My daughter was dating this man, until he sexually assaulted her. She broke it off with him, but from the sexual assault, she got pregnant. My granddaughter is three, too. We are living the same nightmare as it is happening with Shocking Accusations. The Social Services have done nothing about it. Even the paternal grandmother strips my granddaughter when she gets to their place and checks her vagina. (I know because she blurted that out to my husband and I.) It is like my granddaughter is treated like a holocaust victim. She is stripped of her identity, she is being assaulted by these people she hardly even knows, and nothing is being done about it. Social services keep saying that they need more, the police (RCMP) keep stalling, while this child keeps suffering. (By the way, this ex boyfriend always wanted my daughter to act like a little girl, when they dated.) My daughter also had another daughter by a previous relationship, and he assaulted her. This granddaughter has had 5 years of therapy, and that is not enough for social services or the police to get involved. My daughter was given an affidavit to prepare for court. The unbelievable problem that is also occurring is that my daughter cannot, and I mean cannot find a lawyer in this province to represent her. They appear to be afraid of the judge. The judge is also using "The Divorce Act" and not the "Family Law Act" in all the orders she has given. The judge and the ex boyfriends lawyer (who is his aunt), are buddies in court. It is like they are walking in the park. We have been looking for a lawyer since June/06. Is this what we call family justice? Dr. Phil you have opened up a pandora's box that really needed opening! The family justice system needs to be re-invented. The judges need to be accountable to the people they serve. They are paid out of the public purse, they should be held accountable to the public. Women in court are not treated with respect. 97% of women in court are telling the truth. The judges base their opinions on the 3% that lie. This is suppose to be in the "Best Interest of the Child", well afraid not. Family courts are designed to keep lawyers employed, and to keep families in turmoil, and steal money from these families. Then they get to be judges... People are usually very emotional when they are in court, they should be treated with respect, and they are treated like they are hardened criminals. Dr. Phil go send out your investigators to go be court room investigators....you have no idea how serious this problem is! The courts are hurting the mothers of our future generations, and no one wants to do anything about it. It is like the women in Afghanistan, as long as they listen, they will not get punished. These women want to protect their children/grandchildren/greatgrandchildren, JUST LIKE US!
I am hoping you will pray for us, and that we can overcome this obstacle, with God's guidance, love and faith!
Let us PROTECT OUR FUTURE!
Baba Donya
Don't miss the first of a multi-part event so riveting, Dr. Phil needed three days to tell the whole story. Bonii, a desperate grandmother, sent Dr. Phil a video showing how her 3-year-old granddaughter, Kaylee, hysterically reacts when she returns from visits with her father, Jeremy. Bonii and her daughter Krista, Kaylee's mom, are accusing Jeremy of molesting Kaylee for the last year. Jeremy maintains his innocence, and says that Bonii and Krista are coaching Kaylee to say bad things about him. Both sides bring a video to prove their point. What does Dr. Phil think of the parents' actions? In a dramatic move, he calls a time-out during the middle of the show to have one-on-one conversations with each parent. Are Jeremy and Krista being honest with Dr. Phil? They agree to be put to the test. Dr. Phil vows to find out the truth, and make sure Kaylee has a safe home. Join the discussion and tell us what you think.
