Topic : 11/24 Great School Debate

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Parents want the best for their children, but what’s the best way to educate them? Dr. Phil’s guests face off in a debate about whether to school, homeschool or unschool. Dana and her husband, Joe, call themselves radical unschoolers. They say education happens as a side effect of life, and they don’t believe in tests, curriculums or grades. Are their three kids learning what they need to know? Then, RaeAnn says public schools are death traps and wants to homeschool her children. Her husband, Steve, says their kids are safer at school than they are at home. Can this couple reach a compromise? Plus, Nicole feels like an outcast at 26. She says she hated being homeschooled, and couldn’t relate to other kids. Share your thoughts here.

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June 18, 2007, 7:21 am PDT

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Laws may differ from state to state, but from what I understand, the problem arises when there is the perception that prayer is organized, endorsed, or facilitated by school personnel. Nobody is going to stop a child, or a group of children from saying a prayer....it happens all the time. However, teachers (or anybody else, for that matter) cannot ask the other students to participate, listen, or even remain quiet for the sake of a prayer. If a small group of children are required to remain seated together at lunch, then a vocal prayer has the potential to hold those children captive to religious indoctrination.

 

The line is easily blurred. I taught at a school with a good number of religious students and teachers. The "pray around the flag pole" thing is supposed to allowed if it is student led and organized during non-school hours. It was a joke. There were a few teachers who not only were the organizers, they got on the intercom every day for a week reminding everyone to pray. The flag pole was located in the center of the parking lot. When I arrived at school for work and declined to join the prayer group, I was stared down by many. I was also questioned by several parents and students as to WHY I would not join them. It wasn't pretty. If I, as an adult, was borderline bullied for non-participation, imagine how children feel in this situation.

 

 

 

What a great example of why organized prayer should not be in public school.
 
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June 18, 2007, 9:03 am PDT

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I know your kids are still pretty young, but hopefully during the course of their public school education they will learn about the Constitution. They will understand where the phrase "separation of Church and State" comes from and why the Founding Fathers set up our government in such a way that a bully majority was limited in their ability to impose non-secular beliefs on the masses.

 

 

why the Founding Fathers set up our government in such a way that a bully majority was limited in their ability to impose non-secular beliefs on the masses.

 

Julie - this is OT but I'm hoping you can explain this to me - or maybe gtrudeau can since he is such a history buff.  As you said, the Founder's intentionally created our Constitutional Republic because they were fully aware of what a majority rules democracy would entail. Why does everyone (including teachers and the President)  refer to the US as a democracy? I realize we have a democratic election process and some democratic traditions, but it seems to me there is a huge difference between the two and I don't know why the terms are used interchangeably.

 

 
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June 18, 2007, 4:10 pm PDT

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why the Founding Fathers set up our government in such a way that a bully majority was limited in their ability to impose non-secular beliefs on the masses.

 

Julie - this is OT but I'm hoping you can explain this to me - or maybe gtrudeau can since he is such a history buff.  As you said, the Founder's intentionally created our Constitutional Republic because they were fully aware of what a majority rules democracy would entail. Why does everyone (including teachers and the President)  refer to the US as a democracy? I realize we have a democratic election process and some democratic traditions, but it seems to me there is a huge difference between the two and I don't know why the terms are used interchangeably.

 

I may not be the best at explaining this, so I am going to give you a very simplified version. We are a democratic republic...everyone has a vote (democracy), but in Presidential elections our votes go to a representative to cast an electoral vote (republic). Most of the Founding Fathers were VERY educated and well-read men who studies the classics and philosophers. Our government is a hodgepodge of the different ideals of government from the Greek and Roman philosophers and governments (among other things).

 

There is more to it than that, but it is more complex than I can put in a post. We have tenets of both democracy and a republic in our government. I have taken a break from my Founding Fathers readings to re-read the Harry Potter books in preparation for the final book. Gotta have your priorities straight ;)

 
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June 18, 2007, 7:22 pm PDT

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I may not be the best at explaining this, so I am going to give you a very simplified version. We are a democratic republic...everyone has a vote (democracy), but in Presidential elections our votes go to a representative to cast an electoral vote (republic). Most of the Founding Fathers were VERY educated and well-read men who studies the classics and philosophers. Our government is a hodgepodge of the different ideals of government from the Greek and Roman philosophers and governments (among other things).

