Topic : Tired of Being Single

The thing about controlling people is that if we didn't let them do it, then they couldn't do it! I was always afraid that if I didn't comply with whatever he wanted that he would get mad and leave me. You could have never told me that I would be the one to leave him. The thing is, if I would have stood up for myself more, instead of crying and whining about it all the time, he would have had a little respect for me and we might still be together. Oh, well, you know what they say about hind-sight! I made good money cutting hair and I gave him every bit of it. He wouldn't even give me $10 a week allowance!!! It was just stupid. Anyway, none of that matters anymore as long as I have learned from it and don't repeat the same mistakes again.  

 HAve you been able to drink beer now? 

Most definitely, I love my beer. I can eat whatever and whenever I want and I have no problems at all. It was all stress, and once I ended that all the symptoms went with it.  

Hey I think it has to do with the first meeting of the two sexes. there is the first that is sexual, but then it leads you to talk, and see if there is compaitblity. One women was so thinking that it was not. she said that it was you just walked to a person, and ask then to talk, and the first look was not it. She has some thinking to do. If  your attracted to someone you will then go to them to talk Right? 

 Randy In Gods country. 

Yeah, just got my words screwed up. Glad you could find what I meant in all that jibberish!  Basically what I was trying to say is, there are jerks in both sexes, all men aren't jerks and all women aren't jerks. It's the indivudal and has nothing to do with what sex they are. Now wonder why that was so hard for me to say when I first posted it? Too much beer maybe?  

That's your first problem, your goal is not to be what someone else wants in a girlfriend, just find out who you are and be yourself. Go and do the things you enjoy and one day someone will walk into your life and you'll discover that the two of you enjoy a lot of the same things, therefore both of you can be yourselves. 

Are there things that you've never done before but always wanted to, new things to learn, new places to see?? Discover what those things are and go and do them. 

Also, if you don't think you're good enough then why should someone else? You give out a vibe whether you realize it or not. People can sense your low esteem and dislike for yourself. You need to discover and love yourself before finding someone to share your life with you. 

Everyone is different when it comes to the age of the people you date. Personally, I have always been attracted to older guys (not 10 to 15 yrs) I'm talking more 4-8yrs older. But then I have some friends who have always dated guys younger than them and some that date the same age as them.  

I look a lot younger than I am, high energy, and love to live life, I'm not a slave either. The key is finding someone who has the same interests in life and you are in the same place in life.