Quote From: lonelyatnighti am a young man the tender age of twenty two and my girlfriend is thirty eight and at the beginning of the relations ship the sex was at a more constant level than it is now. In past relations i was used to doing it all the time some time all day but now this once or twice a month is killing me. And also it really hurts because i love this woman with everything and i feel like she doesn't care about me because she wont do anything about this for me and for us. i have tried taking her out more, stop fussing about not getting any, buying her gifts and basically just trying to keep her happy and nothing is really working. just wanted to know can any one help this lonely at night guy
If you have talked to her about his, what is her explanation as to why its down to once or twice a month? To be honest, she should be going thru her "hot thirties" period in life and if its not happening, then I would say you have bigger problems in your relationship than just the sex part.
If this is going to be her speed from now on and your not at that level, and being a man, you probably never will want to slow down that much... it might be time to find some young girl and have a good everyday sex life with her. Ask your new GF how often she thinks two people should have sex before you commit to her, then you won't be disappointed when its just not there.
