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(Original Air Date: 10/26/06) Backstabbing takes many forms –- lying, spreading gossip and fueling nasty rumors. Dr. Phil’s guests say the ultimate betrayal didn’t come from a stranger, but from their own flesh and blood! Stacy accuses her younger sister, Christy, of being a traitor. She says Christy reported her and her husband to Child Protective Services for allegedly having child porn on the family computer! Christy sticks to her story, and vows to help put her sister and brother-in-law in jail. How far will she go? Stacy’s 16-year-old daughter claims her Aunt Christy is a liar, and says she’s ruining their family. Can these two sisters overcome the conflict between them, or is their relationship at the point of no return? Share your thoughts, join the discussion.

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September 6, 2007, 7:35 am PDT

Woww

Christy is obviously harboring major ill feelings from childhood. BUTT OUT!! I have never seen a person so obsessed with someone else. Also, I really didn't appreciate all her negative comments about Dr. Phil. She never watches his show? Maybe she should and she would get some good advice on how to stop being such a self-centered, vindictive person. She really needs professional help. I think Dr. Phil has exhausted all his options with her. Here's some help, leave that family alone, and channel all your energy into moving to a foriegn country where you can't bother those poor people. I also think they should file harassment charges on her.  Does she even work? She is so obsessed with that family, does she have time for anything else? I think she needs a hobby.
 
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September 6, 2007, 9:07 am PDT

Stacey

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 Stacey is a lovely lady and it does seem that Christie is very jealous of her.  Stacey should not worry for one minute about how people in the community will think about them.  Christie did a very thorough job of showing her true colors.  She is the one who should be worried about how she and her family will now be perceived within the community. 

Jealousy makes a person very mean.  And when you mix jealousy with mental illness you get someone like Chrsitie!  Her own husband should run and run fast.  She may accuse him of something next.
Something must have happen, Stacey is the one who started everything by telling her sis about her problems and then to give her the computer, but when she decided to go back to her husband she just wanted it all to just go away, well it dosen't work that way. Even though her husband didn't go to the show I'm sure the town that they live in people know who he is. We have a real problem with the child protective agency's it happens all the time. What I will never understand is how can the mothers just sit by when they know what's going on? Stacey needs to stand up for her children and leave that loser. In my eyes Stacey is just as guilty as her husband!
 

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September 6, 2007, 9:59 am PDT

I have lived through an aunt Christy

  DR. Phil and viewers,     I am writing to you about my aunt, (my father's sister), who caused many problems, for my sisters and I and my cousins while we were growing up. She made up lies about us and tried to cause the family to hate each other. She attempted to break up her own brothers and sisters, through their own children, which were her nieces and nephew. She literally made up stories and lied to her own children, her own brothers and sister, her own mother and her own aunts and uncles, to get everyone to hate us all. She attempted to try to get attention through her distortions and lies about all of us, and we were children at the time. We were kids who were told to respect her, no matter what she did or what she said about us. When each one of us turned 18, we all took away the word aunt from her name and we all grew to hate her over time. We are now all over 30, most in their 40's and we all have nothing but deep hatred for her. We all could care less if she lived another day.       WE DO NOT wish anything to happen to her, now or do we reflect on the past, except when someone brings it up in conversation, or something like this. I will say one thing, everything our parents sister said about us actually ended up happening to her own children. The way she talked and lied about us and said bad things about us turned true against her own children. It was as if karma came back 5 times and unfortunately for her 5 children, the karma has affected her children badly, and she is feeling the wrath of what she caused us many years ago, today, through her own children and grandchildren, in her own life.     Christy knows that what she is saying is all a lie. I DO NOT BELIEVE THAT SHE EVEN BELIEVES IT. I believe that she has dug a hole so deep with her lies that she has to stand behind them now and fight for her own lies because she cannot climb out of the hole she dug herself in. DR. PHIL, I LIVED THROUGH MY OWN AUNT CHRISTY and so did my sisters and cousins and we know what it is like and I am telling you that this woman, Christy is lying to you and the world, and that she has to take the position she has taken because she has caused so many problems for so many people that she would look so stupid if she did anything other than protect the lies she made up all along. This has to do with control, getting back at people, attention, wanting attention and being the center of attention, wanting people to make her the center of everything and many other deep dark secrets she knows about. I can never make you understand what goes through these type of people's minds, but I can tell you that it happens and I have lived through it my entire life, while growing up and while in my adult life. Having a person like an aunt christy in the family is like a cancer that continues to kill the body off but will not actually die. it is like the worse cancer that lingers forever and never actually dies off. It is like a cancer that kills the rest of the body's organs but keeps on living.        For anyone that has an aunt Christy in your life, For everyone that has an aunt Christy in your family, For everyone that knows an aunt Christy, my advice to you is get rid of that person now. DO NOT ALLOW THAT PERSON TO HURT, OR SAY BAD THINGS OR DO BAD THINGS TO YOUR CHILDREN, they will be affected by it for the rest of their lives and they will not forget the bad things a person like aunt christy has done to them and they will have a hard time forgiving you, the adults, for allowing an aunt christy to hurt them.   DR. Phil it is very disappointing that you could not see that this was an attempt, by a woman, who wants to control everything, and how she manipulated everyone to think she really believes all of this garbage that comes from her mouth. Christy will pay in the end, but we may not be privileged to see it first hand. God help her.
 
