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September 6, 2007, 9:59 am PDT
I have lived through an aunt Christy
DR. Phil and viewers,
I am writing to you about my aunt, (my father's sister), who caused many problems, for my sisters and I and my cousins while we were growing up. She made up lies about us and tried to cause the family to hate each other. She attempted to break up her own brothers and sisters, through their own children, which were her nieces and nephew. She literally made up stories and lied to her own children, her own brothers and sister, her own mother and her own aunts and uncles, to get everyone to hate us all. She attempted to try to get attention through her distortions and lies about all of us, and we were children at the time. We were kids who were told to respect her, no matter what she did or what she said about us. When each one of us turned 18, we all took away the word aunt from her name and we all grew to hate her over time. We are now all over 30, most in their 40's and we all have nothing but deep hatred for her. We all could care less if she lived another day.
WE DO NOT wish anything to happen to her, now or do we reflect on the past, except when someone brings it up in conversation, or something like this. I will say one thing, everything our parents sister said about us actually ended up happening to her own children. The way she talked and lied about us and said bad things about us turned true against her own children. It was as if karma came back 5 times and unfortunately for her 5 children, the karma has affected her children badly, and she is feeling the wrath of what she caused us many years ago, today, through her own children and grandchildren, in her own life.
Christy knows that what she is saying is all a lie. I DO NOT BELIEVE THAT SHE EVEN BELIEVES IT. I believe that she has dug a hole so deep with her lies that she has to stand behind them now and fight for her own lies because she cannot climb out of the hole she dug herself in. DR. PHIL, I LIVED THROUGH MY OWN AUNT CHRISTY and so did my sisters and cousins and we know what it is like and I am telling you that this woman, Christy is lying to you and the world, and that she has to take the position she has taken because she has caused so many problems for so many people that she would look so stupid if she did anything other than protect the lies she made up all along. This has to do with control, getting back at people, attention, wanting attention and being the center of attention, wanting people to make her the center of everything and many other deep dark secrets she knows about. I can never make you understand what goes through these type of people's minds, but I can tell you that it happens and I have lived through it my entire life, while growing up and while in my adult life. Having a person like an aunt christy in the family is like a cancer that continues to kill the body off but will not actually die. it is like the worse cancer that lingers forever and never actually dies off. It is like a cancer that kills the rest of the body's organs but keeps on living.
For anyone that has an aunt Christy in your life, For everyone that has an aunt Christy in your family, For everyone that knows an aunt Christy, my advice to you is get rid of that person now. DO NOT ALLOW THAT PERSON TO HURT, OR SAY BAD THINGS OR DO BAD THINGS TO YOUR CHILDREN, they will be affected by it for the rest of their lives and they will not forget the bad things a person like aunt christy has done to them and they will have a hard time forgiving you, the adults, for allowing an aunt christy to hurt them.
DR. Phil it is very disappointing that you could not see that this was an attempt, by a woman, who wants to control everything, and how she manipulated everyone to think she really believes all of this garbage that comes from her mouth. Christy will pay in the end, but we may not be privileged to see it first hand. God help her.
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