Topic : 11/03 Shocking Accusations

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Don't miss the first of a multi-part event so riveting, Dr. Phil needed three days to tell the whole story. Bonii, a desperate grandmother, sent Dr. Phil a video showing how her 3-year-old granddaughter, Kaylee, hysterically reacts when she returns from visits with her father, Jeremy. Bonii and her daughter Krista, Kaylee's mom, are accusing Jeremy of molesting Kaylee for the last year. Jeremy maintains his innocence, and says that Bonii and Krista are coaching Kaylee to say bad things about him. Both sides bring a video to prove their point. What does Dr. Phil think of the parents' actions? In a dramatic move, he calls a time-out during the middle of the show to have one-on-one conversations with each parent. Are Jeremy and Krista being honest with Dr. Phil? They agree to be put to the test. Dr. Phil vows to find out the truth, and make sure Kaylee has a safe home. Join the discussion and tell us what you think.

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March 8, 2007, 4:07 pm PST

Yo baby. Take it easy .You are covered

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hey how it goion?  No havent been yet.  Going 2/22 9am.  Read transcript of what the 5 y/o girl claimed happened last week and discussed the inaccuracies w/ attorney few days ago.  I find it weird/odd that my original DCFS paperwork states that the girl is consistent w/ her story.  Though the original transcript of wat exactly came out of her mouth that was stated 4days after they moved out on me was different.  NOT totally but different.  My attorney clailms ill win my case 80%.   As long as i stick to my story and DO NOt change it or add anything to it ill be fine.  The original police report i even got states that the girl didnt say anything the mother had to speak to police for her bout the false allegations.  Dont u think if someone did something to her once or ongoing that she would be all upset and tell everyone in sight bout it?  The paperwork/transcript from 9/6/06 stated that i came home and knocked on the door of the bedroom she was in and didn t get response.  She claimed that id bust the door down, then fix it and lock it..  What the hell that abouit??  That door is still to this day in fine shape and on hinges.  Also the door doesn t even lock. (and have proof it doesnt) It closes and the knob turns like it will lock but u can pull it which makes it not.  Sorry , hard to explailn that.   Never has worked to this day.  She/the girl said that on one page of the transcript say id come in and feel her and she wake up.  Then she said she just go back to sleep.  Then another page said she wake up and let me take her clothes off and threw them out window.  OMG, please -i didnt do any of that crap.  I worked late hours during the mid -late aug 06.  Plus i wouldnt do that to a child, its sick, disgusting behaviour.  I KNOW its wrong.  She claimed she hated me bc she knew i hated her back./??   Well the 2nd of sept 06 she didn t bc when i called the mothers' phone from work on my break and talked to the mother the girl in background asked who her mom was talken to.  When the mother said me the girl said something on the lines of "hey jason, miss/love u" someting like that.  So i know sometime betwee taht day and the day the did the interview w/ the girl on the 6th  i knew in that time frame the mother put TONS of negative info..in that girls' head..  That jsut wrong i tell you.  It make me upset that that lil girl upsets me.  It angers me that the mother did that to her.  My counselor that i been goin to recently like 2x a month claim i cant seeme to get over the accusateions they make against me.  Or should i say her-"THE MOTHER"!  THe counselor claimed i have symptoms of PTSD=POST traumatic stress Disorder.  I agreed.  I had most if not all the symptoms.  The mother told the girl that the cops came to get me which never came to be.  IM NOT fond of people that lie!!  ITS more irritating to me when adults whom are suppose to be responsible (the mom was not that)  will and do lie to there chilldren.  Whats sad bc of how naive children are at that age they always believe everyone till told different.  THATS so sad!  Hard to get over this this situation is..   Whats worse bc of my living and work status im mostly all alone. (NOT by chance) i live alone and work that way too.  Hard to change that.  Hard to get thru this event w/ out brooding bout it constantly.  The transcript even said which was everyting the lil girl said.  SHe said that her mom and her gran dpa (whom lived together prior to moving w/ me) beat her w/ a rope and tie which she prolly mistaken for a belt.  Ive witnessed some of that b4 we 3 all moved in w/ ea other prior to  8/19/06.  They wouldnt do it in front me but would take her to like the bedroom to do it and i would hear that girl cry out in agony.  Id love to show that transcript to South Dakota CPS and try to get the mother in trouble for violent abuse.  Its not llike i wouldn t have the proof.  I have it in black and white that this 5 yr old child claims that her mother and grandfather in past beat her from time to time.  what u think on taht?? any ideas , suggestions, commetns for me at all??  The mother knew she couldnt mooch of me so she make false accusations bout me and moved in w/ her mom in SD.  How sad is that ?  Who knows if that girl is being treated right w/ 2 women raising her out there.  If that girl lives w/ her mom then if she does something wrong at all she might fear being beat?? who knows. ITs really out of my hands now.  What u think abouit all this?? 

Just tell them what they want to hear, and you will be fine . Not what you want to say. Use politics diplomacy. The AMERICAN Way. If you were ever get found guilty, all you got to do is a say it happened so early to me in life, that I don't/didn't know better when I grew up. And you could also say nobody listened or believed me. De Ja Vu. It will work it just hasnt been tried.A small child is inside the predator usually still is why.the proof is there that nobody cares though that is for sure.

