Topic : Pornography

What is this from some survey somewhere?  LOL

People masturbate very successfully without the use of porn to do this.  Married couples also masturbate together and actually are fairly turned on by seeing their own partner, not having to use porn in order to achieve success.

A lot of women experience a good health benefit from this also.  Sex, orgasm is a great stress releaser, as well as a good source of energizing.

That is what pornography is for Turklurk, it is specifically designed to do this.  There is no misunderstanding of your words.  Think about it turk, when you watch porn, when couples watch porn it IS designed to be the instrument that enables them to get excited, aroused.  Porn is for that purpose.  

How many people do you know who pop in the old porn flick for purely entertainment?  Basically none, because it's not entertaining, other than for it's purpose of setting up arousel there is no purpose.

That is exactly why I believe the way I do for those who use porn.  They are either to lazy in their own lives to create their own sexual excitement with their partners.  Or they are purely bored stiff with their own sex life...which nine times out of ten is their own fault.

Sweetheart,

again, as I said before it could be alot worse. As women I think we have a tendencey of being in our heads way to deep then we need to be. I used to feel the same way about my husband when he would look at porn when I would have to work the night shift. You can't have it consume you like this. You have to trust and love him. Men have sexual urges sometimes and when we are not necessarily arround would you rather him ACTUALLY be cheating on you with an ACTUAL woman? The way I see it I would much rather him be online and checking out sites like this then going out and actually doing the deed with another woman. If you have a great connection/relationship with your husband this shouldn't really be a huge issue. Has there ever been a time where you were a little "heated" and he wasn't around? You can't tell me you never masterbated in your lifetime. So appreciate the fact that he isn't doing something much worse then this.

Just my 2 cents.

Excuse me?!! I'm going to have to say that is the most INSULTING thing someone has ever said to me. How DARE you? You don't even KNOW him or ME.

Boyfriends/Girlfriends are not in committed relationships.  They change in different directions like the wind blowing.  There's a reason people stay bf/gf and not get married, as it should be.  Usually there is some commitment issues there....and it's usually shopping for the better one down the road, hence the porn use of still being able to shop for variety, while keeping a moist spot for the urges.

First of all, my boyfriend and I have been in an exclusive relationship for 2 YEARS. There has been no cheating involved. Might I also mention that he and I were both virgins when we had sex for the first time, and have been having a steady and good sex life and relationship since then. There are NO commitment issues, otherwise we would not have been with eachother for so long. You make such RUDE, IGNORANT, and NARROW-MINDED assumptions. Seriously, HOW DARE you say things like this to people and still sleep at night?

If you're so damned smart, and know just soooooooooooooooooo much about other people's relationships, explain this: My boyfriend and I, like I have said before, DRAW PORN FOR EACHOTHER, OF EACHOTHER. How possibly are we "shopping for the next one down the road" with that? HM? Enlighten me. Oh, and also this, WE LOOK AT FURRY PORN? So is my boyfriend shopping for the next ANIMAL down the street? Do you think he's going to start screwing with dogs and cats? Oh, also, my furry character is a lioness, do you think that I'm going to go to Africa and start having sex with lions because I have bad sex with my own boyfriend?

My boyfriend has NEVER cheated on me, he doesn't PLAN on cheating on me, and sometimes he likes having sex with ME twice in one day.

It's lazy sex, pure and simple.  Quick gradification, because there is a lack of intimacy between partners.

You make so many assumptions about other people it's hard to even know where to start. Seriously, you REALLY need start looking past your own nose. You assume that just because someone looks at porn, they are emotionally ruined and their relationship is in the hole. Well, let me be the one to tell you that you are WRONG. My boyfriend and I have had plenty of fullfilling sex without porn and with it for the past two years. You know NOTHING about us. Tell me, tell me how you know if there is any lack of intimacy between us? YOU DON'T. Oh, by the way, my boyfriend and I also just spent about $38 on sex toys and lubricant for eachother. Oh, yeah sure, we're tooootally not commited there *sarcasm*.  We are also on friendly-communicating terms with the management of both the lingere shops in my town. He comes to them with me, helps me pick out lingere he likes to see me in, and lets me choose what kind of lubricants I want. OH! And the sex coupon book. I bought that for him as a gift. It's a little book of coupons for different kinds of sex, like sex in the shower, in front of a mirror, etc. OOooo, and my favorite, the gift I bought him for our first anniversary, A BOOK OF SEX POSITIONS FOR EACH DAY OF THE YEAR.

Yeah. Totally no intimacy here.

And yes, to add to this, married people also masturbate, and a lot do that together, without the "need" to use porn to achieve anything.  It's called trust and intimacy.

Real trust is being able to look at something like porn and feel confident that your spouse isn't going to cheat on you. It's also being able to look at porn together and trust eachother to not leave eachother for a porn star. It's also being able to balance sex with eachother and masturbation with or without porn.

That is what pornography is for Turklurk, it is specifically designed to do this.  There is no misunderstanding of your words.  Think about it turk, when you watch porn, when couples watch porn it IS designed to be the instrument that enables them to get excited, aroused.  Porn is for that purpose.  

How many people do you know who pop in the old porn flick for purely entertainment?  Basically none, because it's not entertaining, other than for it's purpose of setting up arousel there is no purpose.

That is exactly why I believe the way I do for those who use porn.  They are either to lazy in their own lives to create their own sexual excitement with their partners.  Or they are purely bored stiff with their own sex life...which nine times out of ten is their own fault.

Oh, by the way, yeah, I HAVE watched porn purely for entertainment. My boyfriend and I BOTH. Oh YEAH! And three of his friends.

We were all at his friends house and decided to watch an HBO porn because the title sounded funny. Guess what? It was a crackup. We laughed at the bad acting, the bad effects, and the fake boobs.

So there you have it. Five people that have watched porn for entertainment.

I wonder how you would feel if you were in the mood for sex, had gussied yourself up for it, and lay in bed waiting anxiously for your husband, only to find him at the computer jerking off to porn instead.

Then be a bold woman and tell him or let him know that you are in the mood!! How hard is that? Unfortunately men and women are not mind readers. Let him know that you are interested in him. You just laying on the bed or couch or where ever and just having him come up to you you initiate it. It may actually turn him on.If he seriously is still doing this even after you initiate it then there is something seriously wrong in the relationship that you guys should really look into.