Topic : 11/28 Jeremy Returns

Dr Phil,

You have no idea what it is like when you are trying to save a child.  You see ads to get involved and when you do either nothing happens or you are the bad guy.  We have dealt with many different agencies trying to help family members and got no satisfaction.  We also have dealt with the state police.  We had a video tape of a 4 year old saying his dad stepped on his throat and choked him and he couldn't breathe.  It was turned over to the police who said they would question him.  5 months later they had him in for a ploygraph which he failed.  It isn't admissable in court so they couldn't do anything because he denied the charges.  We also had the kids quite a bit when they were younger and had our niece to the doctor.  Her private area was red and just didn't look normal.  When we asked the doctor if he thought she might be molested.  He told us he couldn't answer that unless her parents (the ones we were concerned were molesting her) asked him to do that.

Did no one hear when Dr Phil said a trained professional doctor has looked at this child and this doctor said there is no proof of any penetration. Clearly this doesnt mean that the father isnt molesting the child in other ways, but when a child is saying shes being penetrated, yet theres no proof. You need to start looking at the mother and grandmother closer....

Isnt grandma feeling guilty for her daughter being molested? Or maybe a bit of guilt for being a shooty mother when she allowed her 14 year old to date a 21 year old?  This whole family has major issues, its a total shame they are all using that child to try to fix themselves.

As I write this I am in tears that the parents can not put the child first.

CPS took my cousins sons 3 &4 out of the home and placed them in the home of the parental grandparents I do believe they thought it was best. The grandparents took them on to keep from separating and also askfor help with their care. Sept 9 they ran from the home for 4 days we searched and on the 4 day they was found in the river. Our community is still saying how it could happen. I have guilt because I choose to distance myself from this family and i am hear to say if you think something is wrong it is better to be wrong than right. Because the grandparents where not able to take care so it not just the parents you watch. the cps in the area set better guidelines so no more fall through the cracks. I hope this is not another child though a crack

I think it is quite sad of how these parents are acting. I understand they say their best interest is Kaylee.  However, Grandma needs to stay out of it. Being supportive of her daughter and concerned with the well-being of her grand-daughter is one thing, but helping destroy someone else's life is quite another (Kaylee's is in the midst of being ruined if these accusations are true).  But, Jeremy's demeanor is quite the question.  He may or may not be guilty (courts will have to decide that).  But he really doesn't help matters when he comes across as this arrogant, heartless fool.  Now, he may be nervous and so upset of the accusations that it has caused him to be this way, but he should really get control and then maybe the truth can be heard and found.  But the more the "evidence" cannot be found of physical abuse then maybe mom should step back for a little while. Just take notes, document everything as she has, move to another city and slap it all on the table at one time.  But, if Jeremy isn't the culprit, maybe mom should look at other options too. Are there friends at Jeremy's house when she's there (he may not know this is going on either), cousins, other children (kids can be cruel with experimenting too).  I just think Bonii and Krista should stop worrying about what others think of Jeremy and worry more about what this child is going through.  I also think it is making them look worse the more they attack someone they cannot prove to be guilty.  I'm not taking either side.  I can see both.  God be with you Kaylee in hopes these accusations are false and you're just confused. To you Bonii, Krista for hopes that you are accusing the right person and that you aren't taking Kaylee's father away from her (you will be the ones wrong and despised in Kaylee's eyes if so) and Jeremy, to you that you are being truthful and that you can live with yourself knowing the truth (+ or -)!!!!! Good luck.