Quote From: turkalurk Are you kidding me, yeah alot of people would disagree that it's better to just have one night stands than to have a relationship. Having sex with a girl you just meet because you are lonely and desperate isn't very respectable in my book, especially when that person acts like he has a higher standard and says things like, "No lies there, as soon as they are done having all their babies and having irresponsible, unprotected, unmarried sex with all the guys they think they like." Here is a questions for you adam, did you use protection, how long did you know her, how many people had she been with, were you missing in money from your wallet, what makes you think she was any different than the rest of the girls you talked down on, other than the fact that she was interested in you? I don't want to hear your answer, its more for you to ask yourself because you're the only one that will know. I knew you were the type that would talk all that crap and than jump on the first chance you could find. I mean, you're only human, and I understand why you did it. I can't really blame you, it gets pretty hard being alone all the time. But don't make this a habit. You need a girlfriend to fill the void in your heart, random play just won't do the trick.
You made some good points there- Turk- I was waiting for some one to say something-I agree with most of what you said- LMAO-
Some people do one night stands because they think it is 'easier' than having a REALLY GOOD ( or better yet- GREAT relationship) because it is hard work and it invloves two people-As you know-relationships are not easy- and with so many negative messages out there- It IS very hard out there!!
I have noticed more and more that people just want to have fun-no problems no muss nos fuss- Sadly-that is happening more and more- There are alot of unhappy people out there-but they are not willing to do the work to have a mutually loving and respectful relationship- I hear people saying 'life is too short'' do you you want to do and have fun' There are consequences to ALL and EVERY action you take-
Any way- I could go on with each good point you made-BUT I AM TRYING TO GET USED TO THIS NEW SYSTEM THEY GOT HERE-A gray background as you are trying to type-You noticed?
Turk-I am glad you said something to adam-I can't believe you said what I would say! WOW! Like ESP or something!!
One night stands or 'conquers' or ' conquests' is a bad habit to get into- But alot of people are doing that sadly- Thiis is and can be and will be -a 'you play with fire you will get burned' game-I feel this applies to both men and women-
I know what lonliness feels like-Oh boy do I-I feel that right now-But the only person that can fill that void you were talking about-I had to learn the HARD way-is you- No one else can do that- I heard some one say (on Oprah) -that a good healthy relationship COMPLIMENTS ( enhances as well) your life-not COMPLETES it--
Just every one stay safe out there-
Good post , Turk-Hope you did not mind me posting to you-
