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August 9, 2005, 5:31 pm PDT

GOOD EVENING FRIENDS...

It's so good to see most of you here. I know the new boards are a bit of a challenge but it seems like you're getting it!! 

 

Hope you're all doing well right now and so are your loved one's too. 

 

We are doing fine, "As Per Normal!!" (that one was just for you Vicki)!!LOL 

 

Not a whole to report today, just wanted to say hi to you all and it's great to see you all back here and please stay around. Till next time TAKE CARE & BYE-FOR-NOW. LOVE KELLY. 

 
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August 9, 2005, 6:00 pm PDT

Neecie and Trace

 Neecie, the Help board is really busy, but it doesn't compare with the Depression board. Depression has 3774 posts, it says. I wonder if there's a connection?

Trace, the advice you're given on the Help board about longish, in terms of time it takes to compose,  messages is to type them in your word processor and then copy them into the  DP post. Of course, this doesn't work for me, since I use Firefox as my browser and the cut/copy/paste box doesn't work yet for Firefox. rofl

And definitely, Trace, go to the Help board and tell them about Sue's problem. The standard advice and button clicking is a bunch of crap. It doesn't work, if you're one of the people with a problem. You end up going in circles and being caught by Catch22 after Catch22. They say they sent out emails, but that can't possibly be true. Something went wrong with their autosender, but they'll never admit it.

Gotta quit before my time's up. Sheesh.


 
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August 9, 2005, 7:48 pm PDT

trace

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Anyway.  Talked to Sue today and she says to say hi to all of you.  She's been trying to log in now under three different email addresses and has gotten no responses from the DP powers that be.  She can still read messages, which is a good thing.  Please say hi and send her your love and your best.  

  

How many minutes do I have left?  Geeze.  Let's see.  My daughter is doing well.  Need names for a girl.  Chris and I still aren't together.  Need help for  us (actually him!)  My brother left for Vancouver and I cried buckets.  Need kleenex for me.  My cat Rocky still isn't well (who knew that a grooming for a perfectly healthy cat would cost $500 and leave her almost dead)  Need good thoughts for that ten-year-old shy kitty.  Send money for laxatives. 

  

That's probably about it as my time is up.  Love to all of you!   Phew! 

Glad Sue is trying to get on here.   We miss her terribly. 

  

HI SUE!!!!!!! 

  

Girl names....how about Hannah?  Emily?  Emma?  Phoenix?  I dunno there are just so many!!!! 

  

Whats with Chris anyways?  and whats with Rocky???  Did you take him to a Laundry Mat by accident?   

  

I hate the time thing too........damn! 

 
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August 9, 2005, 8:07 pm PDT

here goes.....

Howdy.... 

OK this time I am composing this on WordPad and then I'm gonna post it. It took me so long last time as Remy came over to me and barked.....he is so smart....he needed to use the "outside potty". We haven't had any accidents in a very long time - or it seems that way anyways. 

As for my job - I'm still busting my butt to get in shape to try out for the City Police job. It can't hurt to get in shape even if I don't do the try out or if I don't pass it. I've lost 5 lbs so far and I'm hoping to lose about another 10. I will be oh so happy.... :). I had an interview with a Bank yesterday, but it might only be for a part time/casual position. At least Unemployment Insurance will kick in to pay what I'm not getting. I've been applying at lots of jobs, so here's hoping I will get one in the very near future. I'm still also considering taking the Medical Transcription course and working from home. Time will tell though. 

About Ron and myself. Its all good. I wish I had met him years before. I may have really cause he used to play soft ball here in town, we know the same people and I think we played in the same tournies.....go figure. Anyways its been 1 month and it just feels like so much longer. The girls and I have been spending our weekends and some weekdays at his place with his kids. We all get along for the most part. Of course my girls get on the older kids nerves sometimes, but that is to be expected. His are 15 (boy) and 12 (girl). My girls adore them and they absolutely love Ron. Well who can blame them....I feel the same way. We have lots of fun together....but now its getting time for him to work hard so I won't be seeing him as much. He told me I can always head out to his place and if he isn't there...he will be at some point later on. So I think the girls and I are gonna pack up tomorrow and head out there for the night. Its about 1 hour away, but its an easy drive. I'm not looking forward to the winter driving though. He asked me one night if I could ever see myself living on a farm in ND....yes, I can. Its peaceful and I don't worry so much about the girls being outside like I do here. Yeah I know its a small town, but the location sometimes brings undesirables here. He even mentioned adopting the girls if it wasn't a big fight (with my X). We are both looking for a long term commited relationship and don't want to waste each others time. He didn't want to be with anyone that didn't want to live on a farm. Thing is I could still work in the city that I'm currently looking for work in, so it all works out. 

