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Topic : 11/03 Shocking Accusations

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Don't miss the first of a multi-part event so riveting, Dr. Phil needed three days to tell the whole story. Bonii, a desperate grandmother, sent Dr. Phil a video showing how her 3-year-old granddaughter, Kaylee, hysterically reacts when she returns from visits with her father, Jeremy. Bonii and her daughter Krista, Kaylee's mom, are accusing Jeremy of molesting Kaylee for the last year. Jeremy maintains his innocence, and says that Bonii and Krista are coaching Kaylee to say bad things about him. Both sides bring a video to prove their point. What does Dr. Phil think of the parents' actions? In a dramatic move, he calls a time-out during the middle of the show to have one-on-one conversations with each parent. Are Jeremy and Krista being honest with Dr. Phil? They agree to be put to the test. Dr. Phil vows to find out the truth, and make sure Kaylee has a safe home. Join the discussion and tell us what you think.

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November 3, 2006, 3:03 pm PST

today's show....

Maybe the step mother was hurting the little girl so that she won't have to share her husband with the child....and the child's mother's family....maybe the step mother needs help....please ask all the right questions on that lie detector....test....
 
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November 3, 2006, 3:07 pm PST

11/03 Shocking Accusations

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  DR. PHIL, MY GOD WHAT DOES IT TAKE FOR U TO SEE THAT BABY GIRL IS SCARED TO DEATH, TO GO WITH HER DAD. I POSTED YESTERDAY ABOUT THE SISTERS AND I BELIEVED HER!!!   YOU SO STRONGLY BELIEVE THAT THE POLICE ,CHILDRENS AID (THATS WHAT THERE CALLED IN CANADA) OR THE CROWN ATTORNEY CANNOT MAKE MISTAKES!!!????? GUESS WHAT IT DOES HAPPEN MORE TIMES THAN U THINK, I KNOW OF SO MANY CASES. IT TOOK ME 13YRS TO HAVE MY CHILDREN HEARD AND BELEIVED!!!!!

   THIS MAN HAS TO PAUSE AND THINK ABOUT SUCH IMPORTANT QUESTIONS, THAT ANYONE COULD ANSWER  WITHOUT  HESITATION!!!!!!!!

OH DEAR GOD!!!!!!!

   MY STOMACH IS TURNING WITH GRIEF AND ANGER FOR THAT STORY. I feel so sad for the little girl,she is just an innocent baby. How could anyone not see that the dad is LYING!!!!!. Any one that uncomfortable talking, jibberish,and heck he was sweating just sitting there.He is hurting that baby...that is disgusting.Please help them,that little girl is scared of something!!

 
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November 3, 2006, 3:08 pm PST

Child Protective Services

I get upset when Dr. Phil defends this agency with total belief in everything they do. I had called child protective services 15 years ago to report child abuse with my grand children. I gave my name, address, etc. so they could contact me.  In response, I received a phone call telling me to stop harrassing this family,( it was the first time I had called). They told me it was the "perfect family" and I would be arrested if I called again.  Today, my twenty year old gransdon has anger and self esteem issues. My 16 year old grandson is living in a group home after being released from a mental institute and is not allowed to return to his mother because of the abusive situation.  Both of these boys have suffered greatly over the years because of abuse which I tried to report 15 years ago.  I believe this is a great agency, but please don't accuse people of lying when they say their claims were ignored!!
 
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November 3, 2006, 3:10 pm PST

