Quote From: lutherJeremy is my little brother. Non-biological. He lived with my family growing up, and he and I were roommates for a while when we were grown and moved out of our parent's homes. I am always here for him, if he needs me and I can help. He and Kaylee are very special people in my life. I don't know, yet, what will surface on Dr. Phils show. I havent talked to Jeremy in several months, and I have just learned about the show. I am not going to judge Jeremy or Krista at this point. I ask that you not either, until the truth is known, if it ever can be known.
"Shocking Accusation" is a fitting title for this show, because the accusations are totally contrary to the Jeremy I know. He has his faults like every other person on earth, but molesting a child, particularly his own child, is not one of them. It will take a lot of solid proof to convince me otherwise.
To the Jeremy I know, Kaylee is the number one person in his life. There is no one else he loves more. I have spent many an hour listening to Jeremy tell me the wonderful life he wants for his child or children. The Jeremy I know would put a gun to his head (quoting the promo clip from Dr Phils show) if he did such a horrible thing to her. I pray God gives Dr. Phil wisdom that only God can give. This situation should be handled very prayerfully. Jeremy, Krista, and Kaylee are some of God's most precious children. May Gods will be done. May Kaylee have the life that Jeremy has said he wants for her.
Something does not seem right and it appears that yes Jeremy is not perfect but neither is the other side. Some very suspicious behaviors are indicative of Parental/Grandparent Alianation. I hope Jeremy's family can be very involved somehow because IF Jeremy is not guilty this is very harmful behavior on the part of the mother and grandmother. Actually it is harmful even if he is guilty and I really think alianation is going on. What would be more useful than trying to permanently terminate his rights would be to get everyone help. Alianation is very damaging as well. Everyone should support working towards healthy relationships and not towards excluding people forever. Sometimes that has to happen but trying everything seems better first.
I think Dr. Phil is handling this quite well. I hope he supports further evaluation and therapeutic intervention for what has been going on here and not just for Jeremy or Kaylee. The evaluation and intervention may shed further light on what exactly is going on. Dr. Phil said he would get to the bottom of this!!! Please do Dr. Phil.
I have a sence that Jeremy has made blunders but we do not know everything. There is a mystery regarding some important details. I just have a difficult time thinking that anyone could be as stupid as Jeremy is accused of being especially with the world watching.
Sometimes circumstances appear one way but actually if all information was available we would come to another conclusion. There may be factors unknown that would provide a logical explaination.
Father's are so very important for a daughter to develop a healthy self-image; having a sense of herself that she is precious and valuable in the eyes of her father. If that trust is broken it is earth shattering for a child. I pray fathers will not hurt a child in that way but unfortuantely know it can occur. A little girl needs to have a father who is caring and protective. She also needs to have as much of a loving family involved as possible. She needs a mother, grandmother's, grandfather's and a strong, caring, capable, protective Daddy. We don't teach children to hate or be fearful of Dads. We had better help the dads and the children, grandmothers also if they need help. Maybe something happened to the grandmother and she is using a coping mechanism.
I was a girl who lost her dad and he was a hero. Maybe Jeremy will be/is/will become a hero so another girl does not grow up without her father.
God bless you, Jeremy, Jeremy's family, Krista and Kaylee.
Don't miss the first of a multi-part event so riveting, Dr. Phil needed three days to tell the whole story. Bonii, a desperate grandmother, sent Dr. Phil a video showing how her 3-year-old granddaughter, Kaylee, hysterically reacts when she returns from visits with her father, Jeremy. Bonii and her daughter Krista, Kaylee's mom, are accusing Jeremy of molesting Kaylee for the last year. Jeremy maintains his innocence, and says that Bonii and Krista are coaching Kaylee to say bad things about him. Both sides bring a video to prove their point. What does Dr. Phil think of the parents' actions? In a dramatic move, he calls a time-out during the middle of the show to have one-on-one conversations with each parent. Are Jeremy and Krista being honest with Dr. Phil? They agree to be put to the test. Dr. Phil vows to find out the truth, and make sure Kaylee has a safe home. Join the discussion and tell us what you think.
