Topic : 11/28 Jeremy Returns

Don't get me wrong, I love Dr. Phil, but I cringe every time he says he's never seen CPS underestimate abuse.  It's happening in my family, and it's a nightmare.  The kids are wards of the state, but the state left them in physical custody of the mother who beat them.  The kids are in their early teens, and can defend themselves physically, but if they do, they are labeled violent and "unable to be controlled by the mother".  If she had done this to an adult, she would have been arrested for assault, but no charges have been filed.  The mother has followed through with counseling, but no counseling was provided to the kids, though it was ordered by the judge.  The juvenile court doesn't seem to care that it's own orders aren't being followed.  The kids never received psyh evals either like they were supposed to.. 

Overall, the situation is improving, due to the mother complying with court orders.  But this is the second time this has happened, and as soon as the state was out of the picture last time she quit going to the psychiatrist and counseling, and the abuse resumed.  The dad (who is on my side of the family) will complete a prison sentence in January.  He has never abused the kids and has been sober for years, but I'm sure that won't hold any water in a custody battle because of his legal past. 

Other family members have asked the caseworker if we could keep the kids while they and the mother get counseling, but were told if we file any abuse reports on the mother we will be interfering with the rehabilitation of the family and we will get our visits revoked.  I guess I do have to say that I'm happy the court allowed us extended family member to have visitaion, since the mother has kept them from us.  Usually, this is not granted, so the kids did get some justice.

I do think Jeremy has abused his daughter.  But I don't have much faith in the CPS system. Maybe Dr. Phil can actually make  difference in this particular situation.

I am writing about the show today.  I found it disturbing that Dr. Phil was upset at the mom and grandma for picketing the courts and handing our fliers.  I've been where they are right now.  I had a 4 year old step-daughter that her father, my husband, has custody of still today.  We went through a 3 year court battle, many times my husband was found in contempt of court for not allowing his ex-wife visitations (her husband was the accused).  The courts claimed my husband couldn't bring up criminal court in family court until the man was proven guilty.  We ran from Kentucky to Indiana and moved I would say probably 15 times in that 3 year span.  My husband had about 30 jobs during that time.  So many court dates that he lost his carpentry jobs.  Our family still 9 years later haven't recovered from the trauma.  The man did finally get 20 years in prison.  Biological mom wanted to see her daughter only during the trial time but as soon as he went to jail she has refused telephone calls and visitations and will not pay child support.  My husband was threatened jail time and was fined several times yet now she has no concern to see her daughter although now she has remarried and states she believes her daughter was molested.  We had our daughter checked out by cCPS when she was 3 and they told us she was acting out normal behavior of a 3 year old girl.  She was making sexual movements on other children, dolls, objects etc.,  Nothing was done.  We went to counselors and got nothing.  We went to specialist and got nothing.  Only after we took her to a place called Childrens First in Louisville, KY did they do a full investigation.  The daughter is so mentally messed up she is so very difficult for any of us to manage.  It hurts the other 3 children who have lived with us raising them and knowing of love only.  They don't understand her rage.  Quite frankly I have a hard time and I've been in the same place as she has.  I was molested by my biological mom who was schizophrenic, my father was an alcoholic who french kiss me, I was raped by a friend of my dads at 12.  I was shy where my step daughter wants her father, me, brothers, friends, family etc. to pay and she don't care how she hurts us.  The family is ruined and the man only got 20 years. 

Dr. Phil I was disgusted that you judged those two women for doing what they felt they had to do.  You are brought up to believe that this country will protect you as long as you are in the right.  ONly after being through the courts do you realize thats no t so true.  Only in a perfect world.  I'm not trying to say anything bad about CPS but I believe they get so many people who cry wolf that the children who need true protection don't get it.  Therefore, they always believe everyone is out to get their ex. 

Also, speaking, I have a sister who is a CPS worker.  She is about messed up in the head as anyone can be.  She had 3 boys and claimed medical problems with them.  She claimed her husband had brain cancer yet he's still alive 20 years later.

Here's my 2 cents for what it's worth....By looking in Jeremy's eyes, I can promise he's guilty! He looks nervous and cocky! He was worse today when they revealed the 2nd lie detector test report him innocent. He had a smirk as if he got away with it. What goes around comes around. He will pay some day!

Although, I disagree with Kaylee's Mom and Grandmother. They are making things worse. It seems that everyone here is more interested in being seen and heard then caring for the child. I would assume if my child came home saying her father hurt her or I saw anything on her, I would be in the ER immediately! I don't care is CPS had a problem with us going to the ER daily! If my child is hurt, I want it documented. The more proof, the better in the courts.

That is the only thing that the mother failed, was question about coaching Kaylee. I don't care who you know or how made one family is at the other!! There is a child involved and that needs to be the main focus here!! DUH!!! Look at the questions that Jeremy, the sick creature, failed!! Those QUESTONS are ALOT more serious than the single 1 questions the mother failed. So you need to look at the evidence against this so called dad Jeremy