Topic : 11/28 Jeremy Returns

Todays show really makes me upset. Poor Kaylee has been through so much.  First I am going to say that I don't know what is really happening with Kaylee. Having said that I agree with the courts and CPA, He is not a threat to Kaylee. This is one big custody battle. Jeremy's wife is acting like a child. She is just making the whole situation worse. The wife should be ashamed of herself. I also think Jeremy's wife is coaching Kaylee. I feel really bad for Jeremy, he is trying to move on and the wife won't put a period and move on. I think Jeremy as a father has the right to have unsupervised visitation. A judge in a court of law already ruled this. This is an awful situation and everybody needs to move on. As the show progressed today, the more Jeremy looked innocent. On the other side of the coin, I do agree with Dr. Phil. Dr. Phil is not accusing Jeremy of doing this, but Dr. Phil has some concerns. I think everybody needs to sit down the professionals, including Jeremy. Jeremy said on the show, that he wants to be separate, he doesn't want to be in the same room with his daughter when being counseled. I don't blame him. That is all from me. I do want to tell Dr. Phil that he has a great show and I do think he really does want to help people. Its Genuine. Thats All.

 I cant believe the arrogance of Jeremy! I had a similar incident with my ex-husband and daughter and my ex-husband was told by CPS in Florida that I made up the lie to hurt him!

 My daughter would have NEVER made up such a thing about a man she loved and was 11 years old when she finally told me! Nothing was ever done and my daughter is now 24 and has NOTHING to do with her father.

I agree with picketing,writing letter and screaming it from a roof top if that what it takes for someone to protect that little girl!

This is my first time ever leaving a message on a message board but, I think Dr. Phil had it wrong to tell them to "calm down" they need to continue to scream out as loud as possible until someone listens.

Note to Dr. Phil... I am a Grandmother who has been worried about my 5 year old granddaughter since she was about 5 months old. I have always thought her "father" and I use that term very loosely, has been sexually abusing her, as well as emotional and physical abuse. My granddaughter had demonstrated some disturbing actions and made statements that led me to believe she was being abused. My daughter is stuck in this very abusive relationship and she doesnt know what to do. Unfortunatley, I was in the same situation withe her father many years ago. My daughter was sexually mistreated by her stepfather and I didnt do anything. I have lived with that guilt for years now. I finally got my head on straight 7 years ago and now I see the error of the choices I made back then and how there are perpetuating through the generations. I am trying to stop that cycle with my granddaughter but I feel it is too late. The DHS has been out to my daughters house on more than a few occasions. I had to raise my granddaughter for 6 months because  the father and the other grandmother, as well as my daughter were accused of physical abuse of my granddaughter. During the time she was with me, she shared many stories with me that I just couldn't take. I called DHS and shared with them what she had told me and I was told that unless my granddaughter explicitly stated she saw naked bodies there was nothing they could do. She was 4 at the time.... she new enough to tell me what she saw and what she was made to do with her other grandmother of all people.

So... when I hear you say that you just don't believe that Child Protective Services would not follow up on a complaint I have to disagree. This was in Arkansas and they said they would make sure that my call was documented but they did not see any cause for an investigation. Maybe you should do a show on the breakdown of this system in America. My daughter and the father both got off from the charge of abuse and I had to return my beautiful granddaughter back to them. She went from a very angry, uncontrollable, raging little 4 year old to a sweet little girl who said her prayers at night, flowering little girl in the 6 months I had her. I have since watched her return to the angry, frustrated little 5 year old that she is now.

Please Dr. Phil.... don't turn a blind eye the reality of the Child Protective Systems in this country. I am sure there are many offices that do the job they are supposed to do.... but the one in my county...... has much to be desired.

Frustrated Grandmother feeling helpless in Arkansas.