 

There is more to it than that, but it is more complex than I can put in a post. We have tenets of both democracy and a republic in our government. I have taken a break from my Founding Fathers readings to re-read the Harry Potter books in preparation for the final book. Gotta have your priorities straight ;)

thank you for your reply
 
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June 24, 2007, 9:03 pm PDT

Whre did Dr Phil get his stats from!

 I am from Australia so this show has only aired in the past couple of weeks. 
Dr Phil indicated that research had shown that some homeschoolers are at a disadvantage re socialization.  In fact studies have shown that children who are home schooled are much better thinkers and are handle responsibility with much greater ease.
There are studies against homeschooling there are studies for it - it just depends on who paid for the study to be done and what the expected outcome was geared toward.
I believe we do what's right for us.  I hated school but did well academically - but my confidence was crushed by narrow minded teachers and children alike.
My children are great kids who have more responsibility, more guts and are certainly just as much intelligence as any child I know schooled or home-schooled.
Its funny homeschoolers have even won the Nobel Prize - Bertrand Russel never went to school and won the Nobel Prize for literature!! British aristocracy actually avoided school!!!
 
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June 30, 2007, 12:05 pm PDT

Good luck with that question

Whre did Dr Phil get his stats from!

 

I've been asking this same question over six months now. They're not talking.

 

 
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July 3, 2007, 8:30 am PDT

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I believe teacher led prayer should never happen in public school. It is public and must maintain religious neutrality.  But, children should be allowed to say a prayer  before their meal. (Or any other ritual they may prefer.)

 

I thought they had this right. Aren't the individual children allowed to say a prayer before their lunch?

 

 

 

I agree that teachers should not be leading prayer.  Kids should be able to pray before lunch and the like, as long as they aren't being disruptive.  Nothing demands that our society (including schools) be anti-religion.

 

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July 16, 2007, 4:22 am PDT

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 I am from Australia so this show has only aired in the past couple of weeks. 
Dr Phil indicated that research had shown that some homeschoolers are at a disadvantage re socialization.  In fact studies have shown that children who are home schooled are much better thinkers and are handle responsibility with much greater ease.
There are studies against homeschooling there are studies for it - it just depends on who paid for the study to be done and what the expected outcome was geared toward.
I believe we do what's right for us.  I hated school but did well academically - but my confidence was crushed by narrow minded teachers and children alike.
My children are great kids who have more responsibility, more guts and are certainly just as much intelligence as any child I know schooled or home-schooled.
Its funny homeschoolers have even won the Nobel Prize - Bertrand Russel never went to school and won the Nobel Prize for literature!! British aristocracy actually avoided school!!!
Many of asked for chapter and verse of these "studies".  Doesn't look like they're willing to cough it up.

From many experiences, including those of my own children, homeschooling has not hurt socialization.  My (pre-teen to teen) children have been to summer camp recently, with children who go to school, and they seemed to not lack the "socialization" skills necessary to not only cope, but have a ball and make friends.

My own experience as a teen in many organized school systems was that socially, I felt like a needle in a haystack.  In a place where there are so many students, without some aggressive personal work on yourself in the few precious moments of solitude, it can be so easy to get lost in trying to live up to what the majority thinks you can be, rather than what you know deep down in your heart you want to be.

I remember being constantly told (by teachers, too!) that my aspirations were not good enough, and some opinions which I was obtuse enough to voice in the classroom setting (which, who'd have thought, are now popular mantras in our culture!) were laughed down by both teacher and students.  Human beings deserve more respect than that.  Their thoughts and ideas are valuable and precious, and our society NEEDS the fresh young minds of children!

I end this post with a disclaimer that this is my personal opinion and experience.
 
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July 17, 2007, 2:58 am PDT

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"Many of asked" ???

Perhaps I meant "many HAVE asked..." or "many of US HAVE asked"...
at any rate, the opening sentence in the last post I made is no indication of skills learned in skool <G>, but rather of my alertness on a lovely warm summer day.
 
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July 27, 2007, 2:04 pm PDT

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I am sad this board died out.

I learned a lot here ladies...it has helped a lot in my decision to home school my daughter.

And I thought I would also give an update on my babysitting...it's going well and I love my niece and nephew a lot, but man, it has solidified my position on day care...that's for sure!
 

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