Topic : Pornography

I will give you that there are marriages that exsist that have a need that porn fulfills. However that is not all marriages. Some simply desire to add porn into their realtionship for the same reason most enjoy trying new things. There is a huge difference between Need and desire. A need is something that with out it you will not be able to be fulfilled. A desire is something that you want. You can be happy and completely fulfilled with out what it is you desire. That is where I think you are wrong on this.  

You may not have to extend or strengthen your realtionship, but most people desire to have a strong and happy realtionship. You can't take all relationships that use porn and say that they are deficant in someway. That is an unfair Generlaztion.  

Lovinglady 

I apologize to you for what I said to you a few days ago.  I was in a pissed off mood and being my sometimes abrasive and arrogant self.  Aren't you glad you're not married to me lol? 

Anyway I hope you accept my apology.  If not I understand. 

I apologize to you for what I said to you a few days ago.  I was in a pissed off mood and being my sometimes abrasive and arrogant self.  Aren't you glad you're not married to me lol? 

Anyway I hope you accept my apology.  If not I understand. 

Oh my goodness...Gloria Steinem (?) is at fault for all this crap?  Now we know who to blame...LOL... 

Ya know Jimmy, this is a real indication that you might have had some seriously damaging rlsp experiences in the past....and maybe those things have been the determining factors in your life in the present day long enough!       ....you might want to think about getting past some things with forgiveness and just moving on to looking at women differently because this might actually have some benefits in the way you view sex altogther....this could only be a great enhancement in your current rlsp.   

I say, more power to ya, Jim, if there are women overseas, those who haven't been corrupted by the "American way" then go for it.  Just make sure you stay there with them....as so they won't "get" Americanized from being here.  We wouldn't want that ya know.  

Now to brass tacks.....so does your wife stay out all night with g/fs?  When did this start?  Do you have kids?  How long have you been married?  Is this disconnection in the marriage the reason you had to resort to porn....too much Denny's food? 

I totally get what you are saying....so what's really going on with you and your marriage? 

Luv 

American women rejected me (you can laugh now) because I didn't have enough cash for them to squander at the mall.  My best experiences are with women from Latin America and Asia-again, real women. 

I have a question for you though.  I believe that you even said that your S/O has decreased his porn use when you started putting mirrors and doing other things that he use to watch.  My question is, how is that not missing something in the relationship?  He wanted to try something different, do something different and he turned to porn because of that and when he told you or you both realized it would be fun is when the porn decreased. 

Hope you are doing great. 

American women rejected me (you can laugh now) because I didn't have enough cash for them to squander at the mall.  My best experiences are with women from Latin America and Asia-again, real women.