I honestly believe that the father is lieing. I believe there is some truth to the fact that he has done something - as to how far and what is hard to know. But you know whether you have done somethign or not and it doesnt take you forever to answer a simple question unless you are thinking of the right wording to get yourself out of trouble. Yes the mother may be feeding things into the childs head. That is hard to tell.
I live in australia and am currently dealing with a very similar situation with my boys. My eldest (6yrs) came home and disclosed something to me. I rung Child Safety/Services , who gave me advice and because we currently have a court order with custody arrangements, they told me that they terminated the court order and that they override the courts. So i did what they said , stopped all contact because there was no way i was sending my boys to him knowing this information. I contacted the police as well who told me they would investigate it but because i had taken them out of the situatioin that it was no longer a high priority. So nearly 2 mths go by , no word from either departments - even after constant phonecalls to check how things were going. There father put a contravention order on me for breaching the court order, which went to court - the judge would only hear his side of things - which he tried putting me off to be a vindictive mother who is making all this up to get them away from him. So the judge set a trial date for ME. I know have to prove why i didnt take them and if my answers arent good enough to him then i will be jailed. Which is ridiculous. He is the one that has 99 percent chance of doing something wrong and im the one that gets the riot act read to me. So the boys now have to go back to there fathers house for there regular contact visits. NO supervision , nothing like that - where he could literally be still doing it. It has been a month since they have gone back and still the police and Child services have done nothing. That tells you how stuffed up the government system really is. NO ONE WANTS TOO LOOK OUT FOR OUR YOUNGER GENERATION , no one cares unless it is there own family in that situation.
My two eldest boys are currently going to bravehearts ( sexual counselling sorta place) , teaches them about knowing whats right and wrong and how to stand up and say dont do that to me. My second eldest (5yrs) is going to a phsychologist because my dr and the physchologist believe he has anxiety issues because he was fully toilet trained and recently started soiling his pants.
I dont mention anything about there father in front of them , i dont ask them did daddy touch you - anything like that because i know that one day when they eventually get off there rears , the police will investigate and they dont need to hear from the boys that mummy said this , mummy told me to say that etc. But i know for a fact that there father is telling them to say stuff , telling them not to say stuff. Because You will be having a conversation with the eldest, he will tell you something and then it clicks in his mind that he isnt spsoe to say that and then he changes his mind, and says oh it was a dream or something like that.
Its a really hard situation for both the children and for the parents not accused. It doesnt matter how hard it is on the accused. Because to be accused there has to be some sort of truth behind it all. One Person in authority said to me, that at that sort of age , they tend to not make things like that up - because they dont know about it to be able to make it up. So it really makes you wonder.
I hope for the little girls sake that it wasnt happining , but if it was at least it has been caught at a young age where , she can get help and hopefully it wont damage her in the long run. I feel sorry and sad for those out there who have to go through it for a long time and nothing be done about it.
Hopefully the government will get off there bums and do something about my situation before its too late. You always here over here where the father gets accused of something the child services say its ok to go back and then within a month or however long , the father runs away with them , or even worse ends up killing them and himself. I Wish there was more that i could do , but sometimes i feel like im at my wits end , i feel like i have used up all the sources possible. If only Dr Phil could help me in australia.
Good Luck to Kaylee and her family and Good luck to anyone out there who is in the same sort of situation or knows someone who is.
Jae
Dr. Phil vowed to find out the truth behind accusations that Jeremy molested his 3-year-old daughter, Kaylee. Krista and Bonii, Kaylee’s mom and grandmother, brought videos to Dr. Phil to try to back up their charges against Jeremy, yet Jeremy maintained his innocence, insisting that Kaylee was coached to say bad things about him. Now, both sides are back after taking lie detector tests administered by a highly skilled polygrapher. Have Krista and Bonii been honest with Dr. Phil about their feelings and actions? Did Jeremy pass his lie detector test? Plus, did anyone try to use tactics to defeat the test? Share your thoughts here.
