Topic : Tired of Being Single

Thank you!  I hope you get on the cruise! 

Cindie 

I hope we all get to go on the Cruise - TOBS (Tired of Being Singel Gourp) 

We will have a BLAST!!!!!! 

Hey Everyone of the TOBS Group - Don't for get to email Dr. Phil & Robin about have a party for all of us. 

Have a good one 

Cindy 

Yeah, I hope I get to meet the Cindy with a "y" and the Cindie w/an "ie" at this bash we're trying to make happen!  

Keepin' those cards & letters (emails) comin'! 

Sherrie 

  If i was you i would give this guy a call and see if he wants to go out for dinner or drinks after work some nite... your not doing anything wrong by giving a guy a call or anything, he gave you his number and he took yours... and like you said its been 3 dayz so i think that you have waited long enough, but hey thats what i would do... im still waiting for my boyfriend to call me and it been 2 weeks!!! hes kind of gone MIA (missing in action) and i dont have any numbers to get a hold of him, so im back to being single.... i cant wait around my whole life... and you should not have to... so give the guy a call and see whats up.... 

Lindz :) 

 dont give up yet... hey like i told you in the last one im going on 2 weeks to hear from my boyfriend and im getting sick of it... you just need to go on with your day and still go out and meet other people... cuz really your not tied down :) so just give it time and then maybe one day out of the blue he will call you... im still waiting for that to happen with me... lol... i think that i better hope a little harder... but i hope that helps you feel a bit better and try not to take it so rough like me... good luck sweety!!!! :) 

lindz 

when i came the first time here in that web site i was surprised cause i saw that some girls out there in USA  the dream country have like that problems but i wanna tell ya one thin as OPRAH said once u've to be proud and happy for beeing bonrn in USA. 

i'm searchin for  girl for  long time and it's an honor if she'll be from USA. 

Well, I hope to meet you and the Cindie with "ie"    

We will have such a blast.  I love a party!!!!!!!! 

Everyone,  

Keep the letters to Dr Phil and Robin pouring in, so that they have no choice to gave a party for us. 

Talk to you all later 

Cindy 

Ok, TOBS..............I haven't heard much on here in a while and I'm home on a Sat night! (sigh) I had somewhere to go but just didn't feel like going anywhere tonight. ......so I stayed in. 

I just have a question for my TOBS!  

Let me set this up! 

I voluteered this year to learn Christmas music, attend rehearsals, and sing in 11 services (4 on Christmas Eve) because I love to sing, wanted to be of service at Christmas time and give back to God for the talent he gave me!  I'll be reeping what I sew right? Rewards are coming???  

Sure! 

I come home to my apt exhausted after 11 services and crash in my bed about 10pm.  About 2:30 a.m.................................I hear female sex noises loud and clear and they wake me up out of a dead sleep!@!%^$#   

I remember thinking...................."Come ON!!! Just get IT over with!!! For the love of God finish! I can't even remember how to spell sex............and she's hitting high Gs up above me. I sing in 11 services.............. and this is what I get???? 

Remember I'm being sarcastic w/all that I say................trying to make a joke out of it! 

But really, does this happen to any other TOBS out there??? Do you have to listen to others getting busy while you lay awake wishing you could fit tube socks in your ears? They wake me up regularly at random hours! They woke me up this morning. I even know he goes to the bathroom right afterwards............... I know that's when peace is restored!  

Any suggestions? 

Hey Sherri, 

It sounds like your walls are paper thin.   I am fortunate my walls are thick and my condo area are older people who mainly live alone.  One guy next to me is an older gentleman (grandpa type) and the other is a single mom, who shares a coldo with her grown-up son.  So I have no problem. 

Here's a suggestion, use a tape recorder, then let them listen to it.  Or get some extra padding to staple to your wall.  Or play your sterio loud,  or if none if that works, just get ear plugs> 

Cruise On 

Cindy 

I have never had the misfortune ( I guess, lol) of being able to hear neighbors have sex but I understand your point ,irony, sarcasm, and all. I'm assuming that you do want to have a partner and a great relationship someday right? 

Well I know how it can be. You try to have a fulfilling life even if you are single. You do things like sing in choirs. If you are religious you try to do what you are supposed to do according to your religion and also try to have faith that you will have someone special some day. You rely on your religion for strength in the tough times.  Then WHAM! Something happens to cause you to come crashing down!  You pass a bridal shop.  You meet a cool guy then find out he's married. ANOTHER one of your friends gets married.  You have a bad first date.  And hey, sometimes you even overhear a woman enjoying great sex while you are in your bed by yourself! 

It can be hard to keep your head up. I know it is for me sometimes.  I was just thinking to myself "How do nuns do it?!" But then I remembered, they don't EXPECT to have a love life as long as they keep their careers. Silly me! 

But I think the best thing you can do if you don't want to be single is be honest with yourself. If you go over to the "love being single" board I think you would find a lot of very suspiciously "happy" posts.  There is nothing wrong with needing someone, or admiting to as much. You don't have to show  to the world that you are desperate. But  at least be honest with yourself. That's the only way you can fight for what you want.