For the first time I actually don't feel doubtful in a relationship. I feel secure and I know where I stand.....right beside him. 

The girls and I are happy when we are at his place. My parents even came out on Sunday to spend the day and then head to the lake nearby. I'm thinking they really like Ron.....I haven't seen my dad talk that much to anyone in a long long long time...lmao. 

Now I'm wanting this to work so pass on the good vibes..... 

Hugs to you all! 

Vicki 

 
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August 9, 2005, 8:12 pm PDT

Neecie

 Juss would have phrased it quite differently, but the message would have been the same. And, of course, it's rare indeed that I disagree with you. ;)
 
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August 9, 2005, 8:22 pm PDT

Vicki

 I'm glad--really, really happy--that things on most fronts are going well for you and that the vibes are good. But, dang it, slow down!!!!

You might be the most resilient person I've ever encountered. Slow down! You're bouncing too high too soon, I fear.
 
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August 9, 2005, 9:07 pm PDT

hey tap

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 I'm glad--really, really happy--that things on most fronts are going well for you and that the vibes are good. But, dang it, slow down!!!!

You might be the most resilient person I've ever encountered. Slow down! You're bouncing too high too soon, I fear.

I know....I know....I know. 

  

I think both of us are just looking for the same thing.  We are both wanting someone to share our lives with.  We have alot of fun together and are hoping we can make a go of it. 

  

I'll slow down....I just get excited in more ways than one!!!!! 

  

BTW - I love your new pic......... 

 
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August 9, 2005, 9:48 pm PDT

HI VICKI...

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Howdy.... 

OK this time I am composing this on WordPad and then I'm gonna post it. It took me so long last time as Remy came over to me and barked.....he is so smart....he needed to use the "outside potty". We haven't had any accidents in a very long time - or it seems that way anyways. 

As for my job - I'm still busting my butt to get in shape to try out for the City Police job. It can't hurt to get in shape even if I don't do the try out or if I don't pass it. I've lost 5 lbs so far and I'm hoping to lose about another 10. I will be oh so happy.... :). I had an interview with a Bank yesterday, but it might only be for a part time/casual position. At least Unemployment Insurance will kick in to pay what I'm not getting. I've been applying at lots of jobs, so here's hoping I will get one in the very near future. I'm still also considering taking the Medical Transcription course and working from home. Time will tell though. 

About Ron and myself. Its all good. I wish I had met him years before. I may have really cause he used to play soft ball here in town, we know the same people and I think we played in the same tournies.....go figure. Anyways its been 1 month and it just feels like so much longer. The girls and I have been spending our weekends and some weekdays at his place with his kids. We all get along for the most part. Of course my girls get on the older kids nerves sometimes, but that is to be expected. His are 15 (boy) and 12 (girl). My girls adore them and they absolutely love Ron. Well who can blame them....I feel the same way. We have lots of fun together....but now its getting time for him to work hard so I won't be seeing him as much. He told me I can always head out to his place and if he isn't there...he will be at some point later on. So I think the girls and I are gonna pack up tomorrow and head out there for the night. Its about 1 hour away, but its an easy drive. I'm not looking forward to the winter driving though. He asked me one night if I could ever see myself living on a farm in ND....yes, I can. Its peaceful and I don't worry so much about the girls being outside like I do here. Yeah I know its a small town, but the location sometimes brings undesirables here. He even mentioned adopting the girls if it wasn't a big fight (with my X). We are both looking for a long term commited relationship and don't want to waste each others time. He didn't want to be with anyone that didn't want to live on a farm. Thing is I could still work in the city that I'm currently looking for work in, so it all works out. 

For the first time I actually don't feel doubtful in a relationship. I feel secure and I know where I stand.....right beside him. 

The girls and I are happy when we are at his place. My parents even came out on Sunday to spend the day and then head to the lake nearby. I'm thinking they really like Ron.....I haven't seen my dad talk that much to anyone in a long long long time...lmao. 

Now I'm wanting this to work so pass on the good vibes..... 

Hugs to you all! 