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September 6, 2007, 11:21 am PDT

Sister is crazy!!

The accusing sister is crazy and she need to be put into a mental hopsital or better yet, jail. That family should sue her in a civil court for defamation. It is so obvious that those kids are not being abused and the aunt is just a delusionial psychopath. The way she spoke to Dr. Phil was outrageous and he handled himself beautifully. What a big baby she is crying about all the negative comments on this board. Grow up lady life isn't always peaches and cream and people do not always agree with what you have to say. Be an adult and get  a life of your own. I agree with another comment I read on here that the sister is just jealous, extremely jealous. She is prettier, has beautiful kids and seems to be a likeable down to earth person unlike the other one who comes across as vindictive, callous and uncaring. Seriously lady seek help ASAP, get rid of your current counselor because they obviously aren't helping you much.

 

I wish nothing but luck to the accused family and advise you to move far, faw away from that crazed psycho. Live happy and heathy !!

 

As for the wacko. Grow up, take some meds for the delusions your having. Tell your husband to stop calling people pedophiles on national television when he doesn't even know that for sure. Its disgusting. And remember those who accuse are usually the ones with something to hide. Maybe you two are the child abusers and are doing this to draw attention away from yourselves. People like you disgust me. People like you make me wish euthanasia wasn't just for animals!

 

PS:  I love you Dr. Phil. Your awesome. Keep up the good work. I know you see the truth in this case, I just wish you would have told that idiot where to go!!!! 

 

Have a nice day Always!!

SweetMelysa  

 

 

 
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September 6, 2007, 11:34 am PDT

Give me a break!!!

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Something must have happen, Stacey is the one who started everything by telling her sis about her problems and then to give her the computer, but when she decided to go back to her husband she just wanted it all to just go away, well it dosen't work that way. Even though her husband didn't go to the show I'm sure the town that they live in people know who he is. We have a real problem with the child protective agency's it happens all the time. What I will never understand is how can the mothers just sit by when they know what's going on? Stacey needs to stand up for her children and leave that loser. In my eyes Stacey is just as guilty as her husband!

Come one people!! Did you watch the same show as me? Those kids WERE NOT abused. The sister lied and when she didn't get caught lieing it was because she believed her own crap!! She has it out for Stacey, she never went to her sister about porn on her computer, the sister is making it all up. Look at the lie detector results.  How can you still believe Stacey and her husband are abusing those kids, all the investigations proved the opposite. If that is the case then every single person ever accused of this who was found innocent is still guilty. I guess these people should all be fired because none of them can do their jobs? Come on, thats absurd!!! They were found innocent of all accusations made and that right there is enough for me. I understand that some cases slip through the cracks but this IS NOT one of them.

 

Maybe you sould become a CPS worker and see what it's really like or become involved with some kind of family law. I worked for a family law lawyer and let me tell you people make up lies about other people as a means to an end. Women will tell the court that husbands abuse their kids just to screw them out of visitation when it's not true. Then these men have this stigman on them thats wrong. People are liars and just because they accuse something so disgusting and taboo doesn't mean it's TRUE!! Use your common sense here and learn to not take everything at face value because more times than not what you see and hear is not what you get.

 

Have a nice day Always!

Sweetmelysa

 
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September 6, 2007, 11:41 am PDT

LOL

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 DIDN'T YOU WATCH BOTH SHOWS, IT WAS ALL ABOUT THE FATHER, YOU MUST BE A MAN TO MAKE THAT COMMENT
Your just as delusional as she is!!  You should seek therapy also because I think you see things through a filtered lens!!
 
