Topic : Pornography

Quote From: stickgirl67

My boyfriend of 7 months says he only looks at the breasts of the girls when he watches porn..(we see each other 3 times a week )and we have sex once maybe)says it reminds him of me when IM NOT.there..well I  went through this in my last relationship ..only difference is I LOVE THIS GUY ..he says he feels bad tahat I called him on it ..we have discussed it and he said he wasnt  into it ,,,sO i thought I was lucky I need to know if I should be feeling lucky lol..we are both 40yrs old..I feel like its the same thing happening all over again...thanx 

Quote From: turkalurk

American Journal of Obstetrics and Gynecology, 1985 Dec 1;153(7):727-9.

Abstract:

The incidence of ectopic pregnancy in the US has more than doubled in the past decade. Because a previous study has suggested that the practice of vaginal douching may increase the risk of pelvic inflammatory disease, a condition known to predispose to ectopic pregnancy, and because the sale of commercial douching products in the US has more than tripled since 1974, the authors investigated this practice as a possible risk factor. The authors interviewed 155 women who a tubal ectopic pregnancy treated at 5 Seattle hospitals between 1975-79 as to their reproductive, contraceptive, and medical histories, demographic characteristics, and personal hygiene practices. During the same period, 456 women who were delivered of a baby in King County were identified from Vital Records and interviewed as controls. A higher proportion of cases than controls reported ever having douched in past. Cases also douched more frequently than controls. After simultaneous adjusting for confounding factors in the data by means of a multiple logistic regression technique, the risk of tubal ectopic pregnancy for women who douched at least weekly was twice that of women who never douched (95% confidence interval = 1.03-4.00).

 

 

As you can see, its because a fertility doctor wouldn't recommend an ectopic pregnancy. 

Quote From: passiton2

both 40 yrs old?  You should probably listen to your inner voice speaking loud and clear to you on this one.  If you have to ask the question, there's a reason you are asking.   Trust that, you are old enough and had enough experience in life to start listening.

 

Talk about it with him, don't make him feel bad about it, just be honest and tell him how this makes you feel. 

 

Besides why are you only seeing him a few times a week?  Is this  a long distance thing?  What prevents you both from being together more often?  What's the deal with all that?

 

Plain and simple....there's something that doesn't sound just right here.

Quote From: stickgirl67

The thing is ..we discussed it before .I'm not a prude but I do not like the fact that he said that was a thing of the past ..you know ..young with wild hormones..Well ,we are not together more because of our schedules . He is going through a divorce and his wife is taking her time about things..I want to live with him but would like him to get some things dealt with so we can start fresh..we both came out of bad relationships with alcholics.and have been single for about 1 1/2 years each.He is very upsett hat I am not happy about it..he said its personal and I invaded his privacy lol..I said I was upset because he lied ..you,know? My intuition kicked in early in our relationship..but I chose to ignore it thinking I was just scared to be with someone again ,,I decided to go with it and now my heart is breaking I love this guy something awful ..but your right ..something just doesn't feel right ..thanx

 

 

 

Quote From: passiton2

Hey I didn't bring it up, nor did I keep on harping about lubricants either, but that subject didn't seem to fade too fast either.

 

What would you like to bring to the board?   Anything new?