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Topic : 06/07 Backstabbing Sisters

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Created on : Friday, October 20, 2006, 01:52:56 pm
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(Original Air Date: 10/26/06) Backstabbing takes many forms –- lying, spreading gossip and fueling nasty rumors. Dr. Phil’s guests say the ultimate betrayal didn’t come from a stranger, but from their own flesh and blood! Stacy accuses her younger sister, Christy, of being a traitor. She says Christy reported her and her husband to Child Protective Services for allegedly having child porn on the family computer! Christy sticks to her story, and vows to help put her sister and brother-in-law in jail. How far will she go? Stacy’s 16-year-old daughter claims her Aunt Christy is a liar, and says she’s ruining their family. Can these two sisters overcome the conflict between them, or is their relationship at the point of no return? Share your thoughts, join the discussion.

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October 21, 2006, 9:55 pm CDT

Three of a Kind

I've got 3 sisters....all have different ways of backstabbing.

 

Sister #1 - Hides behind her religion.  She tires to portray the "nice church lady" - yet she insults, belittles, gossips, encourages discontent, and thrives on chaos.

 

Sister #2 - Has no religious conviction...she's just plain mean and vile. She too tries to portray a "nice" persona, yet there's no goodness in her.  She has a violent temper and can snap at any given moment. She's physically abusive and enjoys tormenting people.

 

Sister #3 - Mixes religious ideas in with the psychic network channel ideas.  She's unable to think with a clear and grounded foundation - she's lost in space.

 
October 22, 2006, 7:24 am CDT

10/27 Backstabbing Sisters

Quote From: dovebird1

I've got 3 sisters....all have different ways of backstabbing.

 

Sister #1 - Hides behind her religion.  She tires to portray the "nice church lady" - yet she insults, belittles, gossips, encourages discontent, and thrives on chaos.

 

Sister #2 - Has no religious conviction...she's just plain mean and vile. She too tries to portray a "nice" persona, yet there's no goodness in her.  She has a violent temper and can snap at any given moment. She's physically abusive and enjoys tormenting people.

 

Sister #3 - Mixes religious ideas in with the psychic network channel ideas.  She's unable to think with a clear and grounded foundation - she's lost in space.

My goodness I wonder what they say about you? It must really suck to be the perfect one amongst these sisters from hell. 
 
October 22, 2006, 8:24 am CDT

10/27 Backstabbing Sisters

Quote From: dovebird1

I've got 3 sisters....all have different ways of backstabbing.

 

Sister #1 - Hides behind her religion.  She tires to portray the "nice church lady" - yet she insults, belittles, gossips, encourages discontent, and thrives on chaos.

 

Sister #2 - Has no religious conviction...she's just plain mean and vile. She too tries to portray a "nice" persona, yet there's no goodness in her.  She has a violent temper and can snap at any given moment. She's physically abusive and enjoys tormenting people.

 

Sister #3 - Mixes religious ideas in with the psychic network channel ideas.  She's unable to think with a clear and grounded foundation - she's lost in space.

Hmm, sounds like you are so focused on their religion.  Maybe you should focus more on yourself. 

 

Or are you just using religion as your insult to them?

 
October 23, 2006, 2:57 pm CDT

Backstabbers

Quote From: jojobeaner

How did she attack you or backstab you?  The person was just wondering how you fit into this trio of sisters that you have, that's all. Okay the way she said it wasn't very respectful I'll give you that, but really where do you fit into this mesh.  Backstabbers do one thing they go to others to talk about you rather than coming to you first about the problem. They don't try to resolve things with you first before involving anyone else.  It's not really about their character flaws its about learning to communicate respectfully with others and having clear boundaries set before you communicate with the other person.  When you have heard damaging stuff about yourself from these 3 sisters have you gone directly to that person and tried to resolve the issue or what have you done to confront their talk behind your back? 

First of all I am not the person who is reporting that her 3 sisters are backstabbing her.  I am the brother of Stacy and Christy, who are appearing on the show.  If the person was wondering, "how you fit into the trio of sisters," she should have ask a few questions first before being so snide. 

 

You obviously do not understand "serious," backstabbing.  Serious backstabbers are not interested in what you have to say, what your problem is, or learning to communicate effectively.  There only goal is to destroy your life.  It is like a game to them.  Backstabbing can eventually turn into people described on Discovery Channel's show "Most Evil."  There are several levels (22) as the number goes higher so does the deceit. 

 

There were several comments about her sister's behaviour, but she did mention violence.  All I am saying is that instead of attacking or being rude to the one reporting violence.  Who's to say that this was not her first time to verbalize the abuse?  Most abuse victoms will not tell the story long in the face of responses like that.  They will simply walk away saying, "No one understands."  Why not show some compassion.  In my opinion, it is responses like this that causes rape victoms and victoms of abuse to stay quite. 

 

It seemed like an attack not show compassion, but the opposite, to make snide comments to someone who "feels," violated," and I think this is the character of a backstabber.  I don't know how you can say that she was "wondering," anything they way she phrased her statement. 

