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Topic : 11/27 The Dr. Phil House: Heroin Twins, The Intervention, Part 2

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Dr. Phil continues his work with twin sisters who are addicted to heroin and spiraling out of control. The Dr. Phil House has become the detox center for Sarah, who is monitored medically as she goes through painful withdrawal symptoms from her addiction to crack cocaine and heroin. Her sister, Tecoa, has only been clean for two weeks, and struggles to deal with her own drug cravings while six months pregnant and providing support for her detoxing sibling. Is she able to fight off the cravings or does she give in? And, is Tecoa sabotaging Dr. Phil’s efforts to get Sarah clean? While her daughters deal with their addictions, Cindy tries to learn the fine line between supporting and enabling. Dr. Phil meets with the entire family and shows the twins a look into their future, depending on the decisions they make now. Is it enough to scare them straight? Share your thoughts here.

Please note: The on-the-street footage in this series was filmed by a concerned outside party and sent to the Dr. Phil show.  Upon receipt of this compelling video, the Dr. Phil show began immediate efforts to plan and arrange necessary interventions and inspire these young adults to get out of harm’s way.

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November 27, 2006, 8:37 pm PST

A great gift to the twins

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I also really have to say I felt for Sarah while going through withdrawal and not wanting to get out of bed. I don't blame her.  I don't know what the strategy was, but I found myself saying "why can't she just lay there until she feels better and then start working mentally?"  I have to assume though that they know what they're doing.  But I felt for her.

I thought that the staff were being a bit hard on Sarah for wanting to stay in bed too. Perhaps she needs more time and more medicine (None narcotic?) to help her through the first 30 days. I felt sick watching the life these girls were living. I had a hard time quiting smoking and can't begin to imagine something tougher than that! I know narcotics and other drug abuse addicts including alcohol abuse must be many times harder to quit than smoking was to me so I do have empathy toward these girls.

As a mother, I agree with the tough love these girls need and I trust Dr Phil and his staff to do the very best for these girls. I believe Dr Phil would not be airing this intervention unless he planned to make sure these girls would be successful regardless of how hard they may fight it. The fighting against the help is the drug addiction talking, not the girls will to overcome it. I pray they are successful!

I hope the girls know that we are praying for their success in beating the addictions and in building a great future drug-free!

 
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November 27, 2006, 8:38 pm PST

recovering addict

I really feel for the girls. I don't know what is like to be addicted to Heroin, but on 11-22-06, I turned one year sober...go me! I was a real bad meth addict. I also enjoyed smoking weed, acid, extacy, shrooms, and poppin a few pills every now and then. I started out just snorting the meth, then I smoked it, then I ate it , and in the end I was shooting up at least 6 times a day. It was hard as hell when I was detoxing. I know that all I wanted to do was rest. What your body has to go through especially those first few days is just unreal. I just want to say that if the girls pull this off, and God I pray that they do, They are really strong women. They deserve a healthy and happy life, and both women are very beautiful, you just have to look deep into their eyes and past all the scaring on the outside to see that they are just as good as anyone else, and they to deserve happiness. I wish Sara and Tecoa all the love and best wishes in the world. I hope they know that there are people like me out here pulling for them and supporting them. I believe and I hope that they find the strength to believe in themselves.

 
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November 27, 2006, 8:40 pm PST

My thoughts.

I am overwelmed at the large number of recovering persons who have written into this message board. It warms my heart. I am also a recovering person, it will be 40 yr. in Jan. 07.

One thought - when Dr. Phil showed Sarah how she would look at age 40.  ??? She looks terrible now and that does not stop her. A person in active addiction does not see past her next fix. That is her time frame, hours, not 15 yr. in the future.

And speaking of how this young woman looks, she looks like a very sick person. With sores all over her face!  AND MEN GAVE HER MONEY FOR SEX! To me that is as sick as doing drugs.

Have these young women been tested for STD?  I hope so, and I don't think that would be announced as part of the show.

I have worked as a drug & alcohol counselor and in domestic violence shelters and it always astonishes me that women who are obviously sick can still make money as a prostitute.        

 
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November 27, 2006, 8:40 pm PST

Heart Breaking

I recently learned that my oldest son (who is 18) was doing heroin and cocaine after he was caught stealing. I was very devastated to say the least. He has already gone through 10 days of inpatient rehab and is currently in his 4th week of intensive outpatient therapy. He wanted the help but was afraid to come to me. He is doing very well and is very dedicated to himself in getting better. I never in a million years would have guessed that my all american good looking son would have ever got involved in something like this. It can happen to anyone, no one is exempt. I have been watching the show with the twins and it really tears my heart out to see what these girls are going through, knowing my son just went and is still dealing with his addiction. I literally cried during both shows. I feel that this show should be shown while people are attending inpatient rehab. Maybe if they seen how stupid and disgusting they looked and acted, it would make them think twice before wanting to use again. I watched these shows while my son was at his outpatient meeting, but we talked about it when he came home. He agrees with me. Seeing what you look like could really make a difference in whether you would use again or not. I hope these girls get the help they need and follow through with it. It is very scary, but I hope that they continue with Dr. Phil and turn their lives around.

 
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November 27, 2006, 8:44 pm PST

keeping you girls in my thoughts and prayers

I wanted to let Sara and Decoa that I am keeping you both in my thoughts and prayers. You both have a big choice to make. I believe life is about choices. You have to choose to find something else besides drugs to fill that void. No matter how much heroin you take, it will never be enough. You are both getting on the right path to get your life back. Keep going, there are a lot of people who believe in you. You are fortunate and blessed to have Dr. Phil to help you. Not very many people get a chance like this. There is a reason you have been given this opportunity. Hold on to the hope for a better life,put some hard work into it and your dreams can come true. You still have each other and a new life on the way.
 