 

With incest that is how it happens.. period. That is how it is supposed to happen. Fill the jails with BODIES dont cure the mind. You got all the protection in the world. Nobody will hurt you if you are ever fopund guilty of this.. Getting along in America is so important (#1 goal for atleast the past 45 years)(socialism) that one who doesn't get along (like those non european style understanding children) will be prosecuted. You are fine. I mention "world", because even the United Nations (America's biggest and best friend) says sex with children is  just another  social interaction, and if it gets too rough, on predators (which it won't ) one can always go to Europe, where this stuff isn't even brought up. And it is practiced in the open LITERALLY. That is why those kids seem a little empty upstairs, when they come over here. They are supposed to be . All bodies no brains.Some call it slavery , but that is reserved for blacks like "choice" is for aboprtionists, so these word's have patents on them by groups I am not a part of    so I won't use Them too much or I might offend. Even 'I" have to just tell it like the way they want to hear it .

 

Socialism(they act of peple in their physical nature getting along) inj Europe encourages this stuff and  you can always come back to America because we are such good friends with them, and the U.N. take it easy fella you are living in a tolerant country and some would say it is insanity others call it justice for just about anything. Incest is on that list.

 

 
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June 3, 2007, 6:09 pm PDT

Shameful people

I was recently accused by an ex who's only motive seemed to be just to hurt me. The conversation in which the accusation took place was pretty much a tirade against me. Everything from fat & ugly (I'm 5'8" and 150lbs. Hardly fat. Ugly ? Not for me to say) to claiming that a picture I sent her was of me and a girlfriend. In fact, it was a picture of me & my SISTER !  Which she KNEW to be the case.

I talked to a lawyer about it and he said he could shoot off a kind of slander/defamation of character warning against her. He said if her claims seemed to be just those of an angry ex, which they seem to be, that I should just let it alone. Dr. Phils own article on false accusations says pretty much the same thing.

But the anger that arises from a vile falsehood like that is very hard to swallow. Made even worse hearing it from someone you dearly loved. I truly feel that ANYONE who is willing to involve children in a knowingly false abuse charge should somehow be held accountable. That, to me, is in itself a form of abuse.

 
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June 12, 2007, 10:35 am PDT

im shocked

i want to say that when i watched the first part of the show i really believed Jeremy .. and i thought he was a victim really . after knowing the results and that he was deceptive i was shocked . but i think its all about the grandmother and that hes really a victim .. how in god sake shall a father do that to his 3 year old girl ..!!

please please please just be more accurate before taking any actions toward Jeremy .. maybe these results just came like that because he was stressed.

 

thank you SO much

 

 
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June 12, 2007, 11:48 am PDT

important notes.

Hello.

This show confused me so much , i had seen all the 3 shows attentively (& watched a replay) & i have some remarks to share with the readers :

1- why Dr.Phil didn't gave more attention to the word "They" , the girl didn't say  "He" in the tape . were there many   ?

 

2- i don't know but there are any professionals ? who can ask the girl about what really happened & be sure that she will say the truth !

 

3- i wonder why Dr.Phil didn't bring the Doctor report about the cut in the girl vagina, they must be a medical report  ???

 

4- i liked to see on the show the reasons why the social services refused the accusations , no one showed on the show & no report too (you did bring the court report about Jeremy's father, was that impossible !!!!) ???

 

5- at the end of the show Dr.Phil said that Jeremy passed another polygraph & he did pass it ! , no more information about that ? Who did the polygraph test , what was the Questions , i love to know more information about that Dr.Phil  .

 

At the end i think this show wasn't good for Jeremy , Daniel & specially Kaylee  if the girl was really molested why we have to make that public ? everyone know now about that , what kind of future this child have . Other thing that was bad , why bonii told us the story of the tape if she wanna prove that Daniel lied she had to say just the part of going to the supermarket , why she told us about cheating & the Daniel baby real father , that was vengeance , its clear she wanna destroy Jeremy's life , i hated that too much . The fact that Daniel was cheating on Jeremy had nothing to do with the case of molestation shame on Bonni (i don't trust her) .

 

Hope the truth will show up & please think about the child interest after this show she was really molested on public (she can't say show me on TV or not , the show was about the parents fight thats all) .