 

 
October 25, 2006, 6:35 pm CDT

drphil i have to ask you.

where do you find all these people with all these problems?.my god i never knew just how messed up this country is untill i started watching your show. wow i know this has nothing to do with this topic but i havent seen the show just yet.i got 12 and a half hours till show time. but you can count on me being infront of my tv. i wouldnt miss this show for anything in this world lol wow what a world we do live in lol.
 
October 26, 2006, 2:17 am CDT

Want to see this one too!!

Quote From: afraid

where do you find all these people with all these problems?.my god i never knew just how messed up this country is untill i started watching your show. wow i know this has nothing to do with this topic but i havent seen the show just yet.i got 12 and a half hours till show time. but you can count on me being infront of my tv. i wouldnt miss this show for anything in this world lol wow what a world we do live in lol.

Of course I try to catch all of the shows!!   

Just wanted to let you know.... Dr.Phil isn't finding these people.... they are finding him! lol

I know because I'm one of these messed up people whom have tried to seek his guidance and help (so far I haven't heard from anyone.... but I keep on hoping that there is someone out there  somewhere that can Help me too!!)

Though I won't get into it here because because it is off topic for sure, my sisters are awesome, they are both younger than me and there is a nine year difference between me and my first sister (she recently turned 18 ! )   I couldn't imagine them stabbing me in the back or Vise Versa..... but of course I was the one who took care of them when they where little, so they really look up to me!   Its been hard (now that they are grown up) to get them to look at me more as a sister and not there mother.  My youngest sister used to call me mama when she was little, and I was always having to correct her.  Our mom was their in body, but not in spirit or mentally.

Anyway

Cant wait to see this one Dr. Phil!!

 

 
October 26, 2006, 2:41 am CDT

Christy needs help!

The one thing that struck me as interesting was how little sense
Chrisy's story made.  Christy claims that Stacy "strangled" her
daughter against a wall for talking to strangers on the Internet, but
accuses Stacy of being aware of her husband's alleged interest in
child pornography.  That makes no sense.  What would drive a mother to
"strangle" her daughter for talking to someone who was possibly a
pedophile?  If Stacy's daughter was being abused, sexually or
physically, her demeanor and self-esteem would not have exuberated
such confidence and prompt responses.  And how ridiculous did Christy
look when Dr. Phil called her on the complaint to the licencing board?
 Christy feared for the well-being of children and pregnant mothers,
but turned her in for fraud?  Her reaction and lack of response made
it very evident that she was lying.  It sounds like Stacy has enough
evidence to file slander and malice charges against her sister since
she continues to make accusations and file false charges without any
verifiable proof.  Yeah they could not establish the line of
possession on the computer.  Christy admitted she had it for two
months before she turned it over to authorities.   This is why
children in America are abused for so long.  Authorities are spending
so much time dealing with false and erroneous charges.  SAD!
 
October 26, 2006, 2:50 am CDT

If that ain't the pot calling the kettle BLACK

Christy, you want to talk about abuse?  What was up with the verbal abuse in your letter to the DA's Office?  Did you really think your threats and profanity were going to be taken seriously?  No wonder you haven't heard from them in over a month.  They are probably hoping you crawled back under the rock you came from.  Nope, no lie detector test needed...Christy showed all of America what a vindictive and deceitful person she is. 
 
October 26, 2006, 5:54 am CDT

10/27 Backstabbing Sisters

My sister has an alcohol addicition and emotional problems I'm sure based on our upbringing.  When she comes home to visit with her 2 year old son there is always drama.  In august I picked her up at the airport and immediately noticed my sister was drunk and her son had a broken finger and toe (6 months prior he had a broken collerbone) I asked if he was okay.  She said yes, I told  her okay I am just worried about you and your son, however he is a child and he needs to be protected. I catiously asked how it happened she proceeded to start screaming, yelling, and hitting me. At this time I told her I would have to report her to CPS if she did not get help for her drinking and anger problem She told me that she was calling the police to tell them that my husband had attacked me and not her.  At this point I drove her to my mom's and proceeded to the police station to file charges.  This was not the first time she had attacked me or other family members and I could not allow it anymore.  The next day a CPS worker is on my doorstep stating that my sister witnessed my husband attacking me. I have been married for 9 years to my husband and there has never been any abuse, which is what CPS found and the case was closed.  My sister however took off to Europe to be with the father of her son and I have heard from other family members her son continues to be abused.  The police and CPS dropped the charges pressed against her until she is back in the United States and I worry constantly about my nephew.

 
October 26, 2006, 6:40 am CDT

You can choose your friends

Makes me glad I don't have siblings that were close enough to my age for me to live with (or grow up with) I had a half bro. 33 years my senior and have a half sis 24 years older than me. We get along nicely . she lives in C.A. and I live in P.A.  Actually I love her alot but  was happily an "only" child growing up.

 Otherwise, I don't have any family left to speak of but, I have my friends and we're as close as any family. i'm sorry to say I've had to watch them go thru things with their families (back-stabbing,name calling)

 Like I said, you can choose your friends but, you can't choose your family.

 
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