn't agree more. I can't believe this sister is acting with such malice. Maybe she's jealous that Stacy wasn't abused as a child? I have no idea, I can't wait for the next episode regarding the lie detector results. Dr. Phil can expose Christy for the fraud she is!!!
 
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October 26, 2006, 2:15 pm PDT

READ NATIONAL NEWS HEADLINES!

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     My oh my. Does this mean that cps isn't doing their job as well as Cristie would like them to? Same thing for the DA? Should we be calling Christie instead when we need Child Protective Services? Should we be calling Christie when we need the DA? Should we call Cristie when we need the Police?
     Where does she get off thinking that she is above these three civil services?
These organizations are made up of everyday average people just like you and I.  They make mistakes everyday.  Remember what happened to that poor little child a few years ago in Florida?  Social services lost track of her, and then she was found dead.  Watch the news!
 
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October 26, 2006, 2:17 pm PDT

My sister and I.....

My sister and I are very far apart age wise, 9 years.  We are very, very different.  She is married with children, I am not.  She is very straight laced, I like to party.  But there is one common ground we will always have, the love of our family and her kids.  We could never, ever hurt each other the way that these sisters are hurting each other.  I cannot believe that Dr. Phil said he believed that Christy believed in her accusations.  She is clearly out to get her sister and her family.  I would like to know if Christy has kids and if not, if she is just trying to gain custody of her nieces and nephews.  I can't wait until they have the results of the polygraph tests and do another show.  I'm telling you, it would take all my strength to not kill my sister if she ever did this sort of thing to me and my family.  Also, if their brother agreed so much with Christy, then why wasn't his butt on the show?  That should show how much gumption he has.  Thank you all for listening.

 

Amber

 
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October 26, 2006, 2:19 pm PDT

10/26 Backstabbing Sisters

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WOW, Christy craves and lies for attention and sad to say that this time she got national coverage!!  I do somewhat question the thinking of the show putting this on a segment.  There are serious mental issues going on and maybe the lie detector tests should have been done prior to the taping of the show. 

 

It saddens me to see this people having to defend themselves yet again and now on national TV against charges that have been unproven.  I was always told .... "you can't prove a negative". 

 

Enough said....... I don't want to give Christy anymore air time but would like to repeat the idea that a lie detector test should have been done priot to taping!!!

I agree, the tests should have been done prior to taping the show.  I would really like to know, and tell me if anyone knows, but who called the show to begin with?  Was it Christy or Stacy?  Just curious.

 

Amber

 
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October 26, 2006, 2:20 pm PDT

MONEY CAN BUY ANYTHING

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I just have to say, it scares the daylights out of me that some vindictive creep could decide they didn't like me and try to destroy my life with false accusations and calling authorities on me.

It terrifies me.
Anyone who has enough $$$$$ can pay off anyone who loves $$$$$.  The bottom line is that the man was not there to defend himself.  Why not?  Maybe because he is guilty!
 
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October 26, 2006, 2:25 pm PDT

well i know christy wasnt able to back her side of the story

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WOW, Christy craves and lies for attention and sad to say that this time she got national coverage!!  I do somewhat question the thinking of the show putting this on a segment.  There are serious mental issues going on and maybe the lie detector tests should have been done prior to the taping of the show. 

 

It saddens me to see this people having to defend themselves yet again and now on national TV against charges that have been unproven.  I was always told .... "you can't prove a negative". 

 

Enough said....... I don't want to give Christy anymore air time but would like to repeat the idea that a lie detector test should have been done priot to taping!!!

but the oldsr sister did admit to calling her for support,and she did admit to sacking the children up and leaving for 6 weeks.and christys brother has posted that they were abused as children. to what degerr isnt my business but as a person that has suffered abuse as a child and knowing what she knows now and the computer was said to have over 20,000 kiddie porn pic stored in it by christys husband.and i know the pics dont prove abuse was present but it looks like me christy was only folling her heart here.as i said in a earler post christy would make a damn good leader to rid this world of porn and abuse to children as a result of porn .shes just going about it in the wrong direction,weather it happend or not it is happining to a child some where in this country as we speak here on dr phil dot com. and we all need to try to find a way to put a stop to it. it dosent matter if this story isnt true, it is very trie to soo many children now.
 
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October 26, 2006, 2:26 pm PDT

10/26 Backstabbing Sisters

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wow, I think you need glasses.
I do have glasses and yes I was wearing them. Anyway I didn't need my glasses to here the fear in that girls voice!
 
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October 26, 2006, 2:27 pm PDT

please fill me in about the lie dectector

Please someone, fill me in on what happened when the sister took the lie detector test. I had to leave the room at the very end of the show and I'm dying to know. Thank you!
 
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