 

 

 
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June 12, 2007, 11:19 pm PDT

Accusations

An accusation is just that... an accusation!
Whether the parents are innocent or guilty, from what I saw on the tv, no-one seemed to be puting Kaylees best interests 1st.
I know here in Australia they give the child a quick DHS (CPS) interview, then the parents, then if there are ANY doubts the child is immediately removed until the matter is solved.
This doesn't mean that the parents are cut out of their lives... It simply means the child is put where DHS (CPS) KNOW that the child WILL BE SAFE!
Parents still have regular access & the child involved doesn't have to put up with either parent verbally bashing the other in front of them. (Equally psychologically damaging considering Kaylee is 3yrs old. No I'm not saying molestation is the same but it ends in the same result in most cases, mentally damaged adults.)
In this case, from what I gathered on the tv, there was a camera following a 3yr old around. HELLO!!! Even a 3yr old knows that something strange is going on! They said she had a torn labia... surely Drs must have some idea on how it was done. Obviously she wouldn't have done it herself, except by accident, slide, fence, etc... but to penertrate a 3 yr old with a full grown male penis would surely damage her beyond repair.
Common sense... remove Kaylee to a safe house & then sort the rest out without her in the middle.
I strongly feel that KAYLEE IS JUST A PAWN HER MOTHER IS USING TO GET AT HER EX PARTNER!
I know if Kaylee was my child then I would've dissappeared into the distance without a 2nd glance behind me. Not much of a mother if you ask me! If I suspected anyone of molesting my sons, then its up the lot of you, they play no further part in the childs life.
How can i say all this you ask?
My eldest son molested my younger son! I maintain contact with him , my eldest, BUT there is no way he is welcome back anywhere near my young bloke, including phone calls, for at least... well i really don't know yet, if ever.
Bugger the mother in this case because I KNOW that if Kaylee was mine, there is not a hope in hell that she would be going anywhere near her father until it was sorted out & even then I would be watching them like a hawk. I know what the law's saying in this case, but I'd still be gone, NOT PICKING FIGHTS ON THE DR PHIL SHOW FOR THE WORLD TO SEE MY 3YR OLD!
 
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June 13, 2007, 12:17 am PDT

appologies

I've been a bit naughty in my last post... We get your show here about 6 mths after its put to air in the US. I have just read the backstage interviews, which weren't shown on the tv.
My appologies to you Dr Phil as from what I read you seem to have Kaylees interests in there. (The show I saw did not come accross like that at all.)
 
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July 25, 2007, 11:00 pm PDT

Update Please!!!

Since I don't live in the US, we've just got the the three episodes and I would like to know if anything else further is being done about this. 

 

I find it hard to believe the authorities failed to see the evidence.  A torn hymen!!!  Should that not start an investigation....if the father didn't do it SOMEONE DID!!! 

 

 

 
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August 28, 2007, 4:10 pm PDT

Chemical castration

Only recently I saw these shows because I live in Holland.

 

I could NOT believe that  this man  , her "father", is not arrested yet.

With so much evidence as the wounds in the poor little girls vagina and her upset behaviour ,the polygrafy test results and the last words of the most experienst man on this subject there MUST be enough ground to go and arrest such a horrible and terrifying "father".

 

I worked for over 20 years as a teacher with young children and I have seen the devastating influence of such a crimes commited.

This man should NOT be allowed near Kaylee!!!!

He looks so un-emotional and  idioticly proud and arrogant and therefor psycopathic to me that he might take pleasure in even more harmdoing just to prove he is above the law and everything.

 

I think that this man should be procequted.

 

I also think that all sexual preditors,once found quilty by a judge,should be permanently chemically castrated !!!

 

I know that preditors will never really heall from ther illness so all children need to be protected for these dangerous people; eather by putting them into jail or the c.c (chemical castration) once they got out.

And if they refuse to take the hormones....well.....they should be fysically castrated.

 

Children are our future; they need to be safe!

Sexual preditors (and also those who pray on women! ) should be dealed with as if they where animals if they do not behave..they MUST be treated

 

The world needs laws for this!

 

I hope that in the future there will be a time that all sexual preditors will be publicly know and treated for their illness so the world will be a safer place.

 

with a prayer for Kaylee and all other sexual victims.

 

 

 

 

 
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August 28, 2007, 4:11 pm PDT

Chemical castration

Only recently I saw these shows because I live in Holland.

 

I could NOT believe that  this man  , her "father", is not arrested yet.

With so much evidence as the wounds in the poor little girls vagina and her upset behaviour ,the polygrafy test results and the last words of the most experienst man on this subject there MUST be enough ground to go and arrest such a horrible and terrifying "father".

 

I worked for over 20 years as a teacher with young children and I have seen the devastating influence of such a crimes commited.

This man should NOT be allowed near Kaylee!!!!

He looks so un-emotional and  idioticly proud and arrogant and therefor psycopathic to me that he might take pleasure in even more harmdoing just to prove he is above the law and everything.

 

I think that this man should be procequted.

 

I also think that all sexual preditors,once found quilty by a judge,should be permanently chemically castrated !!!

 

I know that preditors will never really heall from ther illness so all children need to be protected for these dangerous people; eather by putting them into jail or the c.c (chemical castration) once they got out.

And if they refuse to take the hormones....well.....they should be fysically castrated.

 

Children are our future; they need to be safe!

Sexual preditors (and also those who pray on women! ) should be dealed with as if they where animals if they do not behave..they MUST be treated

 

The world needs laws for this!

 

I hope that in the future there will be a time that all sexual preditors will be publicly know and treated for their illness so the world will be a safer place.

 

with a prayer for Kaylee and all other sexual victims.

 

 

 

 

 
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September 9, 2008, 1:25 pm PDT

updates?

is there any updates?  hows kaylee? did her mom ever get full custody?  what of the new wife and unborn baby?
 

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