Topic : Differing Sex Drives

I am 22 weeks pregnant. According to every pregnancy book I've read, my sex drive should increase during the second trimester...well, I'm almost done with the second trimester and it's done anyting BUT increase! I can't seem to orgasm during sex. My husband thinks it's his fault even though I tell him it's the pregnancy. I just feel generally uncomfortable, tired, and just not into making love. Truthfully, I think that another reason is that my husband has gained some weight lately and his belly and my belly get in the way. It's not that I don't want sex at all, it's just that I don't want it every day or even every other day. Once a week would be enough for me!  

Is this normal?  Have any of you had the same experience? Any advice? 

A lot of guys want to have anal sex, and some do say,  "If you love me, you will..."  They are trying to manipulate you into a situation that you may not want any part of.  They don't put themselves in a our place - most of us that find such an act disgusting.  I don't even like it when I go in for a physical, and the doctor does a rectal exam.  I hate it!   

Anal sex can like you said, lead to hemorroids, tearing of the anal tissues, infections, diseases and/or a leaky sphyncter (butt-hole).  The muscle around the anus will stretch, and with time it will stretch too much.  If my husband asked me to let him violate my backside, I would file for divorce immediately, and would tell him to get his head examined!  Don't ever let anyone do something to you that you don't want to do even if that person gets angry, pouts, calls you chicken, tries the guilt trip thing because you refuse to let him, etc.  Ask if he'd enjoy it if you got the biggest strap-on you could find and rammed it up his ass without any lube!  I bet anything he would say, "Not NO, but hell noooo!"      

I have been married for 3 years and have the same problem.  I work night shift, he works days.  I also am juggling school and a 2 year old as well.  My husband and I never have much time for each other and to be honest he does not turn me on at all.  I also feel like I am raising 2 kids instead of 1.  I feel like my life is a mess swirling out of control.  Since I work nights I need to sleep during the day and my husband does not understand that at all.  He complains that all I do is sleep all day and sometimes can be rather harsh with his words.  Sometimes I think living alone would be easier than living with all of this stress and unhappiness.  But he is great with our son and I know my son really needs his father. 

Guess what?  I DID all those things.  Women are simply SPOILED and, for the most part, you DO cheat.  Number two, how can sex be just behind food and shelter, yet still not a need?  If THAT were true, the porn industry wouldn't be raking in BILLIONS.  Third, rape is about POWER and not SEX. 

Don't try to argue with a man.  You'll lose because you are EMOTIONAL and will fall for any guy that tickles your fancy.  Men are LOGICAL.