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Topic : 06/07 Backstabbing Sisters

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(Original Air Date: 10/26/06) Backstabbing takes many forms –- lying, spreading gossip and fueling nasty rumors. Dr. Phil’s guests say the ultimate betrayal didn’t come from a stranger, but from their own flesh and blood! Stacy accuses her younger sister, Christy, of being a traitor. She says Christy reported her and her husband to Child Protective Services for allegedly having child porn on the family computer! Christy sticks to her story, and vows to help put her sister and brother-in-law in jail. How far will she go? Stacy’s 16-year-old daughter claims her Aunt Christy is a liar, and says she’s ruining their family. Can these two sisters overcome the conflict between them, or is their relationship at the point of no return? Share your thoughts, join the discussion.

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October 26, 2006, 6:05 pm PDT

10/26 Backstabbing Sisters

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Let's not forget about a book deal, huh, Christy?

If it takes writing a book to wake people up to how wrong family violence is, then I would do it!! Got an editor?? What have you done to help any victims you know?  Christy

 
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October 26, 2006, 6:06 pm PDT

HEY WAIT!!

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If you go to the slides of todays show you will see that Stacey called Christy and talked about the porn DVD.  Christy showed up and told lies to Stacey who left her husband because of it.  It wasn't until a few weeks later she started catching Christy in her lies and went home to work it out.   This is something I went back and looked up on Dr. Phils site.  Stacey did not leave because she "caught" him doing anything! 

I have to respond to myself here!  I just reread todays show info and it never did say what this DVD was called.  If it was so terrible or questionable how come we didn't get more info on it.  It was implied that it had females of questionable age on it but no one ever said what the findings were.  In my mother in laws eyes the movie  Porky's was porn but.......... guess that shows how everyone sees things differently.

 

But mostly I just want to say that there is a lot of speculation and comments made here in chat that I have gone back and reviewed todays show to verify and people.....................watch it again and again and again if needed before posting.

 
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October 26, 2006, 6:09 pm PDT

10/26 Backstabbing Sisters

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allllllllll these people in the audience and on this board are appalled at your behavior.Could everyone be wrong? Why did you go after your sister for fraud as well? Your letter to the DA was abusive and shameful and yet you refuse to see any wrong doing on your part.Ruining her business and taking financial support away from these kids is helping? Who?If nothing else I hope you seek help,you are in desperate need of it.

I couldn't agree more.

Although, everyone who is against her just soothes her victim-hood ego.
 
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October 26, 2006, 6:14 pm PDT

10/26 Backstabbing Sisters

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Bravo to Christy!!!  I dont agree that what she is doing is backstabbing at all. Christy, if you are reading this, PLEASE dont give up for the sake of the children.  My brother used to work for DCFS here in Illinois and has told me stories of how easily it is to not be able to substantiate abuse due to:  no bruises or any physical markings, and children are so scared that the parents will be taken away, that they will lie over and over, about what is really going on. It's not to hard to understand why the DA wont pursue this child porn issue; due to not being able to prove the chain of user ship or whatever you call it.  It also doesnt help this case that your sister is not willing to support the DA in any way shape or form.  Yes, I understand that the DA doesnt need her support, but as it stands they dont have a winnable case without proof user ship of that hardrive. Their hands are tied.  Why is it so hard for people to understand this computer issue?

I believe the truth will come out sooner or later, it always does, only a matter of time. 

I look forward to the results of the lie detector tests.  I bet that your sister will come up with some excuse/reason not to take it.  Will see.

Why are you so convinced of Stacy's guilt? Just because one person is guilty of something doesn't mean that someone else is. It seems that to be guilty of pedophilia these days, you just have to be accused.

I work in Information Technology. One day, the FBI came to work and seized my co-worker's computer. Apparently, he was a suspected child pornographer and rapist. This computer was used by multiple people as it was owned by our company. So, "ownership of matieral" could have been difficult to prove. Nevertheless, they were able to use the material on the computer in their case.  Bravo FBI!

The point of my writing to you is this: Any files stored on the computer will have a date associated with them. If Stacy and her husband did not own the computer during the dates specified on the files, the files can not be used as evidence. This may be why the DA could not prosecute and also why (gasp!) Stacy's husband may be innocent! Wow...there's a thought...innocent until proven guilty.

 

 
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October 26, 2006, 6:21 pm PDT

10/26 Backstabbing Sisters

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You're right, I read back on the transcript and you are right.


I never lied to her. She was the one who said she found child porn in her husband's possession to begin with.
 
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October 26, 2006, 6:25 pm PDT

10/26 Backstabbing Sisters

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You're right, I read back on the transcript and you are right.


I never lied to her, she only said I did. She is the one who told me she found the child porn in her husband's possession.
 
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October 26, 2006, 6:26 pm PDT

Dear Christy

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If it takes writing a book to wake people up to how wrong family violence is, then I would do it!! Got an editor?? What have you done to help any victims you know?  Christy

Dear Christy,

Since you have posted here you must be reading this.  So a question to answer for us is....... "what does your obvious rage and hate toward your sister have to do with family violence"?

 

The one person who showed obvious signs of anger and hate was yourself.  You seem barely in control of your anger toward your sister, the DA, the Child and Family Service people, etc. as graphically shown when Dr. Phil read your venomous letter to the DA. 

 

In your campaign to ruin the lives of your sisters family what are you showing your family?  How to hate?  How to seek retribution?  How to persecute someone who has not been prosecuted according to your guidelines? 

 

It never said if you had children yourself Christy but I surely wonder if you do who is taking care of their needs both physical and mentally?  Who hugs them and holds them while you are out being the family martyr?  Who tells them sweet calming bedtime stories?  Do you rant about this type of family drama to them?  Do they see you in your pursuit of what you call the truth?  What are you teaching them with your behavior?

 

I am sad for you and hope you find the help you need soon before you loose more of the family than you have.

 
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October 26, 2006, 6:28 pm PDT

Yikes

I do hope the truth comes out.

 

I would like to say that Christy seems to believe that Law Enforcement is inept. I think CPS does the best it can do and I feel it odd that multiple agencies would all fail like that at the same time. I was just shocked at her view point. I've always supported them. I know they make mistakes but based on today's show it seems to me that Christy is trying to create something that isnt there.

 
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October 26, 2006, 6:29 pm PDT

What was NOT said

 What didn't come out on the show was:

What was the forensic evidence outcome? I heard a number of 20,000 images, but what were they? Why did that lead to the conclusions? Why, if they WERE of underage girls wouldn't Stacy want to know about it? If they weren't why would this be coming out?

Where were the older siblings? In cases of abuse, it is often a repeated offence. We had one emotional daughters support, but what about her older sister?



 

 

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October 26, 2006, 6:30 pm PDT

I so agree with this

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Christy, you want to talk about abuse?  What was up with the verbal abuse in your letter to the DA's Office?  Did you really think your threats and profanity were going to be taken seriously?  No wonder you haven't heard from them in over a month.  They are probably hoping you crawled back under the rock you came from.  Nope, no lie detector test needed...Christy showed all of America what a vindictive and deceitful person she is. 
She just talked rings around Dr Phil on this one as well.How can this woman hold her head up in public anymore?
 
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