Topic : 11/03 Shocking Accusations

When your the grandparent of these children it is much harder if not impossible to get anyone to listen to you, you are just interfearing in perantel rights.  No one would listen until our granddaughter was taken to the hospital bleeding.  Then it  was believed.  There has to be actual active physical proof reported by a doctor other wise it is just hearsay.

As to counceling for the children, Our grandchildrens advocate as of last monday is still trying to find a counclor that handles children of sexual abuse and has not found one.

Too many out there are posting like there is so much help and ways to go but when it happens to your family that's when you find out that it's all smoke and mirrors you stand alone.

I feel sick to my stomach.  This man (if you can call him that) is SO GUILTY.  If someone asked me the questions that Dr. Phil asked him, believe me I would not have to think about the answer for one second.  And the comment about him sleepwalking, he is just trying to put something in everyone's mind so if the polygraph test comes back and he is found guilty he can just say, "Oh I must have been sleepwalking."  Notice how the wife didn't really say anything the whole show.  She knows what's going on and I am glad that she is willing to take a test also. 

And the mother, I can understand where she is coming from but, if my daughter came home and said, "They touched my pee-pee."  And I honestly believed that he was molesting my child, there is no way in hell he would find us.  I would go to the ends of the earth to protect my child.  She and her mother needed to fight for her.  I hope for Kaylee's sake this is resolved and she gets the help that Dr. Phil promised regardless of the outcome of the polygraph tests.

I was so horrified by todays show.  I almost never log on to respond, but I am so upset.  I am very happy Dr. Phil asked for the supervised visits, because I think you would have to be a total idiot to believe for one second that he has not touched that child inappropriately.  That man had to think about weather he put his tongue in his daughters mouth or not. Are you kidding me?  He not only needed to think, but seemed confused as to how to respond.  He was so obviously thinking about weather he should start fessing up or if there was any hope of convincing Dr. Phil of his innocence.  He could not have come across more guilty if he did these bad things right in front of us.  My god!  All the signs are there, I am sure that the Mom and Grandmother are codling the daughter and in a sense egging her on but it seems their intent is to get the abuse on record as much as possible and that is why they are repeating it and encouraging the little girls claims.  They are hoping that the more she makes the claims the more likely it is someone will take notice and listen. That little girl is trying to say whats going on.  It's that simple in her eyes.  She may feel more comfortable saying it because of her Mom's response, but so what- the evidence supports what she claims and he defiantly comes across as GUILTY.  To me I would absolutely assume that something is happening and I know in my heart by what I observed that Dr. Phil believes in his heart that the man is Guilty.  I am positive without a Shadow of a doubt that the lie detector will prove his guilt.  Jeramey is a real creep.  He can't remember if he put his tongue in her mouth-"there might have been cake on the side of his face"-Come on!  "I don't know what I do if I sleep walk".  If you listen and watch him you can plainly see evasive responses, delays in answers, and admissions of guilt even-"if I'm guilty of anything it's of loving my daughter"-That sounds like a pedophile-  I just love children- is that so wrong?  This man is sick.  I will be watching the coming shows.  I am so angry  that more wasn't done to protect that little girl so far and that visits were allowed to continue-knowing that there was even a possibility of abuse.  If I even had an inkling that someone was hurting my child I would do everything possible -immediately to protect them. 

I hope to God this man owns up to what he's doing.  I leave you with one other thought-  How upset he became when he thought about his daughter escaping this unharmed- he knows she can't because he knows what he's doing and has done to her is wrong.  He is shameful, but he can't help or stop himself.  He had to be molested. He had to think for that long about weather he had ever known or been around someone who was molested- seriously?

 Kaylee's Mom was a child herself when he got hold of her.  Can anyone say John Michael Carr?