Child Abuse

Your show today regarding the possible sex abuse the father is being accused of, transformed this old grandma back about 12 years ago. My son married a girl while he was in the Navy in CA. Her & her mother were and still are very sick. My son had two kids with this woman. This girl had no clue how to be an adult let alone wife & mother. At one point they moved to MN. They had two kids, boy and a girl. This gal & her mother accused my son of every crime you could think of to take any rights he had away from him. The game was to create a paper trail so they could remove his rights & return to CA. My son was buried in attorney fees within a year,  ( trying to defend himself) & paying child support, I would never have believed a system could have operated so poorly for a father. Today’s show was like being warped back in time & watching my son being accused of things he did not do. I kid you not; this girl & her mother would even run the kids to the hospital for mosquito bits, calling it child abuse. Heaven forbid the kids should fall, which did happen once. We won't go there. But I thought then, as I do now, unfortunate that the father is presumed guilty until he proves his innocence. My ex- daughter-in law & her mother never paid any price for all the false allegations. My grandchildren are now 12 & 13 years old, living in CA. with their mother & other grandmother. They take the kids to a shrink twice a week, why is anyone's guess, as they appear to be normal kids to this grandma. Although I will say they seem to be quite manipulative. I have watched many of men walk the same path as my son did, with nothing to help them bear the financial burden that false allegations create. No one, including the Dr.s knew how to stop these women from the evil they were doing, so they did their business & left the state with the kids. I would never have believed these kinds of people really existed, I thought it only happened in the movies. My son is remarried has a wonderful 4 year old child now & there has never been a whisper of child abuse. The ex- in CA is still doing her accusations though, even though with the kid’s age, she doesn’t get much reaction from her false allegations.  Turns out the ex & her mother are both bi-polar. The ex daughter in law had another baby by another MN man, lives in a three bedroom condo, collects SSI for her Bi-Polar. She collects support from all the dads & drives a brand new car, cutesy of her mother. We should all have such a life. I will be totally shocked if this young man on today’s show is doing this to his little girl. Why would a mother & daughter do this kind of thing is beyond my realm of knowledge, but I do know that it is not uncommon, but most young ladies don’t carry it to this extreme. I suppose they do it because the, “system”, allows it. It’s just a shame that the young men involved have to pay such a high price for others deviance. I also think there should be some tuff consequences for these folks who like to use their children like chess pieces, & in my almost 60 years I have never seen it happen. I might lose faith except I know there are still true ladies of character out there. Some folks need to get a life so they aren't causing so much trouble. Thanks for listening to this old grandma.

 
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November 3, 2006, 3:11 pm PST

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I rarely watch Dr. Phil but after this I will try to more often. This is an incredible story and unfortunately is based around a three year old girl. After seeing the video tapes I would find it hard to believe that he hasn't done something. However, the mother is clearly 'coaching' the girl to not love her father. I can't wait for the lie detector tests. Jeremy has done something. You can see it in his expressions. Watch his eyes. Listen to how long it took him to answer the questions when he was alone with Dr. Phil. I don't feel that either parent should have custody of Kaylee. They have serious issues and Kaylee does not need to be the center of their 'attention'. This little girl seems to go through a lot when she is with Jeremy but her mother does not give her enough condolenses when at home. God bless them all and I guess we will have to wait until Monday to discover the truths.
 
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November 3, 2006, 3:12 pm PST

Two Points...

1)  We haven't seen Dr. Phil talk to Kaylee yet. 

 

I'm no psychologist, but if it were me, I think I'd kick all the adults to the curb and talk to Kaylee.  She's one of only two people who  know the truth, and she's the only one who's apt to be honest about it.

 

 

2)  Misplaced priorities are at work here.

 

What all this adds up to is that the father's reputation is more important than a child's body & soul (both are permanently damaged by abuse).  Heaven forbid we should accuse an innocent man....It's far better that we continue to force the child to go where she doesn't want to be with people she says abuse her.  Yes, we must protect the father; he votes, he has physical and economic power - the child has none of this.  Does anyone else see the BS in this point of view?  Screw him, protect the child!  If he's innocent, this will be forgotten in time and he'll be just fine.  If he's guilty, then fry the bastard.  It's more important to protect her than to pander to him.

 

I still can't get over it:  Some dipstick's reputation is more important than a child.  Some people are a complete waste of flesh.

 
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November 3, 2006, 3:13 pm PST

Take a deep breath!!!

If someone was accusing me of what Jeremy is being accused of I WOULD NOT ONLY TAKE MY TIME ANSWERING ANY AND ALL QUESTIONS BUT........... MY ATTORNEY WOULD BE NEXT TO ME!!!!

Come on people!!!!  I don't know if he is guilty or not but todays show certainly did NOT give any of us enough FACTS to make that judgment.  IF the proper authorities have been contacted by the mother and an investigation done by them then why do we all think can find me guilty by the ravings of the mother and grandmother who are more interested in persecuting him than taking care of the child. 

