Topic : 07/02 The Dr. Phil House: House of Hatred, Part 3

I was so full of emotion from the very beginning of this show that I feel like I too have made a change for the better. For those 6 people to put their lives on hold and get together and have this kind of experience trully is an inspiration to me. Thank you for doing it. So many people who watched this show should have ultimatly recieved something from it. I know I did. I've never been much on any type of prejudice, although I have at times had very ignorant moments. I have learned to think before I speak and know what it is I'm talking about. Admitting my ignorance and being open to learning something new is what was reinforced in me during the course of this show. I have people around me with very high prejudice and I will be putting my two since in when ever the subjects come up. They don't mind sharing their ingnorance and I don't mind sharing my knowlegde in anything I am confident in and when something comes a long and it is something that I don't have enough information to have confident knowledge about, I will admit my ignorance and start looking for confident sources to get the confident knowledge I need. Then apply it to my life if need be. Thank you Dr. Phil for such a great show.  

Staci, I do give you alot of credit for your courage to let them dress you up that way and go out in public.  I do agree with you that you did look like John's girlfriend.  And I think it did alot for John to see you like that too.  I think he enjoyed it.  That was such a good idea.  And a valuable lesson!

You know, I thought about it some more later, and figured that was what you meant.

 

I'm still curious as to why anyone would be ANGRY at the thought of life beginning in Africa. I know you don't have the answer to this :) but really, why does it matter?

Yeah...LOL...I don't get that anger either.  Africa is just as good as anywhere else! LOL Human life sprung up somewhere...I don't get it Julie...LOL

 I  want to point out something to Gary. He told B to go back to Africa. To start with African black people did not come to America by choice they were kidnapped from their country and brought here. To all of the races that were born here "this is their country" And unless he is an American Indian, we can say the same to him. Why doesn't he go back to the country his ancestors came from. I am a white female and I like all races. Please remember there is good and bad people in every race.

Doesn't any of the people in the Dr. Phil house know that no matter how big, what color or what sex or if your gay that they are just like everybody else in the world.

Dr Phil

Why did you not have the black lady go as a white lady? Why the white man to a black area . why one way not both.

We have problems on both sides...........................

 

 

this was so one sided....................

I was wondering the exact same thing...She called white people sociopaths. That's a very horrid HORRID thing to say.

So, what do you call a white person who is at the opposite end of the scale? I think it must be a type of prejudice  (?), but I absolutely love black people! They are funny, and talented and I love their style and music (some- not rap ).  From the time I was a kid I always wanted to adopt a black child. I think (most) black babies are the cutest , most adorable little dolls I've ever seen!  I didn't grow up with the kind of prejudice that I see in the U.S. and I really do have a very difficult time understanding it. Okay, let me have it. I know I'm probably gonna get an earful,because I am smart enough to realize that I'm probably just as bad as someone who hates blacks. But, I'm just trying to be honest and understand myself. 

I THINK MOST OF THE PEOPLE IN THE HOUSE LEARNED SOMETHING.BUT I DON'T THINK JOHN DID AT ALL.I THINK HE WILL DO THE SAME THING HE DID BEFORE HE CAME TO THE HOUSE.JOHN STOP USEING YOUR WEIGHT AS AN EXCUESS;IM OVER WEIGHT TOO.THAT DOES'NT STOP ME FROM TRYING TO DO ANYTHING.I THINK YOU HATE SKINNY PEOPLE BECUASE YOUR JEALOUS OF THEM.YOU DID THIS TO YOU.NOT THE SKINNY PEOPLE.YOU GOT OVER WEIGHT BY YOURSELF.BUT I THINK PEOPLE NEED TO KNOW PEOPLE ARE PEOPLE.NO ONE IS BETTER THEN ANYONE ELSE.AND LIKE DR.PHIL SAY'S LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT.YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF YOU NO ONE ELSE IS.PEOPLE NEED TO LISTEN MORE BEFORE THEY SHOOT OFF THEIR MOUTHS.SO I HOPE THEY HAVE LEARNED SOMETHING BY BEING IN THE DR.PHIL HOUSE.I DON'T THINK JOHN WILL CHANGE.I THINK HE DID IT FOR THE CAMERA'S.HE DID'NT SEEM TO LEARN MUCH

 

                                 KATHY