Topic : Tired of Being Single

i am sick and tired of people refusing me to a date, 

the moment he/she finds out i am the followings: 

22 year old 

french (1st language)  

english (2nd language) 

caucasian 

a libra 

epileptic 

canadian 

ontarian 

buld headed 

5' 11" 

240 lbs 

non-smoker 

non-drinker 

non-partier 

someone who wants kids 

on an ontario pension 

not aloud to move outside of ontario 

I am in my late Fifties, single,and live in a small country town in Washington state. 

I am twice divorced,single now,and for the first time in my life I am learning to be comfortable with that. My history is that I always had a man, any man, and ofcourse, I had never learned to like myself or be my own best company. Its been a fun adventure,the last six years, doing just that. I would love to hear from others whom are learning about themselves a little later in life like I am. I would like to date, I just would rather not ,than settle. 

 I am very active in my church and community. I have four grown childern that live in the area and 7 grands with 1 on the way.  

I guess my question is how do I meet a nice man without going to the innernet( waste of money and time for me) or the bars or senior groups ( I am not ready for that old, thank you)  

Anyway would love to hear from others 

i don't usually like to talk about this topic but today m making an exception. i received a txt message from a friend who told me that she has a new boyfriend. m thrilled for her coz she deserves to be happy after all that she's been thru. it sucks in my case coz why is it so easy for my friends and everybody around me to be in a relationship and m struggling all my life to be w/ someone? what's wrong w/ me??? a lot, i guess... i don't know?! i should probably just give up. the hardest thing right now is accepting that my fate is to be alone for the rest of my life. ouch! its so damn hard right now. i really m frustrated w/ this empty feeling... 

I'm in my late 40s and trying to figure out where a guy should go to meet quality women. I'm in great shape. Nothing wrong with my looks.  I'm successful. My friends tell me I have a fun personality. I tried the bar thing for a short while. Didn't have any luck there. Next came on line dating. WOW ,that was an eye opener to who is out there. So I'm trying to figure out what to try next. It's looking to me that there are so many women that have made a physical, emotional or financial mess of them selves looking for a guy to fix things.  

There has to be a better way to meet quality women. Let me know what worked for you. 

Pete  

quest4infinity@yahoo.com 

Okay, where do You live? Lets meet!!! I really am just teasing, I did want to respond to your comment about women whom have made a mess out of things looking for someone to fix them, that goes for both genders.  

I too would like to date again, but I am very happy with myself( that was a long time coming) and know what I need in a relationship with a man. I will be content either way. I think that we need to be comfortable with ourselves before we can be find someone we can be comfortable with.  I too wonder where to look, let me know what you find out. God Bless 

Ok, I need help with this one. My friends have given me advice, i've looked up advice on the internet and I just can't figure this out. I've been going to school with this one guy for 3 months now and i've had the biggest crush on him for a bit - about a month. I can't tell if he likes me or not, but he walks with me to my car everyday, asks if I'm going and some days even waits until I'm ready to go even though he could just leave. My classmates and I went out one night and he seemed to make his way to me for the majority of the night. If I shifted he shifted too. Maybe this is just my preception of things. Anyway, i finally got the nerve up to ask him out and we went out for lunch. It was great! He offered to pick me up, pay for lunch and then even said that if he wasn't going out of town we could have hung out for the rest of the afternoon. We stayed for about another 45 minutes after our plates were taken. He dropped me off and said that we should do it again sometime. Today at school it was as though nothing happened. We were buddy buddy again. I thought we had a great time and I was hoping he'd ask me out, but there were a lot of other people around. Was he just nervous? Should I except him to ask next time we're alone or should I ask him again? Or should I drop it? 

Please help! 

I am a 32yr old single divorced mother of 1 with few friends and am sick of coming home alone. My daughter is almost 3yr old and her father has met a new girlfriend and moved on.  He takes her when he can but on the days he has her I still have no one to really hang out with but a few friends and they stay pretty busy themselves. I am not real close to my family although I have tried. My real mother died when I was 21 and my father remarried and nothing has been the same since. I feel like I am never going to meet anyone unless I use the internet and I really am not to keen on that whole thing but I guess i will try. Well if you want to talk anytime just email me at missytylr32@yahoo.com. 

You nailed that one. That girl is not into him at all and u are  right what she is doing she will do to him as well. Been there done that. My ex husband will probably do the same to his new girlfriend too. Time will tell. I hate being alone too and need to get a life myself. I am working on getting my life together it just takes time and healing. If u like to talk u can email me at missytylr32@yahoo.com 

Melissa 

hey ladies i need some help on this please!  

 well i was a a store the other day and a female came up to me and started talking to me since i seen her in another place one day. now everytime i go in there she talks to me and i think she is flirting with me because she told me her age and that she does has one kids. i think this lady is interresting and i do want to ask her out but i dont want to make a fool of myself. well ladies if you have a opinion about this please do thanks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!