Vicki 

So glad to hear that things are going so well for you and Ron. You do sound very content right now and thats a good sign isn't it!! It's also good to know that you feel comfortable with things the way they are with you, your girls and his family.  

 

I have to agree with you on the living on the farm bit, I know when Mark's father had the farm it was just so quiet and peaceful. So much fresh clean air to breath in too. So if you can handle living out in the open spaces and not being close to town then I'm sure you would do alright. And yes it would be great for the girls to have so much room to run riot in!! 

 

Keep going with the fittness as it just might help you get that job. I know I can't talk cause I could lose alot of weight but Good Luck to you, Vicki!!  

 

Oh and it's always a good sign when your parents get on with the one you love to be with.  

 

Yes, I will pass on lots and lots of great vibes to you all. Please TAKE CARE and again I'm very happy for you Vicki. LOVE KELLY. 

 

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August 9, 2005, 10:57 pm PDT

The Chocolate Tasting - Tucson , AZ

I think I've told you all about our friend from Switzerland, Franz, who is a pastry chef and was on the Food Network recently.  Of course, he came to the reunion with his wife, Gaby, who is just a beautiful person, inside and out.  Franz is wonderful, also.  He's a big teddy bear of a guy, who's smile could melt anyone's heart.  Franz knew absolutely NO English when he arrived in the states to travel with us, but it was so important to him to be able to have meaningful conversations with everyone, that he was completely fluent before the end of the year.  Since then, he's traveled extensively, and his English is even better. 

  

So, it came about that during some free time at the reunion, he announced that he would be giving a Chocolate Tasting.  We all gathered at the appointed time, in the hospitality suite that had been rented for our cast to gather in.  $200 per night X 4 had been donated by various members of the cast to pay for the suite.  It was a great place and we had a birthday celebration there - more on that later - and we brought in stuff to drink, and pizza one night, and cold cuts another.  We had our cast meeting there, and watched a slide show of pictures from our year.  There was even a huge balcony that overlooked the pool and the golf course.  The president of the Alumni Assoc. was staying in a suite just like it. 

  

So, we all gathered around and Franz explained that we all needed to be quiet and to really listen and pay attention to the sensations of the chocolate.  He consults for a company called Fechlin, and he explained briefly about the process of making chocolate, where it comes from (Venezuela, Ecuador, Java, and Madagascar) and that this chocolate we'd be tasting was in the top 3% in terms of quality.  Soon, the joking all stopped and we were mesmerized, including the kids. 

  

He had pamphlets that explained about how the cocoa beans are gathered, and made into chocolate, the precision that goes into making sure every lot is up to the standards required by the company, and how to properly taste fine chocolate.  We tasted seven different kinds, beginning with the darkest and finishing with the creamiest milk chocolate.  Each time, he explained about the particulars of that one, the flavors in it, the source, etc.  We opened the packages, looked it over, to be sure there were no streaks, or white edges.  We rubbed it with our thumbs to release the aroma.  We broke it in half and listened for the snap that would indicate the cocoa content. (the more cocoa, the more solid it is, resulting in a harder snap).  And then, you take a piece in your mouth, let it melt over your tongue and slide down your throat.  Hold your breath for a moment, and concentrate only on the flavors and texture.  The pamphlet I have says that the best time to taste chocolate is late morning or late afternoon, because that is when your senses are most receptive.  The chocolate was beyond words, and I was amazed at how well, Erin took it all in.  She was very serious about the whole process. 

  

It was really an incredible experience, and I know Franz was incredibly pleased that he was able to do that for us, to share his passion.  OK, I'll share about the birthday party, since that involves Franz also.  On Wed night, before everyone had arrived, we had a birthday party in the suite for Regina, who turned 40 on Thursday.  She is from Switzerland also, but has lived in Melbourne with her husband and daughter for 4 years.  Franz insisted he would take care of the cake.  So, there we are gathered in the suite, when the door opens, and in walk three chefs along with Franz.  They were carrying three masterpieces -- two cakes that looked like the most beautiful torts, with fruit slices, and... oh goodness they were beautiful.  The third piece was a chocolate sculpture, similar, but much smaller than something Franz would do in a competition.  It had an oval chocolate base, and then two stems coming up, with large flowers made out of chocolate.  Around the base were chocolate covered strawberries.  Franz had contacted the pastry chef at the resort, who turned out to be someone he knew, and had arranged for these to be done.  The Head Pastry Chef, I think his name was Chris Johnson, kept deferring to Franz and saying that he hoped these would be OK, and up to the standards he had requested.  Just incredible. 

