Quote From: sask_gurlWhen I met my finance, it was love at first sight.....and sex all the time. It was crazy, at least twice a day, sometimes 5 times EVERYDAY!! Now, I know that things are always a little more exciting at first, but things seem to be going downhill fast. He never wants to have sex anymore and I want it all the time. It feels like I am always begging for it then get denied. I am starting to feel like it's me. If a strange woman would do the same thing to him, I'm sure he'd be "up" for the offer, why can't I do this for him anymore. I'm tired of being denied. When he feels like having sex, it's like "hey baby, let's go do it" and then wham bam thank you mam, it's over and I'm left laying there feeling used. How can I get him to compromise? I always let him have his way. When I want to have sex and he doesn't, we don't, but whenever he wants to have sex, we do. I'm only 26 and my sex life sucks already.
Is this what married life is going to be like?
Yes your married life will be like this if this is what you settle for!!
When you say he doesn't want sex as often as you, what do you mean- how often do you actually have sex?
Also, have you tried to deny him when he does want sex? Just give it a try and follow through with your "no"... just roll over and go to sleep!! Payback!! Why do you allow him to just use you as a form of relief, yet when you are in the mood to be intimate, he shuts you out? Not fair!
You won't get him to compromise because he's a man who is full of excuses. Please know this has nothing to do with you!! It is about him and his own deep seated issues.
As for a solution, have you discussed trying natural supplements that could boost his sex drive? Atleast talk about it, what would be the harm? When you are young and healthy, he shouldn't need viagra at this point, but supplements are for all ages. i wish you well!
