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Created on : Friday, July 01, 2005, 05:18:48 pm
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December 8, 2005, 3:51 pm PST

How Porn Has Affected Our Relationship

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I am not insulting you. I am simply saying that what you are talking about wanting a woman to do is no different then salvery. A woman has every right to be an equal to a man and it is not her fault if your needs are not being met. You have some responsbility for that. If you truely want a woman that is going to treat you like a god and worship you, why not just get a mailorder bride. It is painfully clear that you don't care if she has her own mind or person. The fact is that you need to consider if alot of this does not stem from your own insecurties as a man.  

  

Use porn don't use porn, who cares but don't go around with a chip on your shoulder about women beinging the cause for it all. The fact is that you think it is just american women that are independant and you are totally wrong about that. Just get a maid and a blow-up doll they would be about the same as what you are talking about from wanting from a woman. 

  

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Women are supposed to meet our needs because we're too busy WORKING. 
 
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December 8, 2005, 4:04 pm PST

Jim

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Women are supposed to meet our needs because we're too busy WORKING. 

What about the fact that the average family needs 2 incomes. That means she has to work as well. So while she is meeting all your needs cause that is what you expect, who is meeting hers? We live in a time that women have to not only be a  wife, mother but also hold down some type of job. That has nothing to do with feminism, it is just a reality. When you have a family and a healthy relationship there is no room for one partner to be selfish or put ther needs ahead of everything else. You can have a completely fulfilling relationship by being partners, there is no fulfillment in having or being someones slave. I am sorry I know you don't want to hear that but it is true.  

  

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December 8, 2005, 5:10 pm PST

viewpoints needed

You know I just got to know something for you people who are pro porners what are your viewpoints on and what do u think about the law in Oregon that allows live sex acts, for people to watch? Do u think that this is a good thing? Do u think its okay for underage girls to do porn? And also I asked this before, do u think porn would be so widespread if not for the Internet. What if your daughter wanted to do porn? 

I don’t like getting all political and stuff, cuz I know its best to stay away from stuff like politics but do any of you against porn know that the ACLU supports all of these things. They support that underage girls can get an abortion without parental consent and they support the live sex acts in Oregon! I don't know about all of you but I think we need to stand up for ourselves here. Sitting here typing to each other wont do cr*p we have to do something. Write to the ACLU, THE PRESIDENT, ANYONE IN CONGRESS! Nothing can be done about all of this stuff that I at least think is wrong with this world if we don't do anything about it.  

Porn will only get worse and be more widely available then it is now.  

 
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December 8, 2005, 5:15 pm PST

whoa yeah i agree

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What about the fact that the average family needs 2 incomes. That means she has to work as well. So while she is meeting all your needs cause that is what you expect, who is meeting hers? We live in a time that women have to not only be a  wife, mother but also hold down some type of job. That has nothing to do with feminism, it is just a reality. When you have a family and a healthy relationship there is no room for one partner to be selfish or put ther needs ahead of everything else. You can have a completely fulfilling relationship by being partners, there is no fulfillment in having or being someones slave. I am sorry I know you don't want to hear that but it is true.  

  

Lovinglady 

Thats is so true its not 1950 anymore. Women really dont have a choice but to work, we need to incomes, i work and i liove with my mom and i can barley survive with all the bills i have. When i live with my guy and am married i plan on working just as much as him. 

  

  

God Jim what is up? Women are amde to be slaves, just as i dont belive men are made to be slaves either. I know there are women who sit on there fat butts eating bon bons and watching soaps but i am telloing you this is not the majority of women. My sister is  anurse and works her butt off, while her guy works here and there doing carpenting. Also my neice is in the navy and she supports her husband he has never worked. 

 
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December 8, 2005, 5:23 pm PST

jim is this true

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As a guy, I can say that men don't resort to porn unless they have a good reason to.

I want to know is it true that men dont resort to porn unless they have  agood reason too?  

For me its hard to belive that. Many men dont have  areason they do it cuz they like it. So amny wives are willing to do almost anything for there men and the wives are really sexy but guess what they still go to porn. 

  

Now i am really wondering why u think this. Did u only turn to it cuz a women wronged you or what? I dont know your whole story here and i dont feel like raeding all of the old posts, i dont have the time. But really i want to know in all seriousness. 

  

I am willing to do anything for my man and i hope he never has to resort to porn, he has not yet but we have sex all the time and i do strip shows and all this stuff for him besides sex. Like cook, and help clean his house. I want to keep him into me. I am not going to end up being a 300 lb women eating bon bons no way i would never do it. 

 
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December 8, 2005, 9:25 pm PST

where is eveyone tonight?

 
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December 9, 2005, 5:55 am PST

Jim

Hello from a female. I had a thought about what you said in your last post and it had to do having enough money to get the best looking woman possible. Don't you feel you could get her without the money? I know money is attractive and it does make a relationship more exciting and less stressful, but do you really think money will buy you long term happiness and love?  

  

I also think you are very misled by believing that women from other countries are easy to capture and more importantly, keep. I happen to be very involved with females and males from those countries on a daily basis, and once they get into the US they marry for love. They may appear to be self sacrificing, but underneath is just another woman wanting her guy to be someone she admires and respects. Do you honestly believe these women don't know they are a commodity to Americans? Do you honestly believe that creates an individual you would want to spend your life with? I know, for the most part, the guys look marriage and sex, and the women look for material gains and wealth and status.  

  

All I am saying is you seem very tunnel visioned and that is never a good place to be. Look around you Jeff. You are already turning off some women and we don't even know you. That says a lot about women and if you think they are different because of the climate or repression, the more repressed the more problems.  

  

I still wish you only the best in your search for happiness. But if you spend more of your time working your butt off to get enough money to get the most beautiful woman you can, you are not really leaving yourself open to the beautiful person that might be right beside you! Be careful what you ask for...........you just may get it.........KiMi 

 
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December 9, 2005, 6:25 am PST

ACLU

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You know I just got to know something for you people who are pro porners what are your viewpoints on and what do u think about the law in Oregon that allows live sex acts, for people to watch? Do u think that this is a good thing? Do u think its okay for underage girls to do porn? And also I asked this before, do u think porn would be so widespread if not for the Internet. What if your daughter wanted to do porn? 

I don’t like getting all political and stuff, cuz I know its best to stay away from stuff like politics but do any of you against porn know that the ACLU supports all of these things. They support that underage girls can get an abortion without parental consent and they support the live sex acts in Oregon! I don't know about all of you but I think we need to stand up for ourselves here. Sitting here typing to each other wont do cr*p we have to do something. Write to the ACLU, THE PRESIDENT, ANYONE IN CONGRESS! Nothing can be done about all of this stuff that I at least think is wrong with this world if we don't do anything about it.  

Porn will only get worse and be more widely available then it is now.  

 The ACLU has gotten a rotten rep from all sides. The ACLU fights for indiviual rights and promotes indiviual responsibility to go along with those rights. They are the only organization that supports the Constitution and Bill of Rights COMPLETELY.

There have been many things they (ACLU) have defended and I guess you could say promoted that makes me cringe. I still have to keep in mind that they are defending the Constitution and Bill of Rights and there is no one else that does that completely. It's great when they do that in accordance with what we believe in and terrible when they defend what we aren't in accordance with...isn't it.
 
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December 9, 2005, 7:10 am PST

There's a serious problem getting to the DP Site...could you fix it?

 
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December 9, 2005, 7:11 am PST

rrrrr! This takes to long...no other site is a problem at all

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