  

It was just so much fun, and that was only one small part of the whole week.  I really wish I could have shared it will all of you. 

 
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August 10, 2005, 8:52 am PDT

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I think I've told you all about our friend from Switzerland, Franz, who is a pastry chef and was on the Food Network recently.  Of course, he came to the reunion with his wife, Gaby, who is just a beautiful person, inside and out.  Franz is wonderful, also.  He's a big teddy bear of a guy, who's smile could melt anyone's heart.  Franz knew absolutely NO English when he arrived in the states to travel with us, but it was so important to him to be able to have meaningful conversations with everyone, that he was completely fluent before the end of the year.  Since then, he's traveled extensively, and his English is even better. 

  

So, it came about that during some free time at the reunion, he announced that he would be giving a Chocolate Tasting.  We all gathered at the appointed time, in the hospitality suite that had been rented for our cast to gather in.  $200 per night X 4 had been donated by various members of the cast to pay for the suite.  It was a great place and we had a birthday celebration there - more on that later - and we brought in stuff to drink, and pizza one night, and cold cuts another.  We had our cast meeting there, and watched a slide show of pictures from our year.  There was even a huge balcony that overlooked the pool and the golf course.  The president of the Alumni Assoc. was staying in a suite just like it. 

  

So, we all gathered around and Franz explained that we all needed to be quiet and to really listen and pay attention to the sensations of the chocolate.  He consults for a company called Fechlin, and he explained briefly about the process of making chocolate, where it comes from (Venezuela, Ecuador, Java, and Madagascar) and that this chocolate we'd be tasting was in the top 3% in terms of quality.  Soon, the joking all stopped and we were mesmerized, including the kids. 

  

He had pamphlets that explained about how the cocoa beans are gathered, and made into chocolate, the precision that goes into making sure every lot is up to the standards required by the company, and how to properly taste fine chocolate.  We tasted seven different kinds, beginning with the darkest and finishing with the creamiest milk chocolate.  Each time, he explained about the particulars of that one, the flavors in it, the source, etc.  We opened the packages, looked it over, to be sure there were no streaks, or white edges.  We rubbed it with our thumbs to release the aroma.  We broke it in half and listened for the snap that would indicate the cocoa content. (the more cocoa, the more solid it is, resulting in a harder snap).  And then, you take a piece in your mouth, let it melt over your tongue and slide down your throat.  Hold your breath for a moment, and concentrate only on the flavors and texture.  The pamphlet I have says that the best time to taste chocolate is late morning or late afternoon, because that is when your senses are most receptive.  The chocolate was beyond words, and I was amazed at how well, Erin took it all in.  She was very serious about the whole process. 

  

It was really an incredible experience, and I know Franz was incredibly pleased that he was able to do that for us, to share his passion.  OK, I'll share about the birthday party, since that involves Franz also.  On Wed night, before everyone had arrived, we had a birthday party in the suite for Regina, who turned 40 on Thursday.  She is from Switzerland also, but has lived in Melbourne with her husband and daughter for 4 years.  Franz insisted he would take care of the cake.  So, there we are gathered in the suite, when the door opens, and in walk three chefs along with Franz.  They were carrying three masterpieces -- two cakes that looked like the most beautiful torts, with fruit slices, and... oh goodness they were beautiful.  The third piece was a chocolate sculpture, similar, but much smaller than something Franz would do in a competition.  It had an oval chocolate base, and then two stems coming up, with large flowers made out of chocolate.  Around the base were chocolate covered strawberries.  Franz had contacted the pastry chef at the resort, who turned out to be someone he knew, and had arranged for these to be done.  The Head Pastry Chef, I think his name was Chris Johnson, kept deferring to Franz and saying that he hoped these would be OK, and up to the standards he had requested.  Just incredible. 

  

It was just so much fun, and that was only one small part of the whole week.  I really wish I could have shared it will all of you. 

Neecie 

  

I think I gained 4 lbs just reading that story.  Now I'm going to gain another 10 lbs after running to the store to get some chocolate. 

  

Thanks for sharing that great story.  Now from the way you describe things in such great detail.....I can see why you were down when you came back. lol 

  

You can share it with us through your stories. 

  

do tell...... 

 

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