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November 27, 2006, 8:49 pm PST

Oh my God!!!

I am soooo angry right now.  Watching this Dr. try and get her to get up and out of bed just makes me so mad!! I've been through the withdraws they are worse than 10 xs the flu!  She cant possibly think straight to give a sober answer. She needs to get through the pain and shakes and sweats-vomiting, diarrhea, extreme muscle pain and THEN she can begin the work to get her life back on track! I dont really like that Doc to much, how dare he say she doesnt want help, just because she is too sick to Go over diagnosing her life.  'Not a good judgement call,'  Doc!!

I have Fibromyalgia (whatever) and my Dr. prescribed me Methadone (after many ofther drugs) and I have been on Methadone for over 3 years now.  Every time I try to get off of them the pain and withdrawls are so bad I cant take it -and then - I take the pills.  I work also, how can I possibly go to work while withdrawing!!!   The withdrawls are horrifying, people think "Oh she's just feeling like she has the flu", Thats just stupid.  She is going through something that they are all lucky enough not to have to go through!  Thank God she has Doctors there that can give her something that will help her through the withdrawls, I dont have that.  I dont know how or when I will be able to get off of these terrible pills, I wish my Doctor had never given them to me.

 
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November 27, 2006, 9:03 pm PST

Not so sure....

While I appreciate the efforts of the Dr. Phil show (I think he has powerful ideas and influence) I wonder what good will actually come from this.  I don't want to bust anyones bubble but addiction is... well I don't even know how to describe it.  I have been mostly clean for about two years.  And for me, I count clean is not using anything besides pills and a little alcohol every now and then.  For me I count this as improvement- I won't even begin to bore you with the details because everyones addiction while drastically different is the same.  I guess what I really wanted to say is I know Dr. Phil is trying to help the twins and others who happen to see the show but, for me personally it makes want to go flying through the house looking for a rig that maybe just maybe I had forgotten about and then straight down the street to the dope mans house.  Anyway... this is really a bunch of rambling crap but I just felt like putting my thoughts down.
 
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November 27, 2006, 9:12 pm PST

11/27 The Dr. Phil House: Heroin Twins, The Intervention, Part 2

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You can not blame the mom for sleeping and her kids doing drugs, please come on seriously. If I blamed my parents for everything I did while they were sleeping, I'd get out of everything. Being a teenager in highschool, I do stuff in front of my parents & they don't realize it. Parents just want to think that their child wouldn't do that, and come to reality they do. And showing the tapes in school, it'd do nothing. They show us tapes all the time & my highschool is one of the biggest cocain/herion/meth abuse schools and I live in a super nice town with less then 20,000 people. It happens everywhere, it's never going to change, but don't blame the parents for what these girls did, they chose to do drugs. The parents didn't sit there with a needle & be like "hey inject your-self"

I have said the same thing.  I am 35 now with an 18 year old daughter i've raised by myself.  I know when I was a teenager I was doing things my parents knew nothing about, and I was home by 10pm.  I had loving parents who knew my friends and liked them.  Bad parents can have kids that turn out good and vice versa.  Like I said on another board, people are going to do what they want to do.  Just the other day my daughter and her friend were talking about things they used to get away with, and I was saying things I used to get away with (my mom was there too), when I had to tell my daughter to stop the story she was telling, I said its been 20 years since I've done these things, its too soon for you to spill your guts to me, you can still get in trouble!! :P haha

 
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November 27, 2006, 9:36 pm PST

Help Sarah

I think it is crazy how they are pushing tough love. I don't think any of them know what it is like to be detoxing from such a terrible drug or any in that matter. I can't believe on day 2 they wanted her up and out of bed. If they let her rest for just 2 days they would be able to speak to someone that is clear headed. Geez, day 2 of detoxing she can't even think straight right now. I am sure she is just so tired. I am surpried we have not seen her fall out\pass out if you say. Yes, this is a critical time. But, I do not like how they keep  talking about, "touch love." Geez show some love and it doesn't need to be tough. It really bothers me when doctors say that. She wants help you can see it but it is hard. All she has known for the past 10 years is drugs. THAT IS her life. She needs to be shown that it will get better. I do appreciate how doctor fill sat and told them both they are worth living.  

 

 

This will be a struggle for them both. They need to take it a day at a time and things will get better. I hope they make it.  I know they will. I hope they do updates on these twins.

 
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November 27, 2006, 9:40 pm PST

11/27 The Dr. Phil House: Heroin Twins, The Intervention, Part 2

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While I appreciate the efforts of the Dr. Phil show (I think he has powerful ideas and influence) I wonder what good will actually come from this.  I don't want to bust anyones bubble but addiction is... well I don't even know how to describe it.  I have been mostly clean for about two years.  And for me, I count clean is not using anything besides pills and a little alcohol every now and then.  For me I count this as improvement- I won't even begin to bore you with the details because everyones addiction while drastically different is the same.  I guess what I really wanted to say is I know Dr. Phil is trying to help the twins and others who happen to see the show but, for me personally it makes want to go flying through the house looking for a rig that maybe just maybe I had forgotten about and then straight down the street to the dope mans house.  Anyway... this is really a bunch of rambling crap but I just felt like putting my thoughts down.
Well I really hope for you sake that you do stay clean. I was really aggrivated with the "tough love" tactic they kept using. No one except her sister and the other addict in that house knows how she is feeling. Most people are put on medication right away to help them. I really hope they both get clean and as for yourself please stay clean. I will keep you in my thoughts.
 
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