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Created on : Friday, November 03, 2006, 01:01:10 pm

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(Original Air Date: 11/08/06) When it comes to dating, they say age is just a number. But what happens when the man is more than two decades older than his girlfriend, or the woman is 15 years older than her young lover? Forty-year-old Sanjay is a wealthy cosmetic surgeon who met 18-year-old Jacqueline on the Web site SugarDaddie.com. They’ve only been together four months but are already talking marriage. Sanjay’s friend, Mike, is convinced that Jacqueline will put him right in the poorhouse! Is there a chance that Sanjay has found true love, or is Jacqueline just in it for the money? Then, 24-year-old Ryan is engaged to Angela, a woman 15 years his senior. Ryan’s friend, Donovan, fears that Angela is alienating Ryan from his buddies. Will Ryan have to choose between his college friends and his soon-to-be wife? Share your thoughts, join the discussion.

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wisecaliwoman

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November 8, 2006, 1:28 pm PST

Resources?

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Younger women seek wealthy older partners are 100 Gold Diggers. No if's and or buts about it. 100 % artificial.

Who says those were her intentions? I believe she said that those are not and have not ever been her intentions. Is there a specific reason other than her age that we're jumping to the conclusion that that is what she is in it for? No, there certainly is not.

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November 8, 2006, 1:28 pm PST

child!

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What is wrong with this child. She thinks she is so mature and worldly. First off, she just graduated from high school six months ago, and I didn't hear anything about college plans. This would appear to hurt the guys image of her taking care of him in his early retirement. Then she tells his friend she isn't spoiled and that her family is poor. Sorry, but the show showed her house and her room. Let's just say, I didn't have that growing up, nor do I have things that nice at the moment (struggling college student). I'm 27, in college, working two jobs, buried four friends in five years, and had a very hard childhood, yet every year I realize how immature I was the year before. Life is growing and this girl has absolutely no clue.

you answered your own question , she has alot of growing up to do and will make mistakes along the way like everyone else . leave her alone and quit trashing her.or do you people enjoy beating up on a young person. And maybe by the time you are 30 you will read this and have a little compassion for such a young girl instead of hurting her with your words. you will continue to grow as a person and so will she.

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November 8, 2006, 1:29 pm PST

Enough Daddy for Two little girls?

(if anyone has posted this, sorry) Ok, this thought caused me some giggles. This young lady said they wanted to get married and have kids and all that great stuff. (After her demands to remove all pictures of his deceased wife) I was just curious, once they have children, does anyone think she is going to be willing to share her new "Sugar Daddy"?

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skydiversrfun

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November 8, 2006, 1:29 pm PST

Oh Mr. Dr. Guy...

I am SO sorry about your late wife...but please, PLEASE hear your friend and take some time to yourself before you jump in to this young child...woman. We know you don't want to be alone and I'm sure you DO care for her but please watch this show again. She's such a child yet. I hope you find happiness...true happiness one day.

Concerned in MN

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bornleas

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November 8, 2006, 1:29 pm PST

Get rid of her now

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Mike, I don't think you are wrong about this girl,I just think the way you are going about convincing

Sanjay is. Frustration made you behave badly,it was clear you didn't think Sanjay was hearing

you. So you ratcheted up the insults. Men tend to do this. Tell him how you feel and what your

concerns are more calmly. I 'm sure you've done this 50 times,but PLEASE keep trying. At least

get Sanjay to admit that he cannot see around corners and needs a pre-nuptual agreement. It's

like fire insurance. Do you want the house to burn down? No. Do you do everything you can to

prevent it from burning down? Yes. But it still happens. If the marriage is a good one,so what?

It's just a scrap of paper. But if this girl takes a powder in 2 or 3 years,he will at least have some

protection. Given what he was saying about a new building he was adding to his practice,he

REALLY needs to look out for and guard what he has worked so hard to build.

Like Dr. Phil,I don't think she's a bad person,she is just really young and not terribly mature. A

grown woman wouldn't resort to loud crocodile tears to enforce her point. She was very childish

when she did that. Her focus on material goods is also a sign of an underdeveloped

personality. She needs to grow up. Hopefully Dr. Sanjay is going to get her to take some

college classes. What in the heck do they have in common? What do they talk about? It

boggles my mind that he would willingly choose to be with a girl instead of a woman.

