Quote From: vincennteHey everyone. Just before we get started here I guess I'm posting not really for advice but for opinions.
I'm Reeve, 15 years old and currently dating someone of the same sex, and I admit I have never been this happy ever in my life. Obviously though I have a problem most gays go through and especially at this age in my life, finding myself so early at that too. I wonder if it's wrong to be hiding this away from my parents and his but I really don't have a choice. It'd be inevitable we'd be separated if they found out. However I do suppose I know the answer to my own question after all my mother and father brought me into this world and I shouldnt lie to them but I do love him so, I swear I'd give the world just to see his wonderful smile.
I know most of you here are probably way older than me and probably questioning whether this is who I really am or if I'm just going through a 'phase'. I guess that's something I'm also something I'm scared of, if one day i just stop loving him. Anyway I hope you guys have something insightful to tell me, all opinions will be greatly appreciated.
Enjoy your day everyone :)
As the mom of a young man who *thinks* he's gay, I must say that at your age, it might be just a phase...many young men about your age go through a phase where they don't know which direction to go...it could be the raging hormones that are causing the confusion...the fact that you are questioning means that you are not entirely sure...is it just that you need male attachment?? (not the sexual kind)...
I would advise that you keep it to yourself for awhile...perhaps seek counseling to talk it out and figure it out in your own mind...
I am of the mind that being gay is a choice...not so much biology...and that will probably ruffle some feathers here...
I hope that you weren't expecting people to say what you wanted to hear...that's not me...if you want honesty, that's what you'll get from me...I think that you should give it more time...and definitely DON'T get into a physical relationship until you figure some things out...(either gay or straight)...
