Topic : 07/02 The Dr. Phil House: House of Hatred, Part 3

Quote From: housewife52

Why do you not like black people?

Quote From: baware

All of us have to understand that we are all connected in one way.  Through our conscience and unconscience which is through one source The Divine.  The reason that all of these beings were led together was to come face to face with themselves.  God always sends us reminders of how we are being at any given time if we look for the clues.  We are all mirrors of ourselves, believe it or not, so if someone causes you to feel a negative reaction, that is actually you reminding you of some ways that you need to work on.  One mind.  God is genius that way.  We are not meant to go it alone here.  If you are not feeling good about yourself, you are not in alignment with the Creator, and he will let you know, even if you think that you are not that way, it will show you what you are capable of (perhaps some fears undealt with)and to change it before bitterness seeps in.  Learn to study yourselves and look for signs in people, tv, radio, books, conversations and especially from within.  If you ask , an answer will surface. God Bless.  In Jesus name.  Amen

Quote From: nasale

So, what do you call a white person who is at the opposite end of the scale? I think it must be a type of prejudice  (?), but I absolutely love black people! They are funny, and talented and I love their style and music (some- not rap ).  From the time I was a kid I always wanted to adopt a black child. I think (most) black babies are the cutest , most adorable little dolls I've ever seen!  I didn't grow up with the kind of prejudice that I see in the U.S. and I really do have a very difficult time understanding it. Okay, let me have it. I know I'm probably gonna get an earful,because I am smart enough to realize that I'm probably just as bad as someone who hates blacks. But, I'm just trying to be honest and understand myself. 

Quote From: lexydae

hi everyone

i have only seen part 1 so far as were abit behind u guys!

i am not the smartest person in the world but i have a heart  " this is crap" you shouldn't judge a book by its cover i am somaon european so i have one white parent and one dark parent i am also just abit over weight for my hieght and age i have no problem with pple who like the same sex if i have to many bad run ins with the male gender and meet a female who has taken a real likeing to me who knows i may jump the fence to so if i had been put in the house nobody would like me """"everyone has good points"""" if you dn't have anything nice to say keep it to your self

i have two children i am only 22 and i would hate to think that my children have to mix with such hateful pple i dn't think that parents are always to blame for the way that there children turn out but who raised these pple why raise your children with such a horribleburden its one of the worst things you can teach your children is to HATE!!!!!!

pple need to grow up and get a grip and change you shouldn't judge anyone for there colour for being white or black you can't judge pple for being gay do you not realise that there life is already different and hard enough as it is why do pple have to make it harder for them and as for being over weight you dn't like it keep it to yourself i am alittle bit bigger then what i should be that is my own fault but nothing for you or anyone else to judge anyone on [you can't change your skin colour or your sexuality but you can change the way you think and as for the weight issue i do believe that i am bigger because i let it be that way some pple can't help it but that is no reason not to try to loose weight if your unhappy get off your arse and try be positive and try an do sumthing about it

as for john shower boy stop feeling sorry for yourself and get on with it you will have to do it at some point stop being a drama queen and clean yourself and by you acting up you have slowed the progress of the whole group there are bigger issues then you being lazzy and pple wouldn't tease you if you were more awear of your cleanliness therefor the group would leave you alone and you would smell nicer also the whole joining in with the whole white is right thing dumb thing to say as you dn't believe that you just wanted pple to hurt its a childish and mean thing to do grow up pple stop being mean to one another and start realiseing that in you hateing pple for silly childish stupid reasons your just consuming yourself with hate ............how can you hate someone you dn't no and have never talked to cause there skin colour there sexuality or the fact that they are two skinny or to big does that mean you dislike a child that is of a different colour then yourself or a child that is to chubby or a little boy that holds alot of girly qualities like wanting to pick flowers or bake with there mom...........if you spread hate thats what you become hatefull be nice pple and if you can't say anything nice then keep your opinions to yourself i dn't need my child listening to ya hate ...................................

Quote From: ksm_wvr

You both seem to be able to use big words in the most appropriate way. I'm guessing you both are very well educated and get deeply involved in these kinds of discussions often. Good for you both. That is if I am correct.

Quote From: rianashley

You said, "History has repeatedly shown that whenever diverse groups are required to live together it creates conflict, oppression, and eventual destruction of a nation."

 

This conflict and oppression  has nothing to do with diversity but has more to do with the hearts of people. If people were not selfish, did not think they were superior to anyone and would treat everyone they way they wish to be treated, then everyone would get along. It's a heart thing. If we would get our hearts right, we would get along.

Quote From: purplepenny

You know, that's an excellent point.

Maybe I watch too much Court TV, but no matter what race, I am going to avoid any male behaving strangely, even those acting normally.

I don't answer my door to people I don't know either.

Maybe I'm paranoid.

Quote From: lesdis5

Hello Dr. Phil.

 

As a Norwegian I am amazed to see that American people are still prejudiced against black people. How come? I read in the paper that there are still arguments about white pupils in black schools and vice versa. And this in USA 2007? You white American are still not comfortable with black people in your neighbourhood? After so many years, black people are still an issue! I conclude that there must be a good reason for that. And what are the reasons I wonder. Last time I talked about being political correct., which here in Norway is a boring issue, as far as I am concerned, I am of that opinion that being against some ethnic group is based on experience. I have personally experienced black people in my own country the last 4-5 years. This has made me what someone might call a rasist. I am not! Its just that my experience is of a caracter which has made me think bad of these people. So why is it that I am not allowed to speak about this issue openly? And why should "dr. Phil" change my attitude when this is based on my own experience? Why am I a worse person for being a so called rasist? (I do not care actually,) and I do speak openly about my feelings. I guess that after being on your show on this matter people will behave, but I do not think that you are able to change these peoples attitudes. Because the reasons for their attitudes will be seen on a dayly basis when they get home, through media etc.

 

Sincerely, Sidsel

Quote From: housewife52

IMO, no you did not miss some part where God tells people not to have interracial relationships and children. God just simply didn't want the tower built. (Nowadays you'd have to go to the zoning board)