Topic : Pornography

In the wrong context. The fact is that to cheat on your spouse you have to go and have sex with someone else. Meaning that you are having physical contact with another person. That is not what porn is. As far as I know Porn is used for masterbation, mainly. Having sexual contact with ones own hand. That is not cheating. I personally think that there are way to many words that a thrown around here that are not even being used right.  

Just because a man or a woman uses porn alone Does not mean that they are cheating on their spouses. Porn is something alot of couples use together or alone, in no way does that make them any less committed, creative or passionate with one another then a couple that don't use porn.  

I don't believe that we as women have the right to make up new meanings for words, to better serve our purposes. If you ask most men they will completely disagree with porn being a form of cheating. I relieze that the relation for many of you is the feeling of beytrayal you all talk about, but trust me that is nothing to the feeling you have when your s/o goes and sleeps or have sexual physical contact with another person.  

 I relieze that there are many people here that are againist porn, and that is fine, but there is no reason to resort to name callling and labeling other people as a cheater or an addict. The fact is that I believe there are men you become addictted to sex and there are men who will cheat on there wives but that doesn't just include men who look at porn, and it is not just limited to men. 

Lovinglady 

P.S. Hi all- Hope everyone is having a good day:) 

Thats where I seriously faulter as a human being of the male race.  Its hard for me to apologize to anyone.  Even if I'm wrong.  

Have to go for now ladies.  More P.B.'s coming in (Potential Buyers).  Want to at least close 2 more deals before I leave tonight.  Remember:  We are nowhere NEAR as complicated as you women are.  We're very basic and to the point.  Our needs are few and very basic as well.  And........not all of us are meatheads like Jimbo over here.  Some of us are actually decent and loving people.  FYI   

Men and women were doing fine until Gloria Steinem came into the picture.  Now, men have become women and women have become aggressive.  I tried the "nice guy" approach for YEARS.  It doesn't work.  Women tend to flake out on dates and cheat.   My favorite excuse is: "Oh!  He's just an old friend!" 

 As per the old Alice Cooper tune: "No More Mr. Nice Guy".  If an American woman doesn't take her rightful place in the relationship, guys like myself can always go overseas or South of the Border where men are treated like the Kings that we are.  This is happening on an increasing frequency. 

Another old tune comes to mind: Santana's "You've Got To Change Your Evil Ways".  He hit it right on the head.  Wives aren't supposed to be out all hours with their girlfriends.  They are supposed to be homemakers and cooking our dinner.  We guys are sick of going to Denny's.  We want REAL FOOD. 

I have no one to talk to , the porn stuff my hubby of 22 yrs has resorted to, well he got caught again by me he is doing it at work in the car wherever he has a wireless hookup. 

I am so dumb he has totally ignored me for 6 months I have made all the moves, he essentially gave up on me, so I am sure he has resorted to this for a while.I have caught him in the past using porn plus chatting with babes, talk about feeling cheated on, jealous, I wish  he could talk to me, I am very open game for anything and I've let him know that too. 

I am feeling very empty. 

Yes i probably have not tried to hard in the bedroom, life is busy, but I guess I am writing this to make sure I change things. 

He says he's just looking, but he also has a secret email, he will not give me password to. 

Does anyone have any advice for me?  

Sorry for the babble but I am so upset I can't even type or think! 

I have no one to talk to , the porn stuff my hubby of 22 yrs has resorted to, well he got caught again by me he is doing it at work in the car wherever he has a wireless hookup. 

I am so dumb he has totally ignored me for 6 months I have made all the moves, he essentially gave up on me, so I am sure he has resorted to this for a while.I have caught him in the past using porn plus chatting with babes, talk about feeling cheated on, jealous, I wish  he could talk to me, I am very open game for anything and I've let him know that too. 

I am feeling very empty. 

Yes i probably have not tried to hard in the bedroom, life is busy, but I guess I am writing this to make sure I change things. 

He says he's just looking, but he also has a secret email, he will not give me password to. 

Does anyone have any advice for me?  

Sorry for the babble but I am so upset I can't even type or think!