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Topic : 06/07 Backstabbing Sisters

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Created on : Friday, October 20, 2006, 01:52:56 pm
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(Original Air Date: 10/26/06) Backstabbing takes many forms –- lying, spreading gossip and fueling nasty rumors. Dr. Phil’s guests say the ultimate betrayal didn’t come from a stranger, but from their own flesh and blood! Stacy accuses her younger sister, Christy, of being a traitor. She says Christy reported her and her husband to Child Protective Services for allegedly having child porn on the family computer! Christy sticks to her story, and vows to help put her sister and brother-in-law in jail. How far will she go? Stacy’s 16-year-old daughter claims her Aunt Christy is a liar, and says she’s ruining their family. Can these two sisters overcome the conflict between them, or is their relationship at the point of no return? Share your thoughts, join the discussion.

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October 26, 2006, 5:51 pm PDT

Sorry to inform you!

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I'm not saying I tolerate if my husband was viewing porn.  I'm a God fearing women but I would not pack up my 8 children and leave my husband for a mainstream porn DVD.  Honestly majority of god Christian or whatever religion would not as well.   WAKE UP!!!!!!

But yes there are quite a few women I have know that packed up and left because of basic Porn.   I knew a girl that kicked out her old man out for just magazines!!!!

Are you from the south??   I would just like to tell you (if your not and if you are you Should KNOW this)   Most Southern Women that are Christians go Crazy about this kind of thing....  My God they just busted THREE adult stores in Beaumont, Texas for selling pornography (NOTHING off the wall,  even just the ones where it was nothing crazy!) and selling toys that pleasure the senses in the Pelvic region (at least that was one way they put it)   The reason is mostly the Christian  Women down here go nuts  .... not all..... but mostly the Evangelist.   Its taught as a very young child that sex in any other form than to reproduce is disgusting and should not be allowed.   Just please do some research about these matters before telling everybody to Wake Up..... and I don't think you needed to shout it!

 

Brightest Blessings to you and Yours!

 
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October 26, 2006, 5:54 pm PDT

SHE left husband why???

If you go to the slides of todays show you will see that Stacey called Christy and talked about the porn DVD.  Christy showed up and told lies to Stacey who left her husband because of it.  It wasn't until a few weeks later she started catching Christy in her lies and went home to work it out.   This is something I went back and looked up on Dr. Phils site.  Stacey did not leave because she "caught" him doing anything! 
 
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October 26, 2006, 5:57 pm PDT

yeah, but

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I had a brother who has passed away a few years ago. He was molesting his son. My nephew told me if his dad didn't stop touching him he would kill himself. He was 9. I reported him to CPS, they literally sent a sheriff's car to my mother's home where my 40 something brother lived, they asked him if he was abusing his son, he said "Hell, NO!" That was the END of it. My family hates me to this day for turning him in. My mother was an alcoholic, and there are certain family dynamics, roles if you will, that children take on. MY sister is the one who lives in denial to this day. I have wanted to speak to/with her regarding sexual abuse in our family, etc...She has called me a liar all my life, and said to me "How could you say such a thing about our (Mother, father, Grandfather, Uncle...you get the idea?) And she is that way to this day. She is suffering medically from stress related illnesses...gee...wonder why when you swallow everything and never deal with it. My point is I don't know if that sister is lying, but CPS doesn't do their job, children lie to protect their parents every day.
That is true that sometimes an investigating agency will miss something. This is unfortunate, and it really is important to stay on top of people. In this instance, however,  there were three agencies investigating. There was the DA, CPS, and the Midwife people (I'm not sure what they are called). Also, there are seven children in question. I think that between all of these people, something would have slipped out. 
 
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October 26, 2006, 5:59 pm PDT

10/26 Backstabbing Sisters

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If you go to the slides of todays show you will see that Stacey called Christy and talked about the porn DVD.  Christy showed up and told lies to Stacey who left her husband because of it.  It wasn't until a few weeks later she started catching Christy in her lies and went home to work it out.   This is something I went back and looked up on Dr. Phils site.  Stacey did not leave because she "caught" him doing anything! 
You're right, I read back on the transcript and you are right.


 

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October 26, 2006, 6:02 pm PDT

christy

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Thank you, I really am just trying to end all the abuse in my family. It has been going on to long. I appreciate your support more than you know !! I love you, Christy

allllllllll these people in the audience and on this board are appalled at your behavior.Could everyone be wrong? Why did you go after your sister for fraud as well? Your letter to the DA was abusive and shameful and yet you refuse to see any wrong doing on your part.Ruining her business and taking financial support away from these kids is helping? Who?If nothing else I hope you seek help,you are in desperate need of it.

 
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October 26, 2006, 6:02 pm PDT

10/26 Backstabbing Sisters

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But yes there are quite a few women I have know that packed up and left because of basic Porn.   I knew a girl that kicked out her old man out for just magazines!!!!

Are you from the south??   I would just like to tell you (if your not and if you are you Should KNOW this)   Most Southern Women that are Christians go Crazy about this kind of thing....  My God they just busted THREE adult stores in Beaumont, Texas for selling pornography (NOTHING off the wall,  even just the ones where it was nothing crazy!) and selling toys that pleasure the senses in the Pelvic region (at least that was one way they put it)   The reason is mostly the Christian  Women down here go nuts  .... not all..... but mostly the Evangelist.   Its taught as a very young child that sex in any other form than to reproduce is disgusting and should not be allowed.   Just please do some research about these matters before telling everybody to Wake Up..... and I don't think you needed to shout it!

 

Brightest Blessings to you and Yours!

In Utah if you want to buy a vibrator you have to give them your drivers license number....LOL...

You are right, attitudes in different places are wild sometimes.
 
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October 26, 2006, 6:04 pm PDT

Whats the outcome?

Any news on what happned with the lie detector test?
 
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October 26, 2006, 6:04 pm PDT

10/26 Backstabbing Sisters

I cannot comprehend why people would ever do this to each other.  It just mystifies me.  It is one thing to be concerned and call the authorities if you genuinely feel that there is abuse happening but when she and her husband have been cleared of any wrong doing... to threaten the police and the DA is just nuts and taking it way too far.

 

Unfortunately, my family is no stranger to these sorts of accusations.  My brother and his wife were accused of abusing their infant nephew (on her side not his.)  Her brother and his wife wanted to be the first ones in the family to have the grandchild so when my sister in law got pregnant with their first my sister in laws brother and his wife were livid.  They were more so when it was discovered that they were having a boy.

 

My sister in law's sister in law (confusing, I know lol) kept miscarrying so they adopted a baby boy about 6 months to a year after my nephew was born.  Soon after that she became pregnant with a child of there own.  Sometime during her pregnancy, they asked my brother and his wife o watch their adopted son so they could play bingo.  Thwy picked their son up later on in the evening...half an hour later they called the police saying that my brother and sister in law had abused the baby.

 

The baby did have bruises on him, but even the doctor said that the bruises were days old and there was no way my brother and his wife could have done it.  But the cops kept harassing my brother, saying he was being watched etc until one cop stood up for my brother and told his felloe police officers to leave him alone.

 

All charges were dropped but that will forever stick to their name no matter what they do, wether they were innocent or not.  What amazes me is that my brother and his wife were able to forgive them and still associate with each other.  They have never apologised but they get along for the sake of the kids.  I don't think I could have been that big of a person, to be honest.

 

But the sisters on the show are just way out there.  The back stabbing sister should watch it because her sister could sue her until the cows come home for slander and defimation of character.

 

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October 26, 2006, 6:05 pm PDT

Christy obviously hates Stacey

If I had to report a sibling for something as awful as child abuse, I would be torn apart.  I see nothing in Christy's manner other than hatred for her sister.  We cannot yet see from where this hatred stems, but it is deep inside Christy.  I do have some sympathy for Christy because I believe she is being eaten alive by the anger she feels, and I think she needs help in dealing with it.  But if the situation is as it appears, Christy is destroying Stacy's family and harming those children. It looks to me as though all of this comes from a deep seeded hatred for Stacy. 

I do know one thing though....I am going to go give my sister a well deserved hug!

 
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October 26, 2006, 6:05 pm PDT

I Missed the Ending

When there was about 10 minutes left in the program, I had to rush to the phone and I missed how this all ended!  Did that one sister take the polygraph test or not?  If she did, did she pass it?

 

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