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April 25, 2008, 1:28 pm PDT
sad but true
I am a little freaked out because if you changed the faces and names on the stage to my family members, it would be the same sad story. A grandfather who has a self-admitted history of molestation yet dangles the full truth to their victims. I myself understand the feeling of the mom, my dad molested me so many times to count and said it was "only a one time thing." He molested two of my sister's childen "once". I have found out that he molested some of our childhood girl friends.....the list grows on and on....A mom (grandmom) who can't believe the person they have been married to for so long is a monster and feels powerless to do anything because they are financially and emotionally imprisioned by their spouse and didn't protect their daughter. One thing I have come to grips with is that people who molest deal with it by lying to themselves. I think they can't handle truth and reality so they lie....even in the name of a truthful God. I have heard the very same words come out of my father's mouth that he'll stand before God and He knows the truth....yeah, they will and I have no doubt they will NOT escape reality then. The sad fact today is that molestation is rampant. If you even have a tiny suspision, why risk your child's future. My kids NEVER were in my parents house without me in clear sight of them. The other grand kids spent the night etc., and I pray that they were safe......I have my doubts. God is a God of personal choices and I doubt he zapped my dad to protect anyone. I know He hates this disgusting behavior. I also know it takes a life time to get over, if ever. I, to am a Christian, a believer that Jesus is the Savior. I also am a believer that sin has consequences. We can be forgiven BUT the consequences for our choices can last a life time. I want to encourage anyone who can switch their name with mine and relate to these circumstances, to get counseling. Get help, talk and cry and vent until it feels some better, then periodaclly you will have to cry, vent and talk more.....and again...and again. Forgive the person if you think you can, but NEVER, NEVER, NEVER trust them with your kids. Forgiveness is for your relationship with God and yourself and it eventually can be part of healing, it also takes back your power that they can't hurt you with it anymore.
The other thing I see over and over is these pedifiles claiming God......I really don't get this. The only thing I can say is that it is another lie they live with so they can go on in life with a "clear" record.
One more thing, I will bet that I am NOT the only one who can change places with this family. That is really the sad but true part. I can't believe that this is as rare as I would like it to be. That is the sad truth.
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In the dramatic conclusion of a three-part series, Dr. Phil continues exploring details of the alleged molestation of 3-year-old Kaylee. Krista, Bonii, Jeremy and Jeremy’s new wife, Danielle, all return to hear the shocking polygraph results. Is there something Jeremy will admit to doing that he is ashamed of? Then, a highly skilled polygrapher shares his thoughts about the outcome of the test. Dr. Phil assesses both sides, and discusses what needs to take place with Kaylee now. Talk about the show here.