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September 6, 2007, 12:18 pm PDT

06/07 Backstabbing Sisters

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Something must have happen, Stacey is the one who started everything by telling her sis about her problems and then to give her the computer, but when she decided to go back to her husband she just wanted it all to just go away, well it dosen't work that way. Even though her husband didn't go to the show I'm sure the town that they live in people know who he is. We have a real problem with the child protective agency's it happens all the time. What I will never understand is how can the mothers just sit by when they know what's going on? Stacey needs to stand up for her children and leave that loser. In my eyes Stacey is just as guilty as her husband!
 I totally agree with you.
I had a relationship with one of my teachers, and when one of my friend's dad found out and report it he denied it.
It was his word against mine.
I didn't know at the time that he was a pedophile.
Well there was no evidence of what had happened between us, because he had everything perfectly calculated.
I had so much stress with that situation.
I felt so depressed seeing him day by day at school.
So I started getting  anxiety attacks.
So now when someone makes a report i usually believe them, because of my experience that they didn't believe me.
And now i think he has another victim, but i stopped trying.
It was no use.
The principal was at his side and he even called my mom threatning her.
The principal said, he wouldn't do that.
He knows the rules perfectly.
I cant believe some people don't even stop this.
 
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September 6, 2007, 1:45 pm PDT

Very concerned!!!!!

Hello, I watched the show about backstabbing sisters. I didn't catch the first show.  I must say, I'm abit concerned about that situation.  My question is...why wasn't Stacey's husband on the show to defend himself. He was the one accused of being a pedophile.  Also when Christy was asked if Stacey told her that her husband had child porn on the computer her answer wasn't a lie and that he did indeed have it on there, why wasn't that expanded on alittle more.  My concern is that Stacey's husband could very well be a pedophile, why wasn't he asked to take a lie detector test or better yet, why didn't he volunteer to take one to absolutely clear himself.  Stacey can not answer the questions for her husband only he can do that, she probably doesn't know that her husband abused their children, she answered what she in her mind thought was the truth.  I don't believe that Christy was given a fair chance and I'm sure that this won't be the last that we hear of this family and i hope and pray that it won't be in the media.
 
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September 6, 2007, 1:53 pm PDT

Backstabbing Sisters

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Makes me glad I don't have siblings that were close enough to my age for me to live with (or grow up with) I had a half bro. 33 years my senior and have a half sis 24 years older than me. We get along nicely . she lives in C.A. and I live in P.A.  Actually I love her alot but  was happily an "only" child growing up.

 Otherwise, I don't have any family left to speak of but, I have my friends and we're as close as any family. i'm sorry to say I've had to watch them go thru things with their families (back-stabbing,name calling)

 Like I said, you can choose your friends but, you can't choose your family.

I am appauled at the fact that a sister would be that ridiculous after another after a polygraph

test was givin with no deception. I am so tired of people using the excuse of " I had a bad childhood" to be a liar, a morally bankrupt person, and a non productive citizen of society. I am tired of seeing it over and over again these people use that excuse to destroy the lives of other's and hurt other people just to make theirselves look good or feel good. I grew up in house with alcoholics and drug addicts for parents. I was raped, sodomized, and beaten every day of my life untill I finally had enough and said something to my teacher at school. My mother was such a poor example of a mother that, even with my step-father admitting to her and his mother what he had done, she sent me to a foster home. I was the problem according to my motehr and my step grandmother I encouraged it , I asked for it, or I was just flat out  a lying WItch. I still went on to be a college graduate in the medical field, and I own my own business. So that excuse about a bad childhood is OLD & just that AN EXCUSE!  It seems to me from listening and watching the show  that maybe Christy is suffering from PTSD and she is associating what happen to her in her own childhood and projecting what is NOT there with her sister and her family. The husband the sister and the children all say nothing is going on. I live in Texas and I have had to deal with the government agencies here and I can tell you from expierence that they do their job and they even found no evidence to support Christy's claims. With a friend / sister like that who needs enemies?  For the lack of non evidence that Christy has and to be so rude and smug and still trying to tell everyone that something is going when all the evidence from the Dr. Phil show a completely different story, she must really have some problems internally to be so vandictive and so rude. I wish I had the chance for Dr. Phil to help me. There is no way I would thank him by being rude or smug to him and saying he and his staff did things that the evidence prsented says they did not. Where was Christy's proof for any of this? NO WHERE! In her own mind! Now I am not saying I didn't and still don't have problems in my life from my childhood. But they are MY PROBLEM, not anyone elses's. I sure as heck don't use that an excuse to hurt other people. I don't make it anyone in my family's problem, or take it out on my children or other innocent children for that matter. Hope Christy wakes up and smells the coffee one day. One day in life she is gonna need her family and this frabrication and vendictiveness will come back to haunt her. If I was Stacy I would file suit against her for slander and all the other things I could. Teach her a lesson. Giving someone a stigma as a pedophile is a serious thing. Where was the evidence to support that? NO where except in Christy's head!

 
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September 6, 2007, 2:04 pm PDT

Christ needs phsyciatric treament.

I think Christy  has Munchausen's Syndrome.
 
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