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Topic : 11/28 Jeremy Returns

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Created on : Tuesday, November 21, 2006, 02:20:16 pm
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Dr. Phil follows up with Krista and Bonii's quest for the truth, to find out if 3-year-old Kaylee is being molested by her father, Jeremy. Jeremy maintains his innocence even after a polygraph test showed him to be lying. He took another lie detector test at his hometown police department, and brought the results for Dr. Phil to review. What does an independent polygrapher say about this second test? Then, Jeremy asked to undergo hypnosis as another means of getting closer to the truth. Were there any new revelations? And, Jeremy had agreed to supervised visits with Kaylee, but when he got home, he changed his mind, so Krista denied him visitation. They end up facing off in front of a judge. Did Krista serve jail time or let Jeremy see Kaylee? Is Jeremy being falsely accused, or is this little girl still in harm's way? Talk about the show here.

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November 28, 2006, 4:43 pm PST

You are right

Quote From: rlwitham

I was molested and I came out fine.... and many people get on with their lives.... and YOU are wrong... children are resilient.... I am not saying it is EASY... BUT you can heal... and MANY PEOPLE DO... and I have to say.... I would rather carry the burden of the abuse that I endured for the rest of my life... instead of carrying a burden that my INNOCENT father was ruined on my behalf, because something I said was misunderstood or misconstrued.... because I was too young to explain exactly what I meant .... THAT WOULD HAVE WRECKED ME EVEN MORE....................... Can you imagine if an innocent father is put in jail for many years... or worse yet... he kills himself... because nobody believes him when he said he was innocent.... and then when you are old enough to understand what happened and why... You come to realize it was all a mistake... because you meant he touched you when he was changing your diaper..... NOW "THAT" WOULD BE SOMETHING I COULD NEVER GET OVER ............................................................................................................. and just so you know... it was NOT MY FATHER WHO molested me.... and no innocent people were ever blamed......
I have chose to be a survivor and not a victim. I had to forgive my parents for myself and not be forgiving them to make them better. If I didn't forgive them. The hurt, anger, and hatred would of eaten me alive. My parents and I now have a good child/parent realtionship. It was a long road and wqas not easy. We all 3 went through years of cousling. What helped us all is that we found God. If God forgives me for all the wrongs that I have done and will do in my life because I am human and as a human will sin. Then the least I can is forgive my parents and others that has hurt me..I am truly much more happier now that I have learned to forgive. Now forgiving does not mean forgetting. I will not allow any of my children alone with my parents. My parents know that I have forgiven them. However, they also know that has a mother I have to do what I have to do to protect my kids. My children and parents have a loving relationship. I have never stopped them from seeing each other. It just that they only see each other when I or my husband is there to supervise.
 
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November 28, 2006, 4:44 pm PST

Dad is molesting...

The Dad is molesting this child. The grandmother is too involved. Mom was stupid to coach her child as that will look as though her daughters father is innocent which in fact I don't believe to be true. Nobody is taking these women seriously because of their actions. I would have gone to jail instead of letting my child go w/an abusive parent. Period.
 
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November 28, 2006, 4:44 pm PST

CPS workers

My family and I know first hand how horrible CPS workers can be-in the process of trying to adopt through foster care we have been flagrantly lied to and lied about-the misdeeds of social workers working in Child Protective Services as well as the judges that work in the family courts should be brought to light more often!  We filed complaints with the state as well as the Grand Jury of our county.  The Grand Jury did an investigation that resulted in many social workers in our local office being reassigned due to lack of integrity and lack of desire to do what's right for the children!
 
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November 28, 2006, 4:46 pm PST

?????

This show becomes ridiculous now.

First Dr. Phil should find out who are “they” (“they touched my pepe”).

2nsly, little girl needs to be in the show -  to testify!!!

 

Think about this way: if I accuse Mr. B beat me and Mr. C said no, and Mr. B is not available to testify, how could the judge (Dr. Phil) find if I told the truth or Mr. C told the truth. Use PolyGram? Bullshit!!!

 
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November 28, 2006, 4:48 pm PST

11/28 Jeremy Returns

Quote From: concernedaunt

I personally have not been molested, but I can tell you from experience that children will indeed cry out to stay with a specific parent if they are very close to that parent.  My niece bawled until vomiting because she didn't want to stay with grandpa (Grandpa babysits off and on) because my little angle spends a great deal of time with daddy (who is home with her from midnight until 2pm - he works night shift  from 3:00 to 11:00).  My father is in no way abusing this child, but she through a fit that would make you question whether or not he was.

I have family and friends who have been sexually, verbally and physically abused and I even did extensive study on child sexual abuse so I am very much aware of the signs of true child abuse.

