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May 13, 2008, 9:30 am PDT

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Ok Loretta, dang not often am I genuinely envious of other people!!! But you win! =P

 

Mother's consisted of me getting up at 6 am and me cleaning house and working. Ah well one day no different from the others. My oldest son called me Saturday and told me happy mother's day, since he had a double shift on Sunday and wasn't going to have time to call. Other than that nada. Now I realize how this has happened....sort of. There was no one to teach the boys about shopping and so forth. My mom would generally just get something and call it from the boys. It seemed silly for me to buy something wrap it up and call it from them. And J's dad could only ever say "you are not my mother"...so he would have no part in it.

 

They are guys. <sigh> Not even so much as a home made card, ecard, frack not even a baseball card! And believe it or not that oldest son of mine one year when he was very little gave me a treasured baseball card for Mother's Day. I still have it. He is the son that called me. The 'good' son. I reminded my other two sons that their 'good' brother knew the appropriate suck up and they were both Damien siblings....grrrr.

 

I also declared I would not cook for them on Mother's day, they said they didn't care. All they could do was lay around and moan about how sore they were from paint ball. I fed them cheese for supper. =P

 

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The Jealous Ami

xoxo

Well Ami, I think that I can help with the jealousy thing. 

 

 While your boys are boys and not mushy little girls, my darling little sweet girls are going to be.......teenage girls and sooner than I would like.  So I enjoy today because I know that hell will be here before I know it.  In a few years my house will be taken over by moody, cranky, bitchy girls who hate their mother and everyone else, except their bffs. 

 

Then you can pity me or better yet my husband, I'll be going through menopause at the same time.

 

Hugs back at you!

 
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May 13, 2008, 9:37 am PDT

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How precious.

 

Ami you are a hoot once again. lol

 

My Mother's Day was that my son and his girlfriend took me and his mom to the track. Now I'm not a gambler and it was freezing flippin cold with a driving rain. They did not dress for it and I don't think it's possible for anyone to really. But man was it fun! I have a friend at work that bets the horses and gave me tips and we won some. The other's I always just pick the names. Like HappyPoint. I told Jeremy that I picked that because I was at a happy point in my life. He grinned and placed the bet. You know what? I think he likes me! lol It really was much fun.

 

My older son didn't even call! Psssshhh. He's in California now and he thinks it's probable that he'll have to go overseas in August. He's never been, he's not married, and he has no kids. Jeremy is just furious about the war and thinks he should move to Canada. If it does happen Jeremy and I are going to watch him get on the plane. Of course I'm worried a tad. I told Jeremy "Why not my son? Everybody else's has to go." Just please to God to be safe. I do trust Him so.

 

I am back to work. I over did it and my Dr put me on part time. I hate that but y'all know me, gangbusters. And of course I've danced. I just need to stay away from that place! I am so blessed to have that job. It makes you realize when you go back how very much you value doing something you completely love. I've slowed down alto more actually and see these people more like people instead of dollar signs. It's an awakening of sorts. Course I did do the on line class thing with "A New Earth". It's funny guys cos now when you see something you see "it" and then the bigger picture starts coming in. KInda cool to look at life that way.

JP,

I think that I would have loved your mother's day too!  I'm not a big gambler, I like to keep my money too much, but I love the races.  So I take it HappyPoint didn't win?  Damn good name!

 

I will keep your son in my thoughts and hope for a quick tour that brings him home safe and sound.

 

I guess it is time for me to check out "A New Earth" sounds like a perfect way to look at life!


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May 13, 2008, 11:20 am PDT

Happy Point did win!

And of course it is as it should be. I don't like gambling either. We really had a ball with my friends picks though. I'm thinking we all ought to just start planning for us all to get together for Derby week next year. We can all stay here and just have a blast. There's plenty of activities that week. Well figure out the sleeping arrangements. I may have to work but ya'll can hang out and do what you want and I'll join every chance I get. There's tradition with the boys to be off that week. We'll all just have to talk about it and see.
 
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May 13, 2008, 6:19 pm PDT

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And of course it is as it should be. I don't like gambling either. We really had a ball with my friends picks though. I'm thinking we all ought to just start planning for us all to get together for Derby week next year. We can all stay here and just have a blast. There's plenty of activities that week. Well figure out the sleeping arrangements. I may have to work but ya'll can hang out and do what you want and I'll join every chance I get. There's tradition with the boys to be off that week. We'll all just have to talk about it and see.
I'm so glad HappyPoint won!!!!  Count me in for Derby week!  I'm short so I don't take up much room ; ).  I can only imagine how much pee my pants fun we would have!!!
 
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May 14, 2008, 6:18 am PDT

Well I have two air mattresses

And a sofa and plenty of room to put them up and maybe more. See now I'm getting excited about this and it's a year away. Too much fun people. Imagine, after all t hese years!!!!!!!! All of us together. I have places concievably for 5 mattresses. And these are those one's that have the pedastle on the bottom so you aren't laying on the floor. Ok I'm gonna drive myself crazy with this. The invitation is out there and anyone that wants to come just let me know. Yippeee!
 
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May 15, 2008, 1:22 am PDT

Yippee!!!

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And a sofa and plenty of room to put them up and maybe more. See now I'm getting excited about this and it's a year away. Too much fun people. Imagine, after all t hese years!!!!!!!! All of us together. I have places concievably for 5 mattresses. And these are those one's that have the pedastle on the bottom so you aren't laying on the floor. Ok I'm gonna drive myself crazy with this. The invitation is out there and anyone that wants to come just let me know. Yippeee!

Count me in!! But I’m not betting on any horses!

 

Do we have to get all “gussied up” to go to the Derby? J

 

 

 

 
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May 15, 2008, 5:30 am PDT

Well some of those people do

It's like the "Who can wear the best hat in the universe" party. I've only gone once and dressed regularly and wore a straw hat. I could not believe the things I was seeing. If you show your tits you get beads. Well I got two and didn't show mine. I had walked down a hill to go to the bathrooms and when I got back up this guy asked where the restroom was and I told him and said "You are not gonna believe what you're gonna see on the way down!" He asked if it was my first time and I said yes and he gave me a bead for being so nice and innocent. The second time it was raining and this young girl and I stood underneath an overhang and chatted. She had like 40 and I asked how. She said she was a dancer and what did it matter to her. She liked me too and gave me a bead. Everybody's so nice and omg the stuff you see in the infield! I'm sooo innocent. And I like it that way! lol
 
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May 15, 2008, 6:34 am PDT

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And a sofa and plenty of room to put them up and maybe more. See now I'm getting excited about this and it's a year away. Too much fun people. Imagine, after all t hese years!!!!!!!! All of us together. I have places concievably for 5 mattresses. And these are those one's that have the pedastle on the bottom so you aren't laying on the floor. Ok I'm gonna drive myself crazy with this. The invitation is out there and anyone that wants to come just let me know. Yippeee!

I mentioned this to my hubby (need him on board for kid care) and his response was "Do it!!!".    This will be a blast!

 
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May 18, 2008, 6:30 am PDT

Well then

That's two! lol

 

Da heck did everybody go?

 
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May 19, 2008, 10:42 am PDT

I'm here....

JP, I would love to come to your house....... so count me in!!!
 

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