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August 30, 2008, 7:39 pm PDT

"Porn-Mode"

http://www.cnn.com/video/#/video/tech/2008/08/28/boulden.private.surf.cnn

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August 30, 2008, 9:19 pm PDT

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http://www.cnn.com/video/#/video/tech/2008/08/28/boulden.private.surf.cnn

mHm....not sure I like that very much....I could think of some people on this forum that really wouldn't like that either....

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August 31, 2008, 12:08 am PDT

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mHm....not sure I like that very much....I could think of some people on this forum that really wouldn't like that either....

I think it makes the computer un-savvy equal with the computer savvy...LOL

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August 31, 2008, 6:03 am PDT

Hey Kims

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Hi joline! I haven't heard anything recent on jeff. things are slow around here lately. which is good don't you think? but every now and then.....:) I think porn is going to be a part of your man's reportiore for a long time joline. Hes not going to stop because he likes it a lot and has grown attached to it. it runs the show he doesn't. you might have to love him despite his human condition to seek saftey in outside sources. he is not going to be able to see inside his heart because he is afraid.

I got your address...Thanks. Take care, Kim

yip I think you are right! but atleast he isn't abusive or any thing? so far all is well in the house! Hubby and I are getting on well ect just things get a lil rough with my mom next doorbut i think its all just still new to her! any way how are things by u? its good that its quiet here.Hubby only watches porn every now and then so i guess it aint that bad. miss u all hugs

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August 31, 2008, 12:19 pm PDT

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I think it makes the computer un-savvy equal with the computer savvy...LOL

Well, I was just thinking it would make the lives of women who's husbands are porn addicts that lie to them all the more difficult.

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September 1, 2008, 8:13 pm PDT

Mac already has that

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mHm....not sure I like that very much....I could think of some people on this forum that really wouldn't like that either....

We use Safari as a web browser, and if you click under Safari, the menu pops down and Private Browsing is a choice. You just click and no one will ever know....
Luckily, my husband does not know about this!! but he does know how to delete the history line by line. However, there is a secret place that stores a certain web app. If anyone has a mac and wants to know where to look for this, if you suspect your sig. other, let me know and I will tell you. However, if they are sneaking to look at porn on your Mac, they probably already know about Private Browsing. Even if their history looks innocent, it's just because they did that or opened history and picked and chose what to delete and keep...

I had a big BIG run in with this last week and am still in the process of working through what to do. I think I have decided on the counseling ultimatum.
When I first discovered the extent of the "problem" and porn looking-atage, I found a couple of Spyware programs. They record each keystroke and even take screen shots of what is being looked at. So you can track emails, passwords, chat room usage, etc. Then it will send you a private email, to the email you put in, and it will send you these logs and shots ever so often. The programs run ~$60 to $100, and some had free trial versions. Supposedly they are undetectable while someone is surfing, but at work, I had a sort of virus protection or something on my PC that told me my computer was infected with Spyware. The bosses must have had something on there to watch what we were doing. So be careful and look into THAT before you do it. You don't want to get caught before you get started.
Personally, I have what I need--the site names and the dates and times visited. That's all I need to know there's a problem.
I am not suggesting anyone do the spyware thing, but if you want conclusive proof of cheating and/or porn use, that's certainly an option.

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September 1, 2008, 8:16 pm PDT

Private Browsing

By all that, i meant that spyware might be an option IF you think Private Browsing is being used. Even though Private Browsing deletes the history, Spyware should still record the activity of what is being typed and looked at. Savvy back at 'em...they think they are SO clever...

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September 1, 2008, 10:02 pm PDT

BOO!

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My goodness gracious Luv !!! ???

Turk was giving you a heart felt response (a reaching out almost) and you respond to him like this?

Again you are pretending to "know" how somebody's life is.....especially if they are not an anti-porn hate monger.

I think it would be in your best interest to understand that any display of "hate" toward a group of people who are not hurting anybody whatsoever......because of your own personal opinions....does come across as being extremely bitter and resentful. This is all he was saying.

I know some people who don't view porn as well. However, they give no thought at all to somebody else viewing it simply because they are happy in their lives, busy, productive, and at peace (just like their porn viewing friends) and do not spew hatred simply because somebody does something they have no interest in doing.

I would be good for you to give some thought to the reality that when you condemn people for things that don't effect you (or anyone else) it makes you come across as being very judgmental and unhappy.

Have a good day.

LUV~I can not begin to catch up, LOL,but, I am now single and still not into porn.............wow!

Hello!

Do you remember me?

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September 2, 2008, 9:55 am PDT

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LUVI can not begin to catch up, LOL,but, I am now single and still not into porn.............wow!

Hello!

Do you remember me?

Ha, come to think of it, luv hasn't been on since her little childish outburst a few months back. Glad to hear ya finally broke free from your unhappy marriage. So, have you talked about your issues with porn with your new boyfriends? May I also ask why the choice to date black males? I mean, I can understand dating men who happen to be black. But, you said you've been dating black males for the past 2 years. I find this odd, what is wrong with all the other races of people? Why do you specifically seek black males?

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September 2, 2008, 5:45 pm PDT

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Ha, come to think of it, luv hasn't been on since her little childish outburst a few months back. Glad to hear ya finally broke free from your unhappy marriage. So, have you talked about your issues with porn with your new boyfriends? May I also ask why the choice to date black males? I mean, I can understand dating men who happen to be black. But, you said you've been dating black males for the past 2 years. I find this odd, what is wrong with all the other races of people? Why do you specifically seek black males?

Maybe that's just what she's attracted to.

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