Actually I have to say  My mom was molested  as child..  Her father   molested an beat her. Her brother raped her.  The sent her brother to get help an took her an her brothers an sister away putting them in foster care. Her brother came back after help. Yet to be they was never allowed to be separeted.  But she said she was always quiet  an Keep to her self. She never went to no one about it. Her brother was the one whom got his self help. But they was also in an out of abusive foster homes.

Now days its very sad because alot ppl use it to get back at the other parents even if it isnt happening an it is a proven fact they do which hurts the child more than anything. An when the child gets older they tend to hate the parent whom turned them on the other an things they said wasnt true.

 
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November 28, 2006, 4:49 pm PST

I am not sure

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Obviously Jeremy has issues that hes not going to tell us about, or even try to aknowledge. As others have said, he thrives off of attention and being on tv. The fact of the matter is, Jeremy is a liar, and everyone knows that. The reason why everyone watches the show when he's on, is because we all know hes lying and we are waiting for Dr, Phil, who we love so much, to lash out at him and get the truth. Unfortunantly that is not going to happen because Dr. Phil doesnt stoop to that level. In my opinion, I do not believe that either of the parents should be with their daughter at this point. They are both unstable, Jeremy more so, and Kaylee is going to suffer mentally and emotionally. I know from experience how abused childeren act later in life. Jeremy, has all of the signs. What really troubles me is that we all see hes guitly, but the court systems seem to fail us all the time if we dont have a reputation or money. Good thing hes not Michael Jackson or else he would be in the same boat. If Jeremy ever goes to jail and he wasnt molested when he was younger and he did so with his daughter, he will finally know what it feels like to be molested, and thats no joke.
You said that everyone is watching because we all know he is lying. I am not sure. I see a lot of coaching and lying with the mother and granbdmother. I believe that the way this has been handled that noone can be certain who is being truthful and who is lying.
 
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November 28, 2006, 4:49 pm PST

11/28 Jeremy Returns

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My thoughts too..........EXCEPT, you're forgetting if Krista goes to jail, Jeremy gets Kaylee!!  So, in other words, by trying to protect her, she would be helping Jeremy get his daughter.  Our system has failed our children and it makes me sick.  I would like for CPS and the Judge to have to give their children over to Jeremy for visits, I bet they would do something about it then.
i think that jeremy did molest his little girl for the fact of the way he reacts to any question asked of him. he will do anything to change the subject, or not have a clear answer, that to me shows he has something to hide!!!!!!!!   as far as the cps unfortunatly that is how they are now, when these children need help, it is too easy to turn the other way, it makes me sick. no faith in the system these days.  too many judges, and the law are too busy to take alittle time to hear, or read evidence, i think people forget why they got into there jobs in the first place.
 
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November 28, 2006, 4:49 pm PST

mother of Krista is awell to blame

the mother of krista is as well to blame she let her 14 yr. old daughter sleep with a 21 yr old  man . Maybe she should be held acountable for the whole process at hand as far as I'm concerned  she is also one to blame as a bad parent. I am glad thing are getting to the bottom of Kaylie The Mother and the daughter seem like they aren't  to smart to put it around town who in there right mind would do that to there child.
 
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November 28, 2006, 4:49 pm PST

False allegers

Quote From: our4sons

That was Jeremy's complaint to the child's mother WRT her picketing the court house. He was upset out the info that was being passed out on the leaflets. Yet, there he is, on the Dr. Phil Show's stage in front of an audience & cameras.

 

A bit ironic to me, maybe.

 

UGH! The man was 21 & she was 14 when they got together!!!

According to current research on false allegations of sexual abuse, this very behavior of Jeremy's is more consistent with someone who is being truthful, while the mother's is very consistent with someone who is making a false allegation.....
 
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November 28, 2006, 4:49 pm PST

11/28 Jeremy Returns

Quote From: concernedaunt

I personally have not been molested, but I can tell you from experience that children will indeed cry out to stay with a specific parent if they are very close to that parent.  My niece bawled until vomiting because she didn't want to stay with grandpa (Grandpa babysits off and on) because my little angle spends a great deal of time with daddy (who is home with her from midnight until 2pm - he works night shift  from 3:00 to 11:00).  My father is in no way abusing this child, but she through a fit that would make you question whether or not he was.

I have family and friends who have been sexually, verbally and physically abused and I even did extensive study on child sexual abuse so I am very much aware of the signs of true child abuse.

 When she threw the fit that you mention in your comment...by any chance did she mention him touching her genitals??  Yeah OK then...You have no clue what it is like unless you have been there.... I have also studied child sex abuse and my daughter was abused ....so I also am very well versed .... There is no way that a child of three or four yrs of age is going to keep that lie going....She is too consistent...As a mother my heart bleeds for that little girl and her mother ...I can not think of a worse toucher for a mother but to know your child is being harmed and your the one that has to drive her to it..... I could vomit
 
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