Topic : Pornography

Does anyone know if they ever arrested anyone in the deaths of Madelyn Murray O'Hair and her family? You know the woman who got prayer taken out of schools? 

I bet if they haven't they aren't searching for the killer too hard. 

This country started going to hell when prayer was taken out of schools, mothers started working full time and shoving their kids into day care for 12+ hours a day from the time they are infants, porn and sex being shoved into our faces everywhere we look, and the names God and Jesus have begun to be looked upon as if they are filthy words. 

This world is becoming a cesspool. 

I need to go again too. It's been 2 years since my last exam and I had cervical cancer in my 20's so I really need to be more diligent with my gynecological health. But you know how it goes, the kids come first, moms come last. 

And I am in the throes of perimenopause, hot flashes and all. 

Just as long as it isn't the Hare Krishnas, lol. 

That was just a joke in case there are any lurking, which I highly doubt. 

I've been reading posts the past 2 wks. A poster said that porn ruins peoples marriages and makes them turn outside the relationship. Has anybody ever thought that maybe there are some marriages that thrive and have alot of fun using porn within it? So what if he uses it without me or while I'm gone. Sometimes I might use it when he's not around. Or if he's sleeping. Big deal!    

Then I read too that alot of women say the men stop having sex with them and use the porn alone instead. If this happens its not because of the porn its because of the wife. She's either doing something thats pissing him off or treating him in a way that makes him feel bad. I've used porn with almost all the men I had relationships with. And I never had that be a problem. Maybe its because I didn't give them ultimatums and try to get them to do things they way I wanted them to. As long as they were always honest with me about their fidelity then I don't mind if they explore there sexuality through toys movies or mags.    

Thats the fun naughty part of being an adult and being married! You both get to experiment with different erotica together and seperately. If one is tempted to be unfaithful or wants to experience sexuality with another person then I think honesty goes a long way. If a guy is always threatened by his wife that she'll leave him or cut him off if he uses porn or tries to explore his sexuality within the safety of the marriage then the guy is going to start hiding his feelings thoughts and actions from her. Then she gets pissy when she does find that he hid the porn! No matter what he does either be honest with her and tell her that he wants to use it without her then she gets hurt or he hides it so that it doesn't hurt her feelings then when she finds it she still is disapointed in him and sad anyway so he just can't win in my opinion.  

All I know is I'm happy that I'm not like any of you. I love God just as much as the next person and live my life always trying to help people and doing whats right by my husband myself and the people I care about. Porn isn't about morality. Its about trusting your spouse to be all that they are while loving you at the same time. As long as there not unfaithful with another person or whatever your boundaries are then its all about trust. The wives who totally reject the idea of there husbands using porn without them is simply they don't trust them.    

The folks having a problem are members that had already had a name created previous to the move to the new boards. It appears many members no longer had access to the e-mail account they had originally registered with when creating their user name so they weren't able to receive the activation email.  

To my knowledge, new users registering for the first tima are not having a problem, I think the slowness has a lot to do with the time of the year, summer months are always very slow. Things should start picking up once the new season launches September 12.