 

IF he is guilty I have to say that the mother and grandmother need to be the last people helping this small innocent child readjust to a normal life!!!  I was appalled by their behavior.  Their complete denial of their role in triggering certain reactions for this child is sad.  My stepdaughter has only recently told us that her mother used to make her feel so guilty when she came to visit us that she would cry not wanting to come to us just to please her mother and avoid her mothers rantings at HOW she could want to spend time with "us".   Thank god this current trend of ex spouses screaming "Child Abuse"  to punish the other parent was not in fashion then or we may have been facing a similar battle.

 

 Both parents, the new wife and the grandmother all need to seek counseling but as with many things in life........... if you don't realize that you need the help you don't receive the benefits.

 

Whoever is was that talked about the lie detector tests I want to thank you for the info.  I was aware of info but so glad to see if posted here.  Wonder if the Salem witch trials would have been any different if the had used this technology then.............. I doubt it!!!

 

 

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November 3, 2006, 3:14 pm PST

RIDICULOUS!!! ABSOLUTELY RIDICULOUS!!!!

I did not get to this show until 5p est. That is the time it shows in my area! Anyway! What does it take for anyone to realize that this guy is molesting his daughter. You see his behaviour??? Do you realize how he acts when he is asked a question, as if he is seeking out the correct answer, as if he is trying to impress Dr. Phil.  Do you remember being a child, and when asked a question you thought long and hard as if you could impress your parents....(maybe that was only me!!).... My point is, no matter which way they look at it, it is obvious this child is being molested!! Dr. Phil might not say it, but I 100% believe in my heart, that he thinks, this child is being molested. I think he is just being professional until the answers comes forth, but he knows, what he knows! Him being a Dr. for so long, he knows!!! He's just putting on his professional coat!! Don't y'all agree with me, don't you think this child is being molested, and that Dr. Phil knows???????
 
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November 3, 2006, 3:14 pm PST

i am so sad

Dr. Phil, I just wanted to share with you that I sat here in tears listening to that baby cry!  Both her parents are guilty of SOMETHING.  That little girl needs you, Dr. Phil, and I am grateful that you are there to help her. 

 

I don't have children, I have not been blessed.  But I long for a child, and have a very difficult time understanding how any parent can take for granted the gift given them.  I pray that the parents of that little girl on your show today will come to their senses and treat that child with the love and respect that she deserves. 

 
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November 3, 2006, 3:14 pm PST

OH MY GOD

I am in New York and catch your show every day on TV55 because I am at work during the first showing. I am SO ANGRY!!! I cannot believe this has been dragged on so long!!!!!!!!!!! This child is obviously completely distressed when going to her father's. I understand that a parent can have an impact on their child to a certain extent, but I do not believe to these extremes. This little girl is completely hysterical and frightened when going to see her father. I Teach in a NYC Public school, and unfortunately I hear about these types of stories quite often. I SEE RIGHT THROUGH HIM!!! WHY THE HELL WOULD HE LOCK THE DOOR IF HE WAS JUST CHANGING HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Before I was a teacher I cared for many children in a daycare/pre-school setting for 4 years. NEVER ONCE have I ever locked myself and a child in an enclosed room to change a diaper. THERE IS NO REASON!!!! Changing a diaper/potty training a 2 year old does not require being in a locked bathroom!!! ALSO I HAVE NEVER HEARD OF A CHILD TEARING HER LABIA FROM PLAY. I HAVE WORKED WITH CHILDREN SINCE I WAS A YOUNG ADULT AND THIS IS COMPLETE BS. I am sorry I am so forward and throwing out accusations, I just am so overwhelmed with anger/rage/saddess I cannot stop typing.  ALSO, THAT NEW WIFE OF HIS...I CAN SEE RIGHT THROUGH HER TOO. SHE KNOWS WHATS GOING ON...SHE IS A LIAR....What I think is sad is that this whole case would have slipped through the cracks if you were not there for these people Dr. Phil. It makes me even more sad to think f how many children go through this alone everyday.
 
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