This girl is amazingly imature. His friend is absolutely correct but his frustration shows in the way he is going about trying to convince his friend. Two years, she will be out the door looking for greener fields. The fact that she cannot deal with a deceased wife tells everything. She wants the cash but as far as contributing to this relationship in any adult emotional way is a joke. She is so imature it is riduculous. He is smart, attractive and this is the best he can do!! heaven help us all. He has great friend and he needs to listen to him. She really is nothing great. The deceased wife - knockout

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November 8, 2006, 1:29 pm PST

11/08 Cougars and Sugar Daddies

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Thank you to the people who understand our relationship and accept that we're in love regardless of age difference.

It's been 7 months since Sanjay and I first began dating and we are more in love than ever before! Our relationship continuously improves and is always exceedingly golden. This love cannot be broke. It is a choice that one makes. We choose each other. It is clear we have many options. Still, we choose each other- that is the real beauty. Sanjay is accomplished and accomlishing. Jacqueline has accomplished and is accomplishing. We are both successful, proactive, and positive. We both have loving natures. We have young hearts and old souls. We connect on levels many people do and do not. We are interdependent. Imagination has no age, laughter is timeless, and dreams are forever.

considering the spelling/grammar errors, i'm guessing Jacqueline wrote this...

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November 8, 2006, 1:30 pm PST

Sugar Daddy

First, I'd like to say that my dad is 10 years younger than my mom and my husband is 9 1/2 years younger than me. I believe that it all depends on the individual. I don't believe that this young lady is ready for this kind of relationship.

Secondly, the friend that was on the show needed to show more consideration for the others. He ran his mouth CONSTANTLY and it was very aggrivating. I was waiting for Dr. Phil to slap duct tape over his mouth.

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lindahand

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November 8, 2006, 1:31 pm PST

Any age of man should not allow disrespect

Jacqueline should dump her Sugar Daddy because he obviously isn't into her - or at least not romantically. One of the primary vows in a marriage is respect. He obviously doesn't respect her if he allows a 'friend' to call her a prostitute. How is it her fault? He approached her on the internet. She did not stalk him, likely didn't send the first message. Why didn't this 'friend' call him a 'john' Why? Because she is the poor person trying to break into the ranks of the rich. If she was a rich young thing - he'd be slapping him on the back going "way to bag 'em buddy"

His friend went shopping for a wifey online, ordered her to his exact specifications, ensured she was young enough to be programmed, poor enough to be desperate - so he could be the puppet master and controller. He should be disgusted at his friend, not the highschool girl he ordered online.

And I hope she finds a brain - the cost of being the little wifey stuck in the glass house is simply way too high. I know one of those - and they are anything but happy. Money buys stuff, not security and not love. You don't need a sugar daddy - you need a man.

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pinky4482

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November 8, 2006, 1:32 pm PST

The Sugar Daddy's Sour Friend

This guy's friend is such a jerk! Of course there are things about this relationship that are not healthy and it's obvious to me that they really want different things but the things his friend are saying are just plain hurtful to both of them. With friends like that who needs enemies!

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krushinsky

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November 8, 2006, 1:33 pm PST

WHAT ABOUT THE REST OF US????

I'M JUST A LITTLE PISSED IF I CAN SAY THAT ON HERE... THE REASON FOR IT,IS THAT MISTER MAN HAS ALREADY RULED OUT THE REST OF US LOVLY WOMEN IN THE WORLD BY WANTING JUST A BABY THAT HAS NOT EVEN LEFT THE PARENTS HOME YET,TO LIVE LIFE....BUT I 'M GUESSING AFTER ALL HIS COMMENTS ON HOW HIS LAST GIRLFRIEND WOULDNT LET HIM BABY HER ..HE NEEDS TO STICK WITH THE BABIES,CAUSE HE CANT HANDLE A REAL WOMAN.... AFTER ALL A TRUE WOMAN KNOWS HER MIND BUT STILL WOULD LOVE TO HAVE A MAN TAKE CARE OF THEM,BUT NOT BABY THEM....AND I WOULD SAY THAT IF IT WAS MY DAUGHTER I WOULD OR I WOULD FIND SOMBODY TO KICK HIS BUTT... BUT BETTER YET LETS ASK HIM WHAT WOULD HE FEEL LIKE OR IF HE WOULD LIKE TO HAVE HIS OWN DAUGHTER DATE A MAN HIS AGE AND HER AGE BEING 18 TO 21 .....AND IF HE SAYS IT WOULDNT BOTHER HIM ,IM THINKING HIS HEAD IS